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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I reckon about 5% of people actually meet on here !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why's that? Just cos they aren't meeting you doesn't mean they aren't meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its quite a bit more than that!

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By *ordic36Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Say they want to meet you ,then when you ask for a day/night they are doing something else and dont suggest an alternative day .

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By *ordic36Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I guess I'm the "5%" then- got a meeting tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say they want to meet you ,then when you ask for a day/night they are doing something else and dont suggest an alternative day ."

So you have been blown out by 95% of people on here ? damnnnn that sucks fella.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ding dang do pleased to meet a 5% er stop bragging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm meeting 50% of this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why's that? Just cos they aren't meeting you doesn't mean they aren't meeting."

Sooooo thursday night 23,567 people online at one point tells me he's statistically probably right....

When tiu considers newbies, fakes, inactives, non meeters, time wasters, singles who have a couples profile foo...

A lot less people here for the correct reason of swinging / sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say they want to meet you ,then when you ask for a day/night they are doing something else and dont suggest an alternative day ."

Everyone probably gets that, I've had 2 guys lately say they want to meet, I give them a date and time and they go quiet. I just move on, plenty of others who will meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah ive spat my dummy out this morning POF is easier lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why's that? Just cos they aren't meeting you doesn't mean they aren't meeting.

Sooooo thursday night 23,567 people online at one point tells me he's statistically probably right....

When tiu considers newbies, fakes, inactives, non meeters, time wasters, singles who have a couples profile foo...

A lot less people here for the correct reason of swinging / sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah ive spat my dummy out this morning POF is easier lol"

Tinder is far easier !!!

Least on tinder is really is NSA no socials, no cuddling, no talkin for a week after ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why's that? Just cos they aren't meeting you doesn't mean they aren't meeting.

Sooooo thursday night 23,567 people online at one point tells me he's statistically probably right....

When tiu considers newbies, fakes, inactives, non meeters, time wasters, singles who have a couples profile foo...

A lot less people here for the correct reason of swinging / sex"

I didn't realise that there was only one correct way to use the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pof is only easier because most women on there are looking for a rebound haha. Women here know they have pick of the crops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the guys who see this as an instant sex site that have a moan about people not meeting. It's a swinging site. Funnily enough the guys who I fuck in clubs, who usually aren't on here, don't moan. They are too busy fuckin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If pof and tinder are so good then why are you wasting time on here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always the guys who see this as an instant sex site that have a moan about people not meeting. It's a swinging site. Funnily enough the guys who I fuck in clubs, who usually aren't on here, don't moan. They are too busy fuckin."

Not sure anyone's moaning but merely pointing out that this site is about as active as a 3 legged dog going in circles

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I never understand the reasoning behind these whiney posts. Why would you post something which only reduces your chance of finding what you're moaning you can't get?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Merely stating a supposed sex site isnt what it says on the tin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Merely stating a supposed sex site isnt what it says on the tin"

lol its not guaranteed that by joining you'll get sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always the guys who see this as an instant sex site that have a moan about people not meeting. It's a swinging site. Funnily enough the guys who I fuck in clubs, who usually aren't on here, don't moan. They are too busy fuckin.

Not sure anyone's moaning but merely pointing out that this site is about as active as a 3 legged dog going in circles "

Why do you bother here then if it's as bad as you describe. We have no trouble meeting people, the people we know have no trouble meeting, the people they know.............see the pattern?

