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Fight or Flight?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all respond in one of these ways..

Which one are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is and how much I give a shit.

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By *yan19Man
over a year ago

NLC

Depends what it's about but usually fight prefer to stay and if I get beat well I got beat just brush it off

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"We all respond in one of these ways..

Which one are you? "

Depends on how much I care and the situation...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my job only gives me one option unless im facing insurmountable odds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always fight

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My immediate reaction is fight

That could result in death or injury so I should give myself time to assess first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fight.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might knock me down....

But if you expect me to stay there - you're gonna need backup....

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Take the piss is mine.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Stand my ground. Stare them down.

Most don't want to fight. I face confrontation every day for the last 16yrs...hardly ever is it fight.

But when it is...bring everything. In my job, it can be deadly if you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option three first, quick thinking. Then fight, then flight as a rule......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm option 4, rabbit trapped in headlights - I freeze. Or cry.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I wear them down with patient, logical argument. If that doesn't work I make them feel guilty about hitting me in the face.

Either way they normally give in eventually...

Mr ddc

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Physically, I'm not much of a runner so it would be fight everytime.

When it comes to verbal confrontation, I will fight my corner. If it's unnecessary drama from somebody who just wants to shit-stir I will cut them down and then cut them out of my life for good, so I guess that's flight if you remove yourself from the situation...

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think pretty much everyone is fight! I'm suprised

I fight, but if I don't get some sort of sign, then I'm gone.

So primarily flight

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

In self defence I can fight if needs must.

I have a license to lose so fighting unnecessarily means I,d opt for flight by assertive means to responsibly diffuse a heated scenario.

In younger years though fight without hesitation with a good record of win rate.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

Assess first, then select the course of action with the greatest chance of the required outcome

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"I think pretty much everyone is fight! I'm suprised

I fight, but if I don't get some sort of sign, then I'm gone.

So primarily flight "

Mostly bravado I think. In a dangerous environment people reassess their position. Few fly in where fools fear to tread.

Theoretically we would fight, but instinct is to preserve energy....and limbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stand there and look like you don't give a shit while looking for the easiest out. Then walk away calmly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apply camouflage and wait for the foe to pass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fight if i give a damn

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Never been able to back down... Wish i could..it would have saved me a few hidings over the years....

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London.

Try & diffuse the situation if possible but otherwise depends on the situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think pretty much everyone is fight! I'm suprised

I fight, but if I don't get some sort of sign, then I'm gone.

So primarily flight

Mostly bravado I think. In a dangerous environment people reassess their position. Few fly in where fools fear to tread.

Theoretically we would fight, but instinct is to preserve energy....and limbs

"

Self preservation. I fight to find the truth. Then walk.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Fright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might knock me down....

But if you expect me to stay there - you're gonna need backup...."

Weebles wobble but they don't fall down?

Suddenly it sounds less sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

flight.....followed by vengeful planning from a safe distance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fight always!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I've been in a couple of hairy situations where fast talking and humour have defused it, but flight would be my default setting although if push came to shove, I'm fairly sure I'd fight

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Hmmm what good post n interesting answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more a peacemaker I hate confrontation of any sort and hate to intentionally hurt someone but I do stand my ground

Jane x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I just ignore ~ am not giving them the satisfaction by responding to their intimidation.

Just keep the fist clenched tight in readiness.

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