FabSwingers.com forum: Reasons to stay alive

By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

This a new book by Matt Haig. I haven't read it yet (it comes out on Diamondsmiles's and Superramfan's birthdays).

I caught the interview on R2 with Simon Mayo driving back from wheelchair training this evening and it sounds great.

What reasons do you have to stay alive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It pisses off my enemies

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Heaven won't take me and Hell still has a restraining order against me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Habit

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Our Son. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family give me reasons to stay alive .. Love my kids .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It pisses off my enemies"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for me its 2 things:

1. My bodybuilding

2. And in 2 years time I will be moving to spain with parents, so lots of studying the language now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My visits to Thailand to visit my dad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to live forever. So far, so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The alternative doesn't really appeal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes for me its 2 things:

1. My bodybuilding

2. And in 2 years time I will be moving to spain with parents, so lots of studying the language now."

Spain lush!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pascal's wager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children and grandchildren.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Heaven won't take me and Hell still has a restraining order against me

Limbo it is then. How low can you go?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Habit

Enjoy your habit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I die of old age I'll be more than ready to go.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

None really my son is dying of cancer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Football.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes for me its 2 things:

1. My bodybuilding

2. And in 2 years time I will be moving to spain with parents, so lots of studying the language now.

Spain lush!"
Yes thanks, its in Alicante, nice place, near the famous beach there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Heaven won't take me and Hell still has a restraining order against me

Limbo it is then. How low can you go?

Is Elmo a swinger?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

The fact I have yet to experience motherhood and the feeling of being loved

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"None really my son is dying of cancer

I'm so sorry to hear that. Right now he needs you so that is a very good reason to stay alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I want to see my children fly the nest and settle with their own lives

I need their rooms for wardrobe space

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"The fact I have yet to experience motherhood and the feeling of being loved

You have felt loved: your parents, family and friends love you. Being in-loved is a different thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have every reason to stay alive

My family

My friends

I'm loving life right now. I feel in my prime. I feel good, like I could conquer anything and everyday I'm getting stronger.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

"None really my son is dying of cancer

I'm so sorry to hear that. Right now he needs you so that is a very good reason to stay alive.

I know that but at 33 its so sad and he has a daughter of 9 months

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"None really my son is dying of cancer

Kind of puts things into perspective.........so sorry to hear that.........xxxx

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

1. I'm going to see both our children happily married off.

2. I have to finish our own house, including all the wood-carving.

3. I haven't even STARTED writing my bucket list yet!

Mr ddc

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"None really my son is dying of cancer

I'm so sorry to hear that. Right now he needs you so that is a very good reason to stay alive.

I know that but at 33 its so sad and he has a daughter of 9 months"

His daughter is going to need her Grampa to tell her all about her daddy.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

"None really my son is dying of cancer

Kind of puts things into perspective.........so sorry to hear that.........xxxx"

Yes but he is so positive it puts me to shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reasons to stay alive .. To love And live .

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

"None really my son is dying of cancer

I'm so sorry to hear that. Right now he needs you so that is a very good reason to stay alive.

I know that but at 33 its so sad and he has a daughter of 9 months

His daughter is going to need her Grampa to tell her all about her daddy.

I am not going any where i just have some bad times

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"None really my son is dying of cancer

I'm so sorry to hear that. Right now he needs you so that is a very good reason to stay alive.

I know that but at 33 its so sad and he has a daughter of 9 months

His daughter is going to need her Grampa to tell her all about her daddy.

I am not going any where i just have some bad times"

Fuck me I just burst out crying reading this....

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

"None really my son is dying of cancer

I'm so sorry to hear that. Right now he needs you so that is a very good reason to stay alive.

I know that but at 33 its so sad and he has a daughter of 9 months

His daughter is going to need her Grampa to tell her all about her daddy.

I am not going any where i just have some bad times

Fuck me I just burst out crying reading this....

Dont he is so strong and wouldnt want you too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorting out stuff for offspring and a little light catching up for some years I feel were wasted on the ex

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"What reasons do you have to stay alive?"

My body hasn't given up yet. Also, I'm stubborn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None really my son is dying of cancer

Mate. I'm sorry to hear that. Thoughts go out to you and your family

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"None really my son is dying of cancer

I'm so sorry to hear that. Right now he needs you so that is a very good reason to stay alive.

I know that but at 33 its so sad and he has a daughter of 9 months

His daughter is going to need her Grampa to tell her all about her daddy.

I am not going any where i just have some bad times

Fuck me I just burst out crying reading this....

You and me both. So sad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This a new book by Matt Haig. I haven't read it yet (it comes out on Diamondsmiles's and Superramfan's birthdays).

