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By *ce king OP Man
over a year ago

montreal

hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do try to but no, very rarely do I get a response back..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I assume if they've viewed my profile and they're interested then they'll message me themselves. If they've looked and not messaged, then they're probably not interested. Hence I don't bother looking at who's looked because it doesn't really tell me anything.

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By *bandAbCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire.

Not all profiles tick all the boxes for us so a browse helps see what we like

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Why on earth would I?

a) The chances are that only a small fraction of those who look at my profile are my type and local

b) Until they look at my profile, they don't know if they fancy me or if they are what I'm looking for. We may be totally incompatible.

c) If they've looked at my profile and not winked or messaged, I consider that an indication they're probably not interested.

d) When my profile isn't hidden, I get far too many profile views per day to be able to message even a fraction of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?"

Most ppl especially guys don't read your profile ,which can be annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would find it nearly impossible to reply to everyone that viewed our profile. We do however try to reply to all mails even if its a thanks for the offer but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?

Most ppl especially guys don't read your profile ,which can be annoying

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i read yours i dont usually get past "wont meet smokers" nice pics too

so some guys do read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surprisingly we find its women/couples that tend not to read ours lol we expect most men to go straight to the pics its only human lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"surprisingly we find its women/couples that tend not to read ours lol we expect most men to go straight to the pics its only human lol"

Ooh... sudden inspiration!

Maybe I should represent the pertinent points of what I am and am not looking for in pictorial format!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"surprisingly we find its women/couples that tend not to read ours lol we expect most men to go straight to the pics its only human lol

Ooh... sudden inspiration!

Maybe I should represent the pertinent points of what I am and am not looking for in pictorial format!

lmao hun honest we expect the guys to go charging in but expect a bit of tact from women/couples and some have tact some charge in....thinking about it that may be the male half of the couple and a dude pretending to be a single female lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"surprisingly we find its women/couples that tend not to read ours lol we expect most men to go straight to the pics its only human lol

Ooh... sudden inspiration!

Maybe I should represent the pertinent points of what I am and am not looking for in pictorial format!

Men fibbing to try to get shags/dirty chat/rude photos? No! Surely not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"surprisingly we find its women/couples that tend not to read ours lol we expect most men to go straight to the pics its only human lol

Ooh... sudden inspiration!

Maybe I should represent the pertinent points of what I am and am not looking for in pictorial format!

Men fibbing to try to get shags/dirty chat/rude photos? No! Surely not!

lmfao well i have heard of such things but unsure as to the validity of the facts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tut tut men eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol yeah tell us about it lol

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By *bandAbCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire.

"surprisingly we find its women/couples that tend not to read ours lol we expect most men to go straight to the pics its only human lol

Ooh... sudden inspiration!

Maybe I should represent the pertinent points of what I am and am not looking for in pictorial format!

Men fibbing to try to get shags/dirty chat/rude photos? No! Surely not!

Next you'll be telling us that the males sometimes get horny and want to have sex.....shick horror lol

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By *bandAbCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire.

Shock*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and the easter bunny don't exist

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By *bandAbCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire.

"and the easter bunny don't exist"

What????? Really.....

So where does all the eggs come from then thatbi find in my garden lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't as quite a lot won't be for me ie age, distance etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and the easter bunny don't exist

What????? Really.....

So where does all the eggs come from then thatbi find in my garden lol"

lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?

Most ppl especially guys don't read your profile ,which can be annoying

i read yours i dont usually get past "wont meet smokers" nice pics too

so some guys do read profiles "

Ka thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?

Most ppl especially guys don't read your profile ,which can be annoying

i read yours i dont usually get past "wont meet smokers" nice pics too

so some guys do read profiles

Ka thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no cos there isnt enough time in the day - a quick glance at whose looked and if anybody catches our eye we might but as others said if theyre interested they would message us themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I assume if they've viewed my profile and they're interested then they'll message me themselves. If they've looked and not messaged, then they're probably not interested. Hence I don't bother looking at who's looked because it doesn't really tell me anything. "

This.

The reason why many browse in stealth mode is because they might not wish to be messaged for simply viewing a profile.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. It's hard enough keeping on top of an inbox, without stimulating more.

People can look for a variety of reasons and I'd assume people using the forums take a peek at others, to get more of a feel for them. Others may look at someone and decide they're not for them, so a follow on message would be pointless. Leave lookers to initiate their chat if and when they're ready, in general is probably wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. If they have looked at my profile and my pics then not messages or winked I can only assume I was not for them. So why would I ?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?"

Very rarely but i do...if i noticed they looked at my profile repeatedly.

As a CD (guy-in-a-dress), i very rarely initiate the contact because i dont want to offend them, but you as a guy, i dont see a problem if you send a message or wink at them if you want to.

