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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, I've been on this site for several months and have had no sucsess as of yet. When I view a profile I notice that most woman prefer a message first so I started doing that but with limited Responce. I'm not saying I'm gods gift 2 woman or owt like so don't think that If I send a message then I warrant a reply cos I don't think like. If anybody could giv me any tips on becoming more succesful then I'd be most grateful xx thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing on your profile, can't accommodate, young age range, off putting user name...just my initial observations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try putting something on your profile, also some more pics, not cock pics would help.

have alook at other single guys profiles, the ones with lots of verifications and see what they have said on them.

as is we wouldnt bother with you as your profile is very poor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and the name, its not good.

hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks 4 that, I didn't realise I had cannot accomadate as I can I think Ill work on my profile later, thanks 4 the compliment of young age by the way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree with all comments.. personally i like body / face shots as opposed to cock shots... my preference only hey ho what do i know....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where to begin.

You name is godawful.

Your profile is non exsitant.

What are people going to think of you? You've done the virtual version of wandering into a packed pub and yelling "WHO WANTS TO SUCK MY COCK??!?!?!?!" and wondering why you aren't taken up the offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where to begin.

You name is godawful.

Your profile is non exsitant.

What are people going to think of you? You've done the virtual version of wandering into a packed pub and yelling "WHO WANTS TO SUCK MY COCK??!?!?!?!" and wondering why you aren't taken up the offer "

does that not work then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a gander at this:

How To Write A Good Profile

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/15377

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where to begin.

You name is godawful.

Your profile is non exsitant.

What are people going to think of you? You've done the virtual version of wandering into a packed pub and yelling "WHO WANTS TO SUCK MY COCK??!?!?!?!" and wondering why you aren't taken up the offer "

So why not help the guy as he's asked us to do instead of all the negative 'lets bash the single guy' crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where to begin.

You name is godawful.

Your profile is non exsitant.

What are people going to think of you? You've done the virtual version of wandering into a packed pub and yelling "WHO WANTS TO SUCK MY COCK??!?!?!?!" and wondering why you aren't taken up the offer

does that not work then?"

It does if you are female.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Name is terrible as already said. Makes it sound like us ladies are meant to devour you.

Profile has zero on it. Its like a name with nothing else. You need to describe you and maybe why you want to swing. What sort of a person you are and what you believe your good at. It needs to show you as a person in words.

Also think that your age range isnt great(in my opinion) your 28 but would only meet a woman 2 years older than you but happy to meet someone 18. That sounds like the only interested in the younger woman bit. Think that limits you lots as lots of 18 year olds are in the night clubs rather than on here(in my opinion). I recon there are more 25 year plusses on here,so if that was the case your limiting yourself to an age range of 25 to 30 which isnt great.

Now I very much know it is your choice and maybe the 30 plus women arent your thing but people in our own age range is normally a better option I think. I am 38 and meet people early 30s to late 40s so about 10 years either side.

Please get working on your profile, as if I was 18 I would delete mail from you with zero on your profile and the same if I was 30.

Nout on profile=delete and probably block xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where to begin.

You name is godawful.

Your profile is non exsitant.

What are people going to think of you? You've done the virtual version of wandering into a packed pub and yelling "WHO WANTS TO SUCK MY COCK??!?!?!?!" and wondering why you aren't taken up the offer "

LOL..now i know why u guys on on my friends list... very basic and honest but i did chuckle too....lol xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where to begin.

You name is godawful.

Your profile is non exsitant.

What are people going to think of you? You've done the virtual version of wandering into a packed pub and yelling "WHO WANTS TO SUCK MY COCK??!?!?!?!" and wondering why you aren't taken up the offer

So why not help the guy as he's asked us to do instead of all the negative 'lets bash the single guy' crap. "

for some its a hobby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So why not help the guy as he's asked us to do instead of all the negative 'lets bash the single guy' crap. "

Because it's only worthwhile to help someone properly who'll show the intelligence to help themselves.

The OP could EASILY have browsed profiles to see whats good, what works and so on.

But no. That's too hard. It's far easy to ask to be spoonfed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers everyone for the comments x will work on the advice given, didn't really know what to do wi the profile when I first joined as new 2 all this, thanks again x

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Cheers everyone for the comments x will work on the advice given, didn't really know what to do wi the profile when I first joined as new 2 all this, thanks again x"

We'll come back and check youve done your homework

But I agree with the comments about the name too

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok when you post can you leave off the abuse.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Good luck with the profile,make the effort ok and then your chances will improve massively(hopefully) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though not in your age range or area just thought I'd agree with a lot said, you will find most women on here do not go for 1 line profiles, same as 1 line messages, if you think carefully about what you want to say, type it out in word first read it to yourself several times to make sure it's what you want then copy and paste it onto your profile, again username not great so think about that one to and you may want to raise your age limit by at least 5 years, as you really are limiting yourself, anyway hope you have better luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So why not help the guy as he's asked us to do instead of all the negative 'lets bash the single guy' crap.

Because it's only worthwhile to help someone properly who'll show the intelligence to help themselves.

The OP could EASILY have browsed profiles to see whats good, what works and so on.

But no. That's too hard. It's far easy to ask to be spoonfed.

"

I agree he is new to the site,and is asking for help,you have to always put people down!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I must say tho my 'looked at me' section has increased rapidly in the last hour lol and yeah the profile name is terrible but as I only changed it this morning I now have to wait a bit till I can change it x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I must say tho my 'looked at me' section has increased rapidly in the last hour lol and yeah the profile name is terrible but as I only changed it this morning I now have to wait a bit till I can change it x"

What was it before?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just my name lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I must say tho my 'looked at me' section has increased rapidly in the last hour lol and yeah the profile name is terrible but as I only changed it this morning I now have to wait a bit till I can change it x

What was it before?"

cumbuffmybell

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