I caught the interview on R2 with Simon Mayo driving back from wheelchair training this evening and it sounds great.

What reasons do you have to stay alive?

My son (love of my life)

Parents

Puppies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None really my son is dying of cancer

I'm so sorry to hear that. Right now he needs you so that is a very good reason to stay alive.

I know that but at 33 its so sad and he has a daughter of 9 months

His daughter is going to need her Grampa to tell her all about her daddy.

I am not going any where i just have some bad times

Fuck me I just burst out crying reading this....

Dont he is so strong and wouldnt want you too x"

So sorry to read this, I'm glad your son is finding his strength and hope you find yours too. The above is right your granddaughter will definitely need her grampa. Just lost mine, and so glad I had so many years with him. Thinking of you and your family xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm cheerful.

And all the lovely ladies on here haven't met me yet.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

No reason...

survival of the fittest.

..still surviving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None really my son is dying of cancer

Oh that's heartbreaking, I'm sad for your pain, words fail me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To see both my kids happily settled and I've just found out in off to Madagascar next July.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"To see both my kids happily settled and I've just found out in off to Madagascar next July. "

You like to move it move it?

I have a little bit of envy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To see both my kids happily settled and I've just found out in off to Madagascar next July.

You like to move it move it?

I have a little bit of envy.

I'd love to move it move it (I'm practising)

So very excited. Xx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"None really my son is dying of cancer

Oh that's heartbreaking, I'm sad for your pain, words fail me

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

To get my pension lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Pooch , my walks in Wales, pink nesquick milkshake and socks warm from the tumble dryer

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I want to see as much of the world as possible. That's enough reason for me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

So much to look forward too and I'm quite well at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my life and the people in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am holding out to become President of the Universe. My first edict will be to jail Sam Smith in a sound proof prison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few people that I'd like to outlive. Purely out of spite

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I want to live to be 100 so I can be out of everyone's age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To sit by the river and await the bodies of my enemies to float by...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To sit by the river and await the bodies of my enemies to float by..."

I am lucky. I have only ever had 3 enemies. 2 are dead.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None really my son is dying of cancer

I'm so sorry to hear this! I am sending prayers and good thoughts out to you, your son and his young family!

life really is a bitch sometimes. It takes away the good people, but leaves the likes of that jihadi John - it's so unfair!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have much still to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None really my son is dying of cancer

I'm so sorry to hear that. Right now he needs you so that is a very good reason to stay alive.

I know that but at 33 its so sad and he has a daughter of 9 months

His daughter is going to need her Grampa to tell her all about her daddy.

I am not going any where i just have some bad times

Fuck me I just burst out crying reading this....

yes - i was all for a witty remark and it kinda slapped me in the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to live to make sure the people I care about are ok and financially secure!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

My parents need me to since my brother died.

My cats need me.

I'm too stubborn to give up.

Chocolate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They've tried to kill me three times and I'm still here so either someone has a reason to keep me around or piss me off....

Not sure which some days....

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"They've tried to kill me three times and I'm still here so either someone has a reason to keep me around or piss me off....

Not sure which some days...."

I used to feel like that all the time (I keep living despite the near fatal and acts by my own hand). Now it's just sometimes.

It has come as a bit of a shock to me that I am going to be 50 next month, which is why I keep going on about it. I didn't ever expect to make it to 17, then 25, then 30, 44, and finally 47. Somehow, I'm almost 50.

Apart from my family my reason to stay alive right now is to wear all of my birthday dresses and really enjoy my Fab birthday party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your mum.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Your mum."

If you're happy to stay alive for her then I can die happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many reasons, I simply love life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son, Sex, training, music

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children and my dogs - nearly lost my life so it's precious and I'm keeping it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because reading some posts above, you remember life is precious and to make the most of every day. Besides, I still have things to do, not sure I will ever run out to be honest.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"They've tried to kill me three times and I'm still here so either someone has a reason to keep me around or piss me off....

Not sure which some days....

I used to feel like that all the time (I keep living despite the near fatal and acts by my own hand). Now it's just sometimes.

Apart from my family my reason to stay alive right now is to wear all of my birthday dresses and really enjoy my Fab birthday party.

I didn't expect to make it to my 30s. I'm astounded I've reached 41.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This a new book by Matt Haig. I haven't read it yet (it comes out on Diamondsmiles's and Superramfan's birthdays).

I caught the interview on R2 with Simon Mayo driving back from wheelchair training this evening and it sounds great.

What reasons do you have to stay alive?

Anything and everything. I always have things to look forward to, and things to appreciate.

