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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have 45 friends (many of which are couples) on our profile but only met 6 people off the list, many not local.

Does they say alot about us, them, or both?

Im guessing having a busy life isnt an excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're local but never got an invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all "collect" friends for different reasons. Some actually become friends, some, we just perve the pics, and some, we add to the list to make us feel good.

We can change it all by pressing a button though can't we?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we're local but never got an invite "

To be a friend, meet or both?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we all "collect" friends for different reasons. Some actually become friends, some, we just perve the pics, and some, we add to the list to make us feel good.

We can change it all by pressing a button though can't we?

"

Agreed. I guess we havnt as we`ve always hoped it/they would prove useful sometime lol

Some im not sure we`ve even exchanged messages with.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Nobody goes on to my friends list without a bit of previous contact and an intention to meet.

I don't get speculative friend requests due to not having spectacular bosoms on my avatar.

And I have met, in some capacity, 60% of the list. The others will take time, but will I'm sure be worth it.

Messaging happens from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody goes on to my friends list without a bit of previous contact and an intention to meet.

I don't get speculative friend requests due to not having spectacular bosoms on my avatar.

And I have met, in some capacity, 60% of the list. The others will take time, but will I'm sure be worth it.

Messaging happens from time to time."

spectacular boobs! now why didn't we think of that?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"We have 45 friends (many of which are couples) on our profile but only met 6 people off the list, many not local.

Does they say alot about us, them, or both?

Im guessing having a busy life isnt an excuse "

Add me, add me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nobody goes on to my friends list without a bit of previous contact and an intention to meet.

I don't get speculative friend requests due to not having spectacular bosoms on my avatar.

And I have met, in some capacity, 60% of the list. The others will take time, but will I'm sure be worth it.

Messaging happens from time to time."

Think we probably fell into accepting & offering friends so`s to see more pics to see the people concerned better & vice versa, do wonder however weather some of its pic collecting & also surprised by how few have the fella in any of the pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have 45 friends (many of which are couples) on our profile but only met 6 people off the list, many not local.

Does they say alot about us, them, or both?

Im guessing having a busy life isnt an excuse

Add me, add me!

"

So you can see more of the wife`s tits lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"spectacular boobs! now why didn't we think of that? "

I thought you had

/smarm

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

[Removed by poster at 17/09/10 19:48:30]

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"We have 45 friends (many of which are couples) on our profile but only met 6 people off the list, many not local.

Does they say alot about us, them, or both?

Im guessing having a busy life isnt an excuse

Add me, add me!

So you can see more of the wife`s tits lol "

Oh puleeese, i was just being nice.

AND i was going to meet.

But if you're going to be like that, fine then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 17/09/10 19:48:30]"

Go on say it we`re broard shouldred lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have 45 friends (many of which are couples) on our profile but only met 6 people off the list, many not local.

Does they say alot about us, them, or both?

Im guessing having a busy life isnt an excuse

I was only jokin lol you coming down this way then?

Add me, add me!

So you can see more of the wife`s tits lol

Oh puleeese, i was just being nice.

AND i was going to meet.

But if you're going to be like that, fine then!

"

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"We have 45 friends (many of which are couples) on our profile but only met 6 people off the list, many not local.

Does they say alot about us, them, or both?

Im guessing having a busy life isnt an excuse

I was only jokin lol you coming down this way then?

Add me, add me!

So you can see more of the wife`s tits lol

Oh puleeese, i was just being nice.

AND i was going to meet.

But if you're going to be like that, fine then!

"

Do you only meet couples?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well working on our friends to met ratio we hardly meet anyone lol

Generally though yes but that could open to change

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Well working on our friends to met ratio we hardly meet anyone lol

Generally though yes but that could open to change "

Don't worry about it - i'll bring a mate!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well working on our friends to met ratio we hardly meet anyone lol

Generally though yes but that could open to change

Don't worry about it - i'll bring a mate!"

Good answer! shoulda seen that one coming, only 1 mate!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Well working on our friends to met ratio we hardly meet anyone lol

Generally though yes but that could open to change

Don't worry about it - i'll bring a mate!

Good answer! shoulda seen that one coming, only 1 mate!"

*whispers* i've only got one mate too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well working on our friends to met ratio we hardly meet anyone lol

Generally though yes but that could open to change

Don't worry about it - i'll bring a mate!

Good answer! shoulda seen that one coming, only 1 mate!

*whispers* i've only got one mate too!"

What about 1 or more woman then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be more than happy to have a longer friends list! Been on here a couple of months now and still only have two friends - only one is a genuine friend, a couple who I've met and really like.

I take part in the forums but I don't push myself on people.

Is this common? Or am I doing something wrong?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Well working on our friends to met ratio we hardly meet anyone lol

Generally though yes but that could open to change

Don't worry about it - i'll bring a mate!

