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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, im fairly new to this in the sense that , I've never really spoken to people and have never met anyone .

I need help though, as no1 ever replies to my messages.

I don't just send pics of my penis (most girls have seen 1) and I'm not rude, in fact im always quite nice and polite , however no1 ever replies.

The annoying thing is I'm a decent looking, fit, single, young professional , who genuinely just wants NSA sex and no drama. Not here to mess folk about however doesn't seem to work for me.

Am I doing something wrong ?

Please help

Thanks in advance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask, why do you draw the line at 88 year olds?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha thanks for bringing that to my attention. I have changed that. However an age is just a number ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not having any replys to your messages is quite normal here for alot of single guys im afraid..you aint alone..

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By *ustsomedude83Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Get a profile pic up, and some regular photos, use the forum and have a chat. Works better than messaging women directly I find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be an asshole. Bitches love an asshole. But be charming too. So if you're gonna compliment her, kick her in the shin afterwards. Always important to have the right balance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're options will diminish by virtue of fact you have no pictures, a fairly generic profile text and unable to travel or accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be an asshole. Bitches love an asshole. But be charming too. So if you're gonna compliment her, kick her in the shin afterwards. Always important to have the right balance."

Even better, be the spare bit of skin between the arsehole and balls, a man lol x

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Be an asshole. Bitches love an asshole. But be charming too. So if you're gonna compliment her, kick her in the shin afterwards. Always important to have the right balance."

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need public pics...you wont get anywhere without them...sell yourself!!.. good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah ok !

It has become apparant that being nice is my main downfall, plus a few pics would help.

Appreciate the help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be an asshole. Bitches love an asshole. But be charming too. So if you're gonna compliment her, kick her in the shin afterwards. Always important to have the right balance.

Even better, be the spare bit of skin between the arsehole and balls, a man lol x"

So essentially you're saying be a perineum? So my neighbours are an asshole and a dick? Doesn't sound ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be an asshole. Bitches love an asshole. But be charming too. So if you're gonna compliment her, kick her in the shin afterwards. Always important to have the right balance.

Even better, be the spare bit of skin between the arsehole and balls, a man lol x

So essentially you're saying be a perineum? So my neighbours are an asshole and a dick? Doesn't sound ideal."

No but at least you'll be kept warm on a winters day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are probably put off by your heading? It looks like you might like yourself a lot. Most ladies dont care if your a "professional"! This isnt a job agency lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be an asshole. Bitches love an asshole. But be charming too. So if you're gonna compliment her, kick her in the shin afterwards. Always important to have the right balance.

Even better, be the spare bit of skin between the arsehole and balls, a man lol x

So essentially you're saying be a perineum? So my neighbours are an asshole and a dick? Doesn't sound ideal.

No but at least you'll be kept warm on a winters day x"

My beard does that for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are probably put off by your heading? It looks like you might like yourself a lot. Most ladies dont care if your a "professional"! This isnt a job agency lol."

Exactly. Take a tip from my heading - "I like to dissect girls. Did you know I'm utterly insane?".

See? Much less off-putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile might benefit from a few public pics and an avatar, shadow avatars are less appealing than ones with a real pic...and the pics don't have to show your face or anything so I'm sure you could add some nice well thought out ones.

Beyond that your profile isn't too bad, says what your looking for etc but you could possibly add a bit more about what you have to offer and about your character etc...

Do a forum search on blokes asking the same thing...go to forum search and type in 'no meets' or 'profile help' or something similar and you'll find a load of threads with advice...go look at what some of the more popular local guys are doing, read profiles and see what folk are looking for etc....in short, do some research, all the answers are here someplace,...take what you find and mould it to fit you....

The danger of just doing what folk say on a forum thread is that you'll end up with a profile full of bits of what others recommend rather than one that represents you, so go hunt for ideas and make them your own...there's plenty inspiration to be had.

Then of course if your happy with your on line precence, get yourself to a club, a munch or a social...in the flesh as it were..

In short, take the reigns and help yourself out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There isn't a great deal to say," is not the most attractive of lines. Say something.

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