Maybe it's just they're not meeting you.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

I think some guys think this site is basically 'unpaid prostitutes'...if POF works better for these guys then please move on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Merely stating a supposed sex site isnt what it says on the tin"

Only for women, we get to pick and choose who we fuck. Men have to wait their turn, coz there's a surplus of them.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We have at least one or two meets a month.......sometimes more

If we go to a party then we meet lots of people in one go

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Merely stating a supposed sex site isnt what it says on the tin"

On the tin I can see it says it's a swingers' site, not a sex site.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Merely stating a supposed sex site isnt what it says on the tin"

And there we have it the final nail in the coffin. "FabSWINGERS" not "FabFUCKEVERYTHING"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah ive spat my dummy out this morning POF is easier lol"

That's because pof is full of girls who don't know what they want. Here you will meet Women who will eat you alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Merely stating a supposed sex site isnt what it says on the tin"

Its not a sex site, like, which has already been pointed out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

makes me smile threads like this - where do you get the % from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 weeks only and not verified - do we assume hes not met yet and got the hump (or not as the case may be)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"makes me smile threads like this - where do you get the % from "

From the few grey matter cells that have taken over the cocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always the guys who see this as an instant sex site that have a moan about people not meeting. It's a swinging site. Funnily enough the guys who I fuck in clubs, who usually aren't on here, don't moan. They are too busy fuckin.

Not sure anyone's moaning but merely pointing out that this site is about as active as a 3 legged dog going in circles "

Is somebody forcing you to stay against your will? If you don't like the site feel free to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be a huge 5% then because we have met a fair few socially or otherwise.

People moaning about meets is usually a reflection of self not the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some guys think this site is basically 'unpaid prostitutes'...if POF works better for these guys then please move on !"

I agree with this and have no more to add.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon about 5% of people actually meet on here !!!! "
People change Life change so % it will change too.. People live and sex is a small part of what makes their life full.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some guys think this site is basically 'unpaid prostitutes'...if POF works better for these guys then please move on !

I agree with this and have no more to add. "
lolol

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York

We've been on here for five weeks, had several social meets, talk on messages, going to a club Saturday might, and had one steaming hot afternoon session!

You get out of this site and scene what you put in. We're loving every minute of it!

And, as other people have said, it's a swingers site, not a sex site, completely different things.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

100% of us meet so I don't know if we're skewing the figures

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Say they want to meet you ,then when you ask for a day/night they are doing something else and dont suggest an alternative day ."

We find that when we suggest a time and day lots stop replying, some people enjoy the idea of swinging but can't go through with it and some people decide we're not for them when faced with the reality of meeting us but far more than 5% of those we've suggested a meet with actually go through with it. You might be falling foul of the men posing as women and couples effect though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If pof and tinder are so good then why are you wasting time on here??"

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I have loads of fun

If I didn't and was getting more off this site I wouldn't be on here moaning about lack of success id be where I was getting all the fun and not even thinking about this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"EDIT; I have some fun

If I didn't and was getting more off this site I wouldn't be on here moaning about lack of success id be where I was getting all the fun and not even thinking about this place "

I have had some fun here too haha

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By *ordic36Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Merely stating a supposed sex site isnt what it says on the tin"

TBH your profile isn't good enough to get you anything. Why did u put up those pics? Since when white undies and moobs are sexy? (allright muscular chest and abs could have some merit but on colored pic from the right angle, yours look more like moobs) And you already know what majority thinks about cock pics vs. face pics. If you can't accomodate without stating a clear reason it means you're married or in relationship. Nobody wants to deal your angry spouse later.

So start with putting up an attractive sexy face picture. also have your account photo verified...before you do this- nothing's gonna happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Merely stating a supposed sex site isnt what it says on the tin"

#instashag

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Just as an FYI OP, at one time on here I had 5 buddies/couples that I would see throughout the week. I would travel over 200 miles+ Mon to Sun and have to book new meets in 2-3 weeks in advance. Sometimes new meets understood, sometimes they didnt, but either way I was meeting pretty much every night of the week for months on end. I would usually take one or two days off a month - usually as I couldnt find a meet or maybe just to re-coup.

It didn't matter that I would finish work at 5, as I would grab a bite and and shower and usually be at theirs by 8, getting back to mine some time after 1 sometimes 2am to get to work by 9!

To say it's a 5% that meet is nonsense - it's all about attitude, taste and the effort made, but granted, there are periods when there are real droughts for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great being in the minority!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's great being in the minority! "

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