Good answer! shoulda seen that one coming, only 1 mate!

*whispers* i've only got one mate too!

What about 1 or more woman then "

Ah, so there's room for negotiation then...

(you and i are going to get along JUST FINE)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well working on our friends to met ratio we hardly meet anyone lol

Generally though yes but that could open to change

Don't worry about it - i'll bring a mate!

Good answer! shoulda seen that one coming, only 1 mate!

*whispers* i've only got one mate too!

What about 1 or more woman then

Ah, so there's room for negotiation then...

(you and i are going to get along JUST FINE)

"

Most things are negotiable lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I'd be more than happy to have a longer friends list! Been on here a couple of months now and still only have two friends - only one is a genuine friend, a couple who I've met and really like.

I take part in the forums but I don't push myself on people.

Is this common? Or am I doing something wrong? "

It's very common to be a single male with little response. And all of us who suffer the affliction are doing something wrong.

But if we knew what it was....we'd be mad to share the info!!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Well working on our friends to met ratio we hardly meet anyone lol

Generally though yes but that could open to change

Don't worry about it - i'll bring a mate!

Good answer! shoulda seen that one coming, only 1 mate!

*whispers* i've only got one mate too!

What about 1 or more woman then

Ah, so there's room for negotiation then...

(you and i are going to get along JUST FINE)

Most things are negotiable lol"

Ecellent.

I'll leave it to you to negiotiate with your good lady as to why you should be left alone with the 3 amazonian blondes i'm bringing, while she takes tea with me in the summer house.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well working on our friends to met ratio we hardly meet anyone lol

Generally though yes but that could open to change

Don't worry about it - i'll bring a mate!

Good answer! shoulda seen that one coming, only 1 mate!

*whispers* i've only got one mate too!

What about 1 or more woman then

Ah, so there's room for negotiation then...

(you and i are going to get along JUST FINE)

Most things are negotiable lol

Ecellent.

I'll leave it to you to negiotiate with your good lady as to why you should be left alone with the 3 amazonian blondes i'm bringing, while she takes tea with me in the summer house.

"

Negotiation over....when you all coming?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Well working on our friends to met ratio we hardly meet anyone lol

Generally though yes but that could open to change

Don't worry about it - i'll bring a mate!

Good answer! shoulda seen that one coming, only 1 mate!

*whispers* i've only got one mate too!

What about 1 or more woman then

Ah, so there's room for negotiation then...

(you and i are going to get along JUST FINE)

Most things are negotiable lol

Ecellent.

I'll leave it to you to negiotiate with your good lady as to why you should be left alone with the 3 amazonian blondes i'm bringing, while she takes tea with me in the summer house.

Negotiation over....when you all coming? "

I tried to pm you to make arrangements a while ago, but you've blocked my entire gender (though it could be just me you've blocked, you wouldnt be the 1st...).

So i'll just have to find another couple who have a free Saturday night/sunday morning and don't mind me pitching up with Candy, Debbie and Honey.

Never mind. Sigh.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"you've blocked my entire gender (though it could be just me you've blocked

"

You can tell the difference.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"you've blocked my entire gender (though it could be just me you've blocked

You can tell the difference."

I know.

They've blocked my sex.

You've blocked me.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"you've blocked my entire gender (though it could be just me you've blocked

You can tell the difference.

I know.

They've blocked my sex.

You've blocked me."

I don't fancy you.

You're not missing much....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody goes on to my friends list without a bit of previous contact and an intention to meet.

I don't get speculative friend requests due to not having spectacular bosoms on my avatar.

And I have met, in some capacity, 60% of the list. The others will take time, but will I'm sure be worth it.

Messaging happens from time to time."

Oy Sharpy - you have not messaged me for at least a day or two

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"you've blocked my entire gender (though it could be just me you've blocked

You can tell the difference.

I know.

They've blocked my sex.

You've blocked me.

I don't fancy you.

You're not missing much...."

Look up "platonic".

(like you'd be good enough for me, Ha!)

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Oy Sharpy - you have not messaged me for at least a day or two "

It's even longer than that, to my shame.

Although I didn't say *I* instigated

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

(like you'd be good enough for me, Ha!)"

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eh !

We add people to our friends list for two reasons and two reasons only

We have met them and chat to them on here every now and again

They have invited us to see thier private gallery and they stay on our friends list long enough for us both to do that then get deleted

We do have our HOTLIST which we use to keep track of people we are interested in meeting and friends we dont speak to very often but that's for us only to see, our friends know who they are and dont actually need to be on a list.

Back to the OPs question of "what does it say to some people about others"

For us:

Big friends list no verifications for real meets - avoid, more than likely just picture collectors

Been on here for a long time, big friends list couple of meets, - unless they are asking to meet in the next 2 days avoid, it will probably never happen

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