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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wish I could turn back time till the day I moved back to the UK where I weighed 80kg =12.5 stone but you cannot dam I blame all the rich food and alcohol which make you put on weight in time. This is due to been judged all the time in real life and online by people when seeking friendship or more. What would u like to turn back if you could and why...? As for those who judge there a say what comes around well get you in the end…I was born with a muscle disorder which mean my muscle ante as strong as other people where a man can get a six pack I cannot due to my disability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you not have your disability before you moved back to the UK?

Or is your weight gain for other reasons?

On topic

9 Dec 1977 for reasons best not given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'll find there are a lot of women who aren't into 6 packs. Women like confident positive guys whatever their looks (I think lol) !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and whats wrong with women wanting to pick out n go for guys with a 6 packs n big cocks by the way?.. if its their preference they are attracted to it, it would make for better sexual experiences.

you know in yourself what you fancy in the opposite sex and you seek out that type, so allow women to go for their preferences too

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Im singing Cher now

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Oh what a night.....late December back in 63 was a very special time for me

Oooh hang on....I wasn't even born then

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Im singing Cher now "

....."I got you babe (without a 6pack)...."

It's the gym remix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

six packs aren't natural, most guys don't have one and can still be hot.

if i could turn back time it would be to before i started smoking, am in the right frame to give up but not managing it and idk why but if i'd never started i wouldn't need to give up.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I would go back to the day I ruined my knee playing rugby.

3 ops and over a decade later, and the surgeon is still no where near knowing why it swells whenever I run.

Haven't been able to play sport since that day and a huge part of my life just vanished.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been lucky in my life to have been given several substantial amounts of money. Sometimes wish I could go back and not enjoyed spending it as much as I did. I had a damn good time though.

Six packs are made in the kitchen do appreciate the hard work that goes into a good six pack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who needs a six pack when you have a bottle of JD?!?

If I could turn back time it would be to 1991 so I could tell my then brother-in-law and best friend to get a CT scan before the haemorrhage that killed him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Did you not have your disability before you moved back to the UK?

Or is your weight gain for other reasons?

On topic

9 Dec 1977 for reasons best not given."
.

Was it you who bumped off Elvis

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Did you not have your disability before you moved back to the UK?

Or is your weight gain for other reasons?

On topic

9 Dec 1977 for reasons best not given."

well i was born with a disability which efect my right side and my muscles which are weaker then my left but the fact is women will never see pass that as they only go for guys who are normal who can write and spell with sexy looks and big penis loll

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"

Did you not have your disability before you moved back to the UK?

Or is your weight gain for other reasons?

On topic

9 Dec 1977 for reasons best not given.

well i was born with a disability which efect my right side and my muscles which are weaker then my left but the fact is women will never see pass that as they only go for guys who are normal who can write and spell with sexy looks and big penis loll "

Most of us go for guys who don't constantly feel sorry for themselves.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Did you not have your disability before you moved back to the UK?

Or is your weight gain for other reasons?

On topic

9 Dec 1977 for reasons best not given.

well i was born with a disability which efect my right side and my muscles which are weaker then my left but the fact is women will never see pass that as they only go for guys who are normal who can write and spell with sexy looks and big penis loll "

You seem to have quite a low opinion of women, could that be holding you back a bit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Did you not have your disability before you moved back to the UK?

Or is your weight gain for other reasons?

On topic

9 Dec 1977 for reasons best not given.

well i was born with a disability which efect my right side and my muscles which are weaker then my left but the fact is women will never see pass that as they only go for guys who are normal who can write and spell with sexy looks and big penis loll

You seem to have quite a low opinion of women, could that be holding you back a bit?"

I do not have a low opinion on women it was only a joke and everyone takes it the wrong way so be it if they cannot take a joke due to reading a few females profile saying what they want it all in good humour nothing else

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Did you not have your disability before you moved back to the UK?

Or is your weight gain for other reasons?

On topic

9 Dec 1977 for reasons best not given.

well i was born with a disability which efect my right side and my muscles which are weaker then my left but the fact is women will never see pass that as they only go for guys who are normal who can write and spell with sexy looks and big penis loll

You seem to have quite a low opinion of women, could that be holding you back a bit?

I do not have a low opinion on women it was only a joke and everyone takes it the wrong way so be it if they cannot take a joke due to reading a few females profile saying what they want it all in good humour nothing else "

I see.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

Did you not have your disability before you moved back to the UK?

Or is your weight gain for other reasons?

On topic

9 Dec 1977 for reasons best not given.

well i was born with a disability which efect my right side and my muscles which are weaker then my left but the fact is women will never see pass that as they only go for guys who are normal who can write and spell with sexy looks and big penis loll

Most of us go for guys who don't constantly feel sorry for themselves."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Did you not have your disability before you moved back to the UK?

Or is your weight gain for other reasons?

On topic

9 Dec 1977 for reasons best not given.

well i was born with a disability which efect my right side and my muscles which are weaker then my left but the fact is women will never see pass that as they only go for guys who are normal who can write and spell with sexy looks and big penis loll

Most of us go for guys who don't constantly feel sorry for themselves.

