FabSwingers.com forum: Conversation or straight to the point?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies, whilst being on this site Im beginning to notice that not a great deal of ladies like to hold conversation. Is this because you just want to get straight to the point or do you want to be stimulated in conversation first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably just want to establish if they talking to a mouth breathing neck beard, or someone with a decent IQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having looked at some of the single female profiles in the past with my then fb, we came to the conclusion that it may be the ladies that are lacking in intellect so do not know how to hold a decent conversation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm as thick as two short planks but prefer to chat always worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm as thick as two short planks but prefer to chat always worked for me "

don't have to be "clever" to be an intellectual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iq has nothing to do with tha ability to hold a conversation, I've met frighteningly intelligent people with little or no common sense, and no social skills whatsoever. The school of life teaches the most interesting subjects for conversation. The most interesting people I've met are just 'ordinary joes' on the intellectual scale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iq has nothing to do with tha ability to hold a conversation, I've met frighteningly intelligent people with little or no common sense, and no social skills whatsoever. The school of life teaches the most interesting subjects for conversation. The most interesting people I've met are just 'ordinary joes' on the intellectual scale."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im straight to the point about what i want. But like to build the atmosphere with lots of sexy chat And banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i am looking for a fuck right now it'll be in my status and i won't interested in chatting.

if anyone ever tries to engage me in dirty chat then i'm not interested in chatting at all, pisses me off.

don't mind banter or just boring, usual chat, gotta be something i can chat about though.

probably am already chatting by the time someone messages me though.

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

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I like to hold conversations, but to be honest, if the person can't keep my attention on here, I stop replying. Simply because it makes me wonder if there any hope in the bedroom? Or is that just me being picky?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitley agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we chat a fair bit - if people cant chat the small stuff they are more likely to be fuck and go types -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very well said

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I can talk for England but there's a time and place that's appropriate for most things. There's also something about chatting with the right people.

If people aren't that compatible, it can easily lead to conversation drying up - it doesn't mean we're not interesting in talking generally, that we're stupid etc. Some things run their course, with a limited shelf life - like 8 track cartridge players.

If we're on fab, we may also be doing other things - about to cook the tea, looking after kids etc, so again may be a bit briefer than we'd otherwise be.

As for clubs - it's lovely to chat with people but sometimes you find the right partners and want to get on with things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its not if they are 'into conversation', but rather 'captivating their attention' that's the root of it all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im straight to the point about what i want. But like to build the atmosphere with lots of sexy chat And banter

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

The outcome is ultimately to have sex from this site. However I like to get a feel for someone that I shall be getting naked and intimate with.

Chat is a good way, for me, to find the 'yeah I wanna f*ck you'

If a personal is genuinely interested they will chat, build up a rapport and create the excitement for the meet..

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

How do you build the sexual tension and anticipation without a sensuous, sexually charged chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you build the sexual tension and anticipation without a sensuous, sexually charged chat?

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like straight to the point. I know just by looking if I want to Fuck them or not. bit of banter is good when we meet but hate endless messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like straight to the point. I know just by looking if I want to Fuck them or not. bit of banter is good when we meet but hate endless messages. "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you build the sexual tension and anticipation without a sensuous, sexually charged chat?

I don't need to. Can be nice having dirty chat with the right guys but mostly i want something physical and am already in the mod for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you build the sexual tension and anticipation without a sensuous, sexually charged chat?

loads of chat often takes sexually charged tension away and replaces it with contrived boredom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The outcome is ultimately to have sex from this site. However I like to get a feel for someone that I shall be getting naked and intimate with.

Chat is a good way, for me, to find the 'yeah I wanna f*ck you'

If a personal is genuinely interested they will chat, build up a rapport and create the excitement for the meet.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone cant make conversation and have a random chat about anything, i doubt they will be for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if someone cant make conversation and have a random chat about anything, i doubt they will be for me

If someone wants random chat about anything and everything , or has an overpowering desire to make conversation pre play , then I doubt they will be for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if someone cant make conversation and have a random chat about anything, i doubt they will be for me

If someone wants random chat about anything and everything , or has an overpowering desire to make conversation pre play , then I doubt they will be for us

as a single female i like to get to know someone before meeting them, if its all sex sex sex then i know the meet wont go anywhere

if t hat makes sence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if someone cant make conversation and have a random chat about anything, i doubt they will be for me

If someone wants random chat about anything and everything , or has an overpowering desire to make conversation pre play , then I doubt they will be for us

as a single female i like to get to know someone before meeting them, if its all sex sex sex then i know the meet wont go anywhere

if t hat makes sence"

It makes perfect sense and i am sure we would be the same as yourself if we were swinging as singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care, random chat, or spontaneous fuck.

Best of both worlds.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

For me it partly depends on the quality of the first email I get in my inbox. Some emails you get aren't worth the effort they took to write and send, as well as Fab's data costs.

If a first email is interesting - as well as the sender's profile being a likely good match - then it's game on for exploring further.

I like to be as precise as possible that we're all well matched, so that there are no tears down stream. This will involve some discussion of sexual interests, but I don't have a Mensa style survey to be completed by each of us.

If you don't get to the sexual aspects of your potential compatibility then it misses the point, assuming that's what we're messaging about.

At the other extreme, would be a reply detailing the time, date and venue to turn up and fuck, which wouldn't work for me.

I'm having sex with people not just fuck machines, so there's getting the right balance between frank sex talk and inter-personal chat, banter and revelation.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"How do you build the sexual tension and anticipation without a sensuous, sexually charged chat?

loads of chat often takes sexually charged tension away and replaces it with contrived boredom

Ha, if they haven't the sensory acuity to realise what they doing, then they're not worth it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to like the person before taking things further, surely? So being able to talk is pretty much nailed-on prerequisite of any meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like straight to the point. I know just by looking if I want to Fuck them or not. "

I wish I knew just by looking! I'm crap at knowing if I'm going to be attracted to someone from a photo. It's very annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like straight to the point. I know just by looking if I want to Fuck them or not.

I wish I knew just by looking! I'm crap at knowing if I'm going to be attracted to someone from a photo. It's very annoying."

Sometimes you can have a decent guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a little conversation to get a sense of who I'm talking to. If the chat dries up then I'm fairly convinced so will I if we meet. I won't engage in filthy chats as there's too many on here who want no more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like straight to the point. I know just by looking if I want to Fuck them or not.

I wish I knew just by looking! I'm crap at knowing if I'm going to be attracted to someone from a photo. It's very annoying."

thats the issue i have a photo could be uploaded here today but doesnt make it recent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have to like the person before taking things further, surely? So being able to talk is pretty much nailed-on prerequisite of any meet. "

Far from it for us !

We obviously don't play with people we don't like , but we really aren't interested in what goes on in anyone's life outside of fab .

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