FabSwingers.com forum: How to message somone outside age limit

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there a way of doing this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cant

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Why wouldbyou want to? They are not interested in people your age obviously.

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By *i-cambsMan
over a year ago

March

Change your age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferences are set for a reason. If you don't fit them then leave them alone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No. The filter is in place for a reason, if you receive a message from somebody outside your filters it's because you have been in contact previously.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No...Not really sure why you would want too, if you are outside their preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to if they are not into certain ages

Her

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Respect people by respecting their preferencees. Good lord

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wondered if the op has received a message from somebody outside of their age filter, it happens to us sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it happens to us too, I think if it's a couple and 1 of them is under your age preference it let's them message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want too?

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

It can be frustrating if you want to message someone just out side the age range they have up.

But that's what its for and you have to respect that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... And then the blokes complain when the "rude ladies" delete their messages!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I wondered if the op has received a message from somebody outside of their age filter, it happens to us sometimes."

I thought if they have messaged you then you could message them back?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'

In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.

If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.

If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'

In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.

If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.

If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply."

But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'

In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.

If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.

If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply."

Ok just needed this clarifying

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I wondered if the op has received a message from somebody outside of their age filter, it happens to us sometimes.

I thought if they have messaged you then you could message them back? "

Yes that too but on an odd occasion our age filters get knocked off somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Its possible to change your age, send the message, then change it back again. Though I think a good idea (are you listening admin?) Might be to stop people editing their age willy nilly. You put in your d.o.b when registering, so the only reason to change it would be to lie."

I thought they had done that?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I thought they had done that? "

Just checked and b you can only ch a new your dob once if you got it wrong on registration.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As far as I know you can only do that once, otherwise I'd be 35 and holding

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'

In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.

If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.

If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.

But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why. "

But that is surely his business, not ours. As there is no way he can actually contact her directly without her consent by action first I see no problem with letting him no what he'd have to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point. The chances are they won't be interested

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's frustrating when someone on the forum requests advice and I can't message them, as TG are excluded, but it's not the end of the world.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'

In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.

If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.

If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.

But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.

But that is surely his business, not ours. As there is no way he can actually contact her directly without her consent by action first I see no problem with letting him no what he'd have to do."

I agree and its difficult to infer his intent from his post.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

[Removed by poster at 05/03/15 09:35:26]

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"What's the point. The chances are they won't be interested "

Actually I personally am in regular contact with a number of women were I am just outside their stated age range. Normal the result banter started either in the chat rooms or forums. I've even actually met a few of them.

Oh, almost forgot to say, I'd be willing to add you to the list to. LOL.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'

In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.

If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.

If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.

But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.

But that is surely his business, not ours. As there is no way he can actually contact her directly without her consent by action first I see no problem with letting him no what he'd have to do.

I agree and its difficult to infer his intent from his post."

Which is why the 'why' question was asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'

In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.

If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.

If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.

But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why. "

So if I said can you fit two cucumbers up your nostrils it means I want to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's frustrating when someone on the forum requests advice and I can't message them, as TG are excluded, but it's not the end of the world.

Lol... point taken Tina.. I will move on...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Change your age lol"

I changed mine from 52 to 53 miraculously overnight

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'

In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.

If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.

If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.

But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.

So if I said can you fit two cucumbers up your nostrils it means I want to? "

Ha ha ha

I don't think the site rules cover that eventuality. I'll have to go and check.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'

In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.

If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.

If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.

But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.

So if I said can you fit two cucumbers up your nostrils it means I want to? "

yep

why would you want to know if it is possible of you didn't want to try it?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

As far as I know you can only do that once, otherwise I'd be 35 and holding

You look way better than many of the 35 year olds any how.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

As far as I know you can only do that once, otherwise I'd be 35 and holding

You'd pass for 35yo anyway.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As far as I know you can only do that once, otherwise I'd be 35 and holding

You look way better than many of the 35 year olds any how.

thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As far as I know you can only do that once, otherwise I'd be 35 and holding

You'd pass for 35yo anyway.

thank you Mr T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who do change their age and admit it on their first message go straight to the bin as liars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can only change you age once !!!!!!!!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I thought they had done that? "

They have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'

In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.

If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.

If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.

But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.

So if I said can you fit two cucumbers up your nostrils it means I want to?

yep

why would you want to know if it is possible of you didn't want to try it?"

Same reason I want to know if we could possibly travel as light particles across the universe. I'm inquisitive. Don't you ask questions for the sake of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought they had done that?

They have

Sooooo,I can change my age once? 39 here I come!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm off to buy some cucumbers for my nostrils.....honest

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"The question the OP asked was 'can you' not 'should you' or 'would you' or even 'should I'

In answer to the question asked. Yes you can but only as set out below.

If someone messages you then you can reply to their message.

If they invite you as a friend and you accept then most filters no longer apply.

But the fact he wants to know if you can means he wants to which in turn leads to why.

So if I said can you fit two cucumbers up your nostrils it means I want to?

yep

why would you want to know if it is possible of you didn't want to try it?

Same reason I want to know if we could possibly travel as light particles across the universe. I'm inquisitive. Don't you ask questions for the sake of it? "

So if we could would you want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a way of doing this? "

No as that's the whole point of age filters! Lol

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Is there a way of doing this?

No as that's the whole point of age filters! Lol

But, luckily, you can still fab their pics.

he he

And what wonderful pics they are to fab to.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I thought they had done that?

They have

Sooooo,I can change my age once? 39 here I come!!!!! "

What a very young nanna you are then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It pisses me off when I get a message with an age of something then on the profile its completely different

So no im not impressed when I get them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want some fake IDs, brah?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Love how huffy and assumptive people get over the simplest of questions on here

I want to see the cucumber pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your age lol"

That's lying and gets you nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought they had done that?

They have

Sooooo,I can change my age once? 39 here I come!!!!!

What a very young nanna you are then"

Not if she lived in swansea.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I find it really annoying sometimes when you're just one year outside someone's age preferences, either one year too young or one year too old!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Become a platinum member, filters don't apply to their messages..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Change your age lol

That's lying and gets you nowhere

If no one know then it gets them everywhere lol

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