So what if they dont reply, at least you try something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even message those who wink at me. A lot of couples and women wink at me but if they're interested then they should message me. I'm not doing doing any chasing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Certainly not. It would be like a shopkeeper running down the street after anybody and everybody happened to glance into their shop window. It smacks of desperation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even message those who wink at me. A lot of couples and women wink at me but if they're interested then they should message me. I'm not doing doing any chasing "

The last woman who winked at me, I messaged back, five days later we are making sweet coitus. Worked for me.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I always check out any women who may have viewed my profile or fab'd my pics. It's always nice to know who's been checking me out. And if I like the look of them I'll send them a quick message.

It's not like I'm having to trawl through hundreds of women's profiles just happy if I get two or three looking a day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. I like taking pics and upload new ones very frequently so there's always people passing through having a bit of a look.

I post random rubbish in the forums too, so there's those who go and have a look at who is posting.

That's all just natural, so I don't ever take it to assume someone is interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes when I check someone out. I think "yeah she looks and sounds nice" then I think what's the point because I won't get a reply so I don't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they like us, they'll message us. Other than that, they could be looking for any number of reasons.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I have no idea why anyone would do that? It's also the reason I stealth browse. If I liked the person I would send a message.

'I see you looked at my profile so thought I would message' messages are annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I rarely look at winks, friend invites or who looked at me. Busy enough with forums & inbox to think about those too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I rarely look at winks, friend invites or who looked at me. Busy enough with forums & inbox to think about those too!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oesn't really tell me anything. "

This sums it up really, well put young lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always look to see who has looked at us. If they have an amazing profile and pics then i will wink and wait to see if they wink back or message. Have a couple of friends on here, near and far, who we will get to meet and play with hopefully at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Certainly not. It would be like a shopkeeper running down the street after anybody and everybody happened to glance into their shop window. It smacks of desperation."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?"

As already said if they were interested they'd message or wink after viewing profile....

Still contact a few if their pics and profile jump out to me and most of those do reply if only to say sorry not for us lol

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?"

This is why lot's of us go into stealth mode to look at profiles

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No i think if they have looked and not messaged they are probably not interested.

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over a year ago

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?"

I look at loads of profiles.i tend to be bit of a pic fabber,however as a couple if we want to message someone its not to thank them for looking at our profile.i would have to spend all day doing that!

We always reply to winks,and messages though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink is a welcome surprise but nothing more, but, I'd rather find a message in my inbox from someone I've yet to converse with when I log in.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Certainly not. It would be like a shopkeeper running down the street after anybody and everybody happened to glance into their shop window. It smacks of desperation.

I can imagine all the complaints there'd be on the forums if everyone adopted this! 'you looked so I messaged you and you deleted my my message! How rude!'

Two no doubt common scenarios below!

"Hi. I see you've browsed my profile so thought I'd say hello. How are you?"

"We did. Wish we hadn't. We're fine thanks but a tad busy washing our eyes with bleach!"

"Hi. I see you've browsed my profile so thought I'd say hello. How are you?"

"I did. Sorry. Didn't see anything interesting. Not for me."

"But, but, but.....you looked. You must have been interested?"

"No. I looked to see if I'd be interested. I wasn't."

"So why did you bother looking then?"

"Erm. So if know if I was interested. Which I'm not. Sorry"

"Typical bloody woman/couple (delete as applicable) - you start a conversation, it's going fine and then for no reason you get cut dead and will probably be blocked. How are us genuine, respectful and decent guys meant to get a quick fuck when nobody gives is a chance? You started this. You looked at my bloody profile. You're all the same - bloody prick teasing, time wasting, non-meeting fakes. Don't even know why you're on the site. Not that I'd shag a fat/old/wrinkly/other generic insult like you anyway. I was trying to do you a favour. Blah, blah, blah blah ad infinitum."

That's why so many browse in stealth. Saves a lot of agro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no would take it by them not messaging us they are not interested in the first place. Bit desperate and even more reason why we operate in stealth mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they've viewed my profile and not messaged I'm clearly whaaaay out of their league so why would I scrape the barrel and message those mingers?

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?"

I always look at the profiles of women and couples that look at mine. However I only contact them if they wink or fab a photo unless their profile is very attractive to me and I would have contacted them in any case.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Certainly not.

1, my profile and I have an element of circus about us and people are most likely looking as a WTF sort of thing.

2, anyone who visits more than a few times is clearly nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. If they look I just assume they're having a nosy around the same as I do.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?"

I have never written to anyone unless they first send a sensible message to me and one which is more than a one-liner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past I must admit to viewing your profile,and loving everthing about it, your pics are awsome!!Womanly perfection

but ive never messaged simply because, I think you would have so many messages of guys,that mine just wouldnt get read :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?"

No,

I like to see if they will ever message.

If someone looks multiple times, I might send one.

I think if someone looks once but doesn't message they're not interested.

If they look multiple times, then it's worth messaging them.

I'm personally never in stealth, if I look at someone, I want them to KNOW I've looked, if I don't show up in peoples "looked at me" list I haven't looked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I like to think if peeps are interested they have the balls to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?"

they look they can manage a message if they want to get in touch, why should i message everyone who looks at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi peeps do you always message thoes who visits your profile? if yes,do they reply?

they look they can manage a message if they want to get in touch, why should i message everyone who looks at me

Nice new pic Jacqs

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