Your year of 50 things (or whatever you call it) is inspiring me to do non-ordinary things.

Last week I had a mind blowingly fantastic time that will keep me smiling for a VERY long time. (Not sex!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've tried to kill me three times and I'm still here so either someone has a reason to keep me around or piss me off....

Not sure which some days....

I used to feel like that all the time (I keep living despite the near fatal and acts by my own hand). Now it's just sometimes.

Apart from my family my reason to stay alive right now is to wear all of my birthday dresses and really enjoy my Fab birthday party.

Are you going to wear all 3 dresses? I think you should, you love the frocks and it's your party so you're allowed multiple costume changes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've tried to kill me three times and I'm still here so either someone has a reason to keep me around or piss me off....

Not sure which some days....

I used to feel like that all the time (I keep living despite the near fatal and acts by my own hand). Now it's just sometimes.

Apart from my family my reason to stay alive right now is to wear all of my birthday dresses and really enjoy my Fab birthday party.

I didn't expect to make it to my 30s. I'm astounded I've reached 41."

, quite a few people didn't expect me to make my 30's either, despite all efforts, I've probably outlived em all

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By *heOwlMan
over a year ago

Altrincham

Sorry, can't think of any reason, just don't appear to be very good at not being here :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's took me 49 years to look this good,I'm not wasting all that effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grandbabies. I can't wait to be a grandma.... Will be waiting a long time though I feel

Also my boys. And my dog. He is my world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None really my son is dying of cancer

I'm so sorry to hear that. Right now he needs you so that is a very good reason to stay alive.

I know that but at 33 its so sad and he has a daughter of 9 months"

I was going to put something really grumpy about myself, but reading this has put it into perspective. I should kick myself into touch. Words are easy but I am sorry this is happening to you and your son and his family.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"This a new book by Matt Haig. I haven't read it yet (it comes out on Diamondsmiles's and Superramfan's birthdays).

I caught the interview on R2 with Simon Mayo driving back from wheelchair training this evening and it sounds great.

What reasons do you have to stay alive?

Anything and everything. I always have things to look forward to, and things to appreciate.

Your year of 50 things (or whatever you call it) is inspiring me to do non-ordinary things.

Last week I had a mind blowingly fantastic time that will keep me smiling for a VERY long time. (Not sex!)"

Lots of non sex things are mind-blowingly fantastic. Sometimes singing takes me to that place or just seeing something I've never seen before.

The 50 things are proving challenging: I have an achey arm just from wheelchair training without yet doing a full day!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Sorry, can't think of any reason, just don't appear to be very good at not being here :P"

I felt like that too not that long ago. It can pass. The book is about just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like how deep and meaningful some of these replies are.

Mine is pretty basic:

I want to stay alive because I don't want to die. ..

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I like how deep and meaningful some of these replies are.

Mine is pretty basic:

I want to stay alive because I don't want to die. ..

The book is sort of aimed at those of us who don't see any reason to stay alive and would quite like to die. You chirpy chappies don't always make sense to us when we're unhappy.

You do dangerous things on fast bikes though, which must make it easier for you to not be alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...because I have so much I still want to share and experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too lazy to die....too much effort!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None really my son is dying of cancer

Fuck me, that hit me like a sledgehammer, I can't even think of anything positive to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to finish all the seasons of Game of Thrones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None! i cannot think of anything more painful than outliving my Children

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good times don't last forever. And like wise bad times don't last forever. Tomorrow might be better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being told you have cancer... That makes me fight to stay with my husband, children & family.

Clear now & loving life

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By *rman82Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Birds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I don't want to live. It's a horrible thought but it's true.

My friend who has been in similar situations to me who lives in America keeps me alive. Hes always a phonecall away regardless of time difference Etc. I love him with all my heart and soul and don't whaT I would do without that guy in my life.

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Biscotti - you have many friends here - we all feel for you genuinely... Xxx

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

"None really my son is dying of cancer

So sorry for what you must be going through. Try to enjoy the time you have with him. Life is to be cherished. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being alive is awesome. The best is yet to come

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

I had a very lucky escape about 6 years ago. I was diagnosed with multiple pulmonary emboli (blood clots) and if I had proceeded with my planned surgery I most certainly would not be here today.

It made me realise how much I wanted to live because when you break it down all you really have is your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joe's ice-cream

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

heaven doesn't want me and hells afraid I'll take over mwahahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For my kids.. they have.already lost their dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like how deep and meaningful some of these replies are.

Mine is pretty basic:

I want to stay alive because I don't want to die. ..