"

i am not feeling sorry for my selves.. it a shame u people think when people tell the truth are feeling sorry for themselves that just being rude sorry but i honest

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I assume the op realises that all single guys can find it tough here. Even those with six packs.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

Did you not have your disability before you moved back to the UK?

Or is your weight gain for other reasons?

On topic

9 Dec 1977 for reasons best not given.

well i was born with a disability which efect my right side and my muscles which are weaker then my left but the fact is women will never see pass that as they only go for guys who are normal who can write and spell with sexy looks and big penis loll

Most of us go for guys who don't constantly feel sorry for themselves.

i am not feeling sorry for my selves.. it a shame u people think when people tell the truth are feeling sorry for themselves that just being rude sorry but i honest"

You've been moaning and feeling sorry for yourself for at least 3 weeks now, despite being told repeatedly that self pity is not an attractive trait.

All your threads and posts have the same theme. Poor you, nobody will give you a chance, it's so unfair. It's unreasonable they turn you down, we're all here for the same thing etc etc. You'll meet anyone so therefore anyone, everyone, should meet you.

The fact is, you don't know why women are not interested in you. The ones who don't reply obviously don't give you a reason and I don't believe the ones that do reply say more than just no thanks or you aren't their type. You've decided what the problem is without any evidence. That's not being honest.

Most men on here are not overwhelmed with meets, particularly not in their first few weeks on the site. It takes time to get known. You have to put in the effort. Nobody owes you fun or friendship.

Let's face it, from your presentation of yourself so far, you come across as full of self-pity and bitterness, and not exactly a barrel of laughs.

I don't think your lack of a 6-pack is your main issue.

Plenty of men without 6-packs or huge cocks get meets on here. They generally have upbeat, positive personalities and they realise they need to make an effort.

Would you actually want to get sex because someone pities you? Not that it matters because angling for sympathy shags rarely works.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

It would be nice if:

- physically im 10yrs younger

- but maintain the current mentality (wisdom or lack off) and economical status.

Sometimes i just forget im 44...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you're very negative, or at least çome accross that way. That is probablý the main reason women are put off as others have said.

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York

Six pack? Feh! You get more fun from a barrel!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Did you not have your disability before you moved back to the UK?

Or is your weight gain for other reasons?

On topic

9 Dec 1977 for reasons best not given.

well i was born with a disability which efect my right side and my muscles which are weaker then my left but the fact is women will never see pass that as they only go for guys who are normal who can write and spell with sexy looks and big penis loll

Most of us go for guys who don't constantly feel sorry for themselves.

i am not feeling sorry for my selves.. it a shame u people think when people tell the truth are feeling sorry for themselves that just being rude sorry but i honest"

You are telling the truth as you see it which in my opinion is that women are shallow creatures who are being unkind to you because you have a disability and favouring men with muscular bodies. When I said you have a low opinion of women you said you were joking but now you say you're telling the truth so I'm not sure now what you mean.

I'm not saying this because I'm trying to be unkind or because of what you look like but because of what you're saying about women but I doubt you'll believe me.

Why not try an experiment, post positively on the forum and see if the responses are different

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You might not get a six pack but if as you say your weight increase is due to rich food and and alcohol then you know what to do.

I really don't think your disability has anything to do with getting meets, lots of disabled people get meets.

You have a choice live your life through your disability or round it.

I know I sound harsh but there is plenty you can do to help your self

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"You might not get a six pack but if as you say your weight increase is due to rich food and and alcohol then you know what to do.

I really don't think your disability has anything to do with getting meets, lots of disabled people get meets.

You have a choice live your life through your disability or round it.

I know I sound harsh but there is plenty you can do to help your self

"

Like trying to guilt trip women into meeting him?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

OP, as has been said, negativity will not get you meets on here. One of my disabled friends does really well on here... he gets more meets than me! He's cheerful, fun and upbeat, and makes the most of what he is able to do rather than what he can't.

Would I turn back time? Not a chance. I'm nearly 38 and in the best shape and place of my life! Job I love, hobby I adore and away to do some more training for that and take it to the next level, have a great wee boy, great friends, an amazing lover, nice home, and enough income to be able to do some nice things for those close to me. Certainly a lot better than 5 years ago when I was a size 26, and more than 17 stone heavier barely able to walk up stairs without resting. I'll stick where I am thanks

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I've never played the disability card, but this once, I will prove to you that people with disabilities can have heaps of fun, plus I'm morbidly obese. Look at my verifications. I have even been to a club with my walking stick and in a wheelchair, never put people off and it's not because I own a vagina, as I'm very fussy who I let near it. I meet with guys 5 or 6 times before I have sex. Only ladies and a few couples have been exempt from this.

Even with chemo and losing my hair and my eyebrows/lashes, I can still pull. I put it down to my personality and daft sense of humour.

We are what we are, if you don't accept yourself for who you are now, instead of dwelling on how you were 10 years ago, you'll bury yourself into a dark hole. Believe me, I've been there.

Good luck x

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