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By *ppetiteforsex OP   Man
over a year ago

Isle of Man

Hi

my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.

Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.

I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just waitin now !!!!!!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

light the fuse, step back and wait !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.

Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.

I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females"

Maybe beef up your profile,

good luck

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

*pulls up a comfy chair*

Popcorn anyone?

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood


"Hi

my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.

Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.

I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females"

As you have stated, you say 'get in touch if you are interested'.....they don't get in touch therefore it is safe to say they are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was just about to say(with my tongue firmly in my cheek) that im all three .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.

Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.

I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females"

Then learn how to say what you want. Your message, by your own admission says ... get in touch IF interested. I never answer those if im NOT interested. You are getting PRECISELY waht you asked for. They are NOT interested.

Look at yourself before you aim at others.

Sheesh .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.

Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.

I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females"

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/2566

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/5768

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/7121

Some would say its ignorant not to use the search facility box on the left. But as your new here are a SMALL selection of this question being previously asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.

Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.

I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females

As you have stated, you say 'get in touch if you are interested'.....they don't get in touch therefore it is safe to say they are not interested."

Great minds Jane. Yours wasnt there when I read the OP .....Precisely !

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. "

if you read their profile first then you may know what they are after then you could tailor your reply to that and then maybe they would appreciate your message a bit more ...

but sounds like you have a standard message which you simply copy'n'paste with no influence on what they say on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is going to get ugly!

To the OP: so I get this right, you write saying to get in touch if interested and your upset because?!!

I'd hazard a guess they're not interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Groundhog day.....im off

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Also you live on a small island which is going to limit you, but youve been here only two months and had one meet from the island. Some guys on the mainland are here a year before they get their first meet so count yourself lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I was just going to mention the location maybe being a problem too

There can only be so many people there that are on this site and you've met one already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK- I got a pastrami on rye and a huge can of worms. Who ordered em??? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inject some humour into your messages. Say you live on the Isle of Man but it's not a problem as you have a big chopper. Tell 'em that it's called the Isle of Man(hood) for a reason and that they may wanna come see for themselves.

There's too much material you can use living where you live you'd be a fool not to use it lol

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood


"Inject some humour into your messages. Say you live on the Isle of Man but it's not a problem as you have a big chopper. Tell 'em that it's called the Isle of Man(hood) for a reason and that they may wanna come see for themselves.

There's too much material you can use living where you live you'd be a fool not to use it lol "

Yeah with you there Wishy.....he could say 'I live on the Isle of Man, but I'm not into Men, well not anymore anyway'

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Forum Post reads like you never get further than not getting a reply but verification says you met a girl for lunchtime great sex, Cant you meet the same girl again if others dont want to meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No man is an island

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"No man is an island "

Wonder if Joe Dolan will would make me one.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi

my question above is aimed more at the females on the site but am sure guys can answer it as well.

Am a single male, not pushy, live on an island so possible meets and local contacts are limited. Have sent messages to local ladies, introduce myself, ask what after, say what am after (nsa discrete fun), say get in touch if interested. Thats where it all ends though, people dont even have the decency to reply and say no thanks.

I know females get a hell of a lot more emails but is it that they get to many to reply too or is it that people are just ignorant. I imagine it is probably that are too busy but wondered how others feel, be it guys or females"

can I let you into a secret....

okay... lean in....

closer......

whinging.... not the sexiest trait in the world!!!

okay, think of it like this.... If you get one chance to make a great first impression, what kind of impression do you think this is sending to people?

it doesn't really scream "oh my god he is fantastic I just have to meet this person!".......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Its Luverly...

This free introduction was brought to you by Spam now use it wisely...

Its the only sort of meet I get these days...

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Are people on the IoM not allowed to leave then?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Are people on the IoM not allowed to leave then?"

Read his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's Thursday "

Indeed!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I've just thought of something everyone.

Have you considered that it's the same person asking that same question with thousands of different accounts?

This malevolent puppet master is playing with us all pulling the strings and cackling manically as we all reply again and again!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

god you just have to laugh don't you?

We get a message this morning from a single guy the usual struggle to string more than four words together it says

'how r u?'

we answer in the same vein

'well'

anser comes back

'well what?'

ffs we answered his question but it was obviously to complicated for him to actually understand the answer!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"god you just have to laugh don't you?

We get a message this morning from a single guy the usual struggle to string more than four words together it says

'how r u?'

we answer in the same vein

'well'

anser comes back

'well what?'

ffs we answered his question but it was obviously to complicated for him to actually understand the answer!"

* answer

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