Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to The Lounge |
Jump to newest |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"read it in book on transvestism and gender disorders" Was this book sponsored by an American Evangelical Institute by any chance? Even calling it a gender 'disorder' is a bit odd. It's not your fault that you don't fit neatly into a gender type, its society's for HAVING gender types. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"read it in book on transvestism and gender disorders" From the 1920's?? If you really are not happy being a transvestite then why advertise yourself as one on here? If i felt a compulsion to be something in not the last thing I'd do is advertise myself as the very thing I don't like about myself. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"read it in book on transvestism and gender disorders Was this book sponsored by an American Evangelical Institute by any chance? Even calling it a gender 'disorder' is a bit odd. It's not your fault that you don't fit neatly into a gender type, its society's for HAVING gender types." no it was written buy 2 distinguished professors..not sure if they were religious... | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"read it in book on transvestism and gender disorders From the 1920's?? If you really are not happy being a transvestite then why advertise yourself as one on here? If i felt a compulsion to be something in not the last thing I'd do is advertise myself as the very thing I don't like about myself. " im happy being one now, but would rather not be one if i could choose. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Odds bodkins!" You crazy! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"read it in book on transvestism and gender disorders From the 1920's?? If you really are not happy being a transvestite then why advertise yourself as one on here? If i felt a compulsion to be something in not the last thing I'd do is advertise myself as the very thing I don't like about myself. im happy being one now, but would rather not be one if i could choose. " That's quite a confusing statement. Would you rather be a man with no compulsion to dress or would you rather be a woman so can dress all the time? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"read it in book on transvestism and gender disorders From the 1920's?? If you really are not happy being a transvestite then why advertise yourself as one on here? If i felt a compulsion to be something in not the last thing I'd do is advertise myself as the very thing I don't like about myself. im happy being one now, but would rather not be one if i could choose. " I know what you mean. Hugs xx | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'll tell you what, I met 1 very unconvincing 1 last night... If this is a medical condition or whatever they why aren't the doctors or nhs or some kind of organisation funding lifestyle classes I.e. Hair and makeup. You can spend thousands on surgery but if you can't get your hair and makeup correct... Well it's a recipient for disaster." Women don't get hair and make up lessons in the NHS, why should men. If I want to know how to do make up then I go to YouTube or other sites that tell me how to do it. I could go to make up lessons etc. The nhs do a lot of stuff around gender reassignment. Counselling to make sure the decision is right and the person is ready, surgery, not just to change the major bits but facial reconstruction etc to feminise their look bit they can't do everything. Part of showing you are ready to change is doing some of the changing yourself. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ah just remembered and his clothes where hurrendous- a full length floral skirt very unflattering!" Was this person on here btw? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ah just remembered and his clothes where hurrendous- a full length floral skirt very unflattering! Was this person on here btw? " Haha no way, just crossed path in a bar! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"read it in book on transvestism and gender disorders From the 1920's?? If you really are not happy being a transvestite then why advertise yourself as one on here? If i felt a compulsion to be something in not the last thing I'd do is advertise myself as the very thing I don't like about myself. im happy being one now, but would rather not be one if i could choose. That's quite a confusing statement. Would you rather be a man with no compulsion to dress or would you rather be a woman so can dress all the time? " oh id sooner be a woman absolutely. being a tranny as made my life difficult to say the least. tho ive no accepted it and lifes better then when i was trapped in the closet hating myself..its interesting that so far most seem to think its completly normal.. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'll tell you what, I met 1 very unconvincing 1 last night... If this is a medical condition or whatever they why aren't the doctors or nhs or some kind of organisation funding lifestyle classes I.e. Hair and makeup. You can spend thousands on surgery but if you can't get your hair and makeup correct... Well it's a recipient for disaster. Women don't get hair and make up lessons in the NHS, why should men. If I want to know how to do make up then I go to YouTube or other sites that tell me how to do it. I could go to make up lessons etc. The nhs do a lot of stuff around gender reassignment. Counselling to make sure the decision is right and the person is ready, surgery, not just to change the major bits but facial reconstruction etc to feminise their look bit they can't do everything. Part of showing you are ready to change is doing some of the changing yourself. " I thought the most they did was the op and shave down the adams apple. Other things like laser hair removal, cheekbone reconstruction etc has to be done privately? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ah just remembered and his clothes where hurrendous- a full length floral skirt very unflattering!" some look better than others lol..sometimes its not what you wear its how u wear it | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ah just remembered and his clothes where hurrendous- a full length floral skirt very unflattering! Was this person on here btw? Haha no way, just crossed path in a bar! " I was always told if you cant say anything nice about someone dont say anything. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ah just remembered and his clothes where hurrendous- a full length floral skirt very unflattering! Was this person on here btw? Haha no way, just crossed path in a bar! I was always told if you cant say anything nice about someone dont say anything. " Looks like he wasn't told that or anything else useful in foster care | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"well i dont feel like im a normal man and i'd rather not be a tranny if i could help it anyway transvestism is classed as a mental illness. and my compulsion to buy shoes is a bit OCD so in my mind im happy to say im a bit bonkers" Man. Ok this word describes masculinism, and is likely to refer to the male gender, although man used to be used to refer to both males and females (so did he and him). I think if you're reading psychology stuff you need to read more about what defines anything, perceptions and stuff like this. You'll realise what labels really are and how they work. But yes the DSM does describe transveste FETISHISM as a mental disorder but you also need to know what a paraphillia mental disorder is. ALSO mental disorders are only classed as mental illnesses IF they cause distress to the person experiencing them or they cannot function because of them. http://www.minddisorders.com/Py-Z/Transvestic-fetishism.html | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'll tell you what, I met 1 very unconvincing 1 last night... If this is a medical condition or whatever they why aren't the doctors or nhs or some kind of organisation funding lifestyle classes I.e. Hair and makeup. You can spend thousands on surgery but if you can't get your hair and makeup correct... Well it's a recipient for disaster." because transvestisim isnt transsexualism. this man just likes to dress up im a REAL transsexual and quite offended at this thread. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |