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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And a no show . Gutted lad. Hard enough getting a decent conversation with a lot of people on here then get let down when Ye do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the time after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're struggling ourselves to fin couples, but we are patient and will get there eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up kid, your time will come

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Analyse what you could have done differently that may have avoided this - apart from not using fab. Did you speak, get confirmations, share accurate photos of you, ensure you both had compatible interests, did she give away some uncertainty etc?

She may have turned up and decided you weren't for her, so it may not be that she didn't make the effort. She may have had an emergency - they can happen - but I always get updates on travel etc, so there couldn't be surprises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it happens Op better luck next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really sorry that happened on your first meet! I know it's crap - i've had as many no-shows and let-down's as anyone i'd imagine!

Hope your next one's a really great meet to make up for it! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens dude point is to not let it grind you down and have a cynical rage out on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep yer pecker up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind! At least you had the courage to turn up yourself. I'm sure it can be a shock, but at least you've got over the initial barrier of waiting at the right place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And a no show . Gutted lad. Hard enough getting a decent conversation with a lot of people on here then get let down when Ye do "
on the plus side you have learnt a fab lesson laugh it off and keep your eyes open! it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens put it down to experience and move on with with your head held high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens dude, and it's not just the guys, I know a really lovely girl that many guys would fall over themselves for a chance with who has been let down a few times lately, there are a lot of idiots and timewasters out there, the trick is to pick yourself up and carry on regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes their loss not yours xxx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not everyone will let you down,keep smiling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In hindsight probably shouldn't have moaned on here. Not gonna make the situation any better.

My apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

As forum whinges go,yours hasn't been the worse I've seen

Sorry your time was wasted and hopefully the next meet will be awesome to make up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl get used to it we had 15 out of 16 not show lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Pmsl get used to it we had 15 out of 16 not show lol "

Ok you win

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I've had so many no shows, most be 6 in last month or so, even today. Luckily a kind man came to my rescue & we had a nice social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In hindsight probably shouldn't have moaned on here. Not gonna make the situation any better.

My apologies"
your amongst like minded people mate am i wrong thinking you only thought about "moaning" because you feel better getting it off your chest and getting support and advice off some nice people has helped? good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate the support guys

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