The book is sort of aimed at those of us who don't see any reason to stay alive and would quite like to die. You chirpy chappies don't always make sense to us when we're unhappy.

You do dangerous things on fast bikes though, which must make it easier for you to not be alive.

Bikes and Dragons Lickety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do dangerous things on fast bikes though, which must make it easier for you to not be alive.

Yeah I didn't quite think that one through properly!

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

Partner has HD and thankfully isn't displaying any symptoms so for now, life is as good as we make it. She's already been let down by one partner and and I came from an unhappy relationship. We have plans involving travel, sunshine and laughter before it all goes shit flavoured. She's an amazing, beautiful woman who I adore and I couldn't imagine life without her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids and my music.

And the fact that my continued existance is a constant source of frustration to the ex is an added bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope cant think of one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winter is nearly over and the summertime is on it's way. Lot's of lovely summer evenings to look forward to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger, I'd always think if I was going to end it, I may as well go steal some money or empty my bank account and go blow it on some amazing holiday first.

And then I probably wouldn't want to end it.

So that strange logic always used to stop me.

These days it's the kids and my husband. We all need each other.

So sorry to everyone on this thread who's posted about sad times in their lives. Big hugs to you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And miss all the fun in the forums

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By *izz and jWoman
over a year ago

reading

My kids but life can b very hard at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better than the alternative, well usually

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

There's no be else to pay the mortgage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Death is so final, where as life is full of possibilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None really my son is dying of cancer

Sorry to hear that puts everything into prospective hope you all stay strong.

On another note I can't die cake and pie needs me plus I've still not decided if cottage pie is a pie

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

You're a long time dead, so get on with living while you can

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Because my death would make far too many people happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pooch , and life is just one great wonderful adventure .

My ace spiffing chums , music ,art , literature and a love of stupidly large animal shaped kites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Death aint an option unless its the grim reeper knocking right ?

My kids and my kids alone

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Here's a good reason...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QP-dwotCIvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads...everyday you wake up its a new adventure...you create and live the day like a dream.

If you chose to focus on life's dreary problems accumulating then you're missing the gift.

And nature and the wilds are the perfect place to disappear into and realise there's a lot of crap not thinking about.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Gosh! This thread was raised from the dead and lives again.

I read the book and it has some useful bits to it.

My reasons haven't really changed in the last 45 weeks.

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

Wheelchair training?????

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I learnt what it's like to live, and even the ordinary non eventful days are a p!measure. Spending as little time in bed as possible as I just want to be awake. Also knowing I'm needed and !loved. Judging by my last post on this thread this change has been going on awhile now.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Hope and appreciation of the little things that make us happy xx

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Wheelchair training?????"

For my day in a wheelchair.

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

"Wheelchair training?????

For my day in a wheelchair.

Details of the training ???? .....

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Wheelchair training?????

For my day in a wheelchair.

Details of the training ???? ....."

Read the blog!

It's near the beginning... which is now at the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To experience life is a reason to stay alive....I'm fighting 'C'at the moment and determined to have a healthy future

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"To experience life is a reason to stay alive....I'm fighting 'C'at the moment and determined to have a healthy future

I wish you strength and future good health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To experience life is a reason to stay alive....I'm fighting 'C'at the moment and determined to have a healthy future

I wish you strength and future good health.

Thanks love x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To experience life is a reason to stay alive....I'm fighting 'C'at the moment and determined to have a healthy future

You go girl - I had it 3 years ago and now I've never felt better - keep positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To experience life is a reason to stay alive....I'm fighting 'C'at the moment and determined to have a healthy future

You go girl - I had it 3 years ago and now I've never felt better - keep positive

So pleased to hear you're fit and well...that inspires me thank you so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To experience life is a reason to stay alive....I'm fighting 'C'at the moment and determined to have a healthy future

You go girl - I had it 3 years ago and now I've never felt better - keep positive

So pleased to hear you're fit and well...that inspires me thank you so much

xx"

You're very welcome lovely - if you ever want to chat pm me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been suicidal at times and my kids are the reason I haven't gone through with it. Now I'm on the up I can see that there are hundreds of other reasons to stick around, but if I hadn't been a mum I wouldn't be here now to realise that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been suicidal at times and my kids are the reason I haven't gone through with it. Now I'm on the up I can see that there are hundreds of other reasons to stick around, but if I hadn't been a mum I wouldn't be here now to realise that."

I've been there too....life is so precious especially when it's threatened. Enjoy the times with your children you are so fortunate to have them ...take care x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been there too....life is so precious especially when it's threatened. Enjoy the times with your children you are so fortunate to have them ...take care x"

Thank you

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