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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

would it put you off meeting someone if they had a scar on their arse due to an operation?

I had to have an emergency operation last Friday due to me having an abscess there and it will leave a scar..

So its sort of knocked my confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't put us off in the slightest. X

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Not at all. Scars can't be helped. X

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By *rEroticMan
over a year ago

London

No, not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually find scars quite sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it most certainly wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you kidding? One solitary scar on a butt cheek is gonna be a factor in my decision-making? It's the person that makes a meet, not some mark on a body part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how nice their arse was

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By *ittle Miss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Suffolk UK

wouldnt bother me. i have one from a dog attack... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have quite a few scars over my torso from procedures. No one really cares, but I'm still very self conscious about them and don't like explaining what they're from. I think it's more a problem for me and not my partners.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not at all x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you kidding? One solitary scar on a butt cheek is gonna be a factor in my decision-making? It's the person that makes a meet, not some mark on a body part."

Not on my arse cheek...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how nice their arse was "

I have a fat arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband has a scar there due to the removal of a gland, he is sometimes self conscious however can quite honestly say no one else seems to notice it, and it certainly hasn't put anyone off that I'm aware of. Be confident and I promise no one will blink an eyelid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had three sections so have quite a thick scar on my upper groin alone with the not so firm skin that comes with sections, I don't have any problems, I've never had a guy run off screaming when I take my knickers off and they see it

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"would it put you off meeting someone if they had a scar on their arse due to an operation?

I had to have an emergency operation last Friday due to me having an abscess there and it will leave a scar..

So its sort of knocked my confidence. "

I think the scar would be preferable to the abcess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you kidding? One solitary scar on a butt cheek is gonna be a factor in my decision-making? It's the person that makes a meet, not some mark on a body part."
Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are not a problem and at the end of the day everyone has marks/scars/blemishes/pigmentations on their body. I wouldn't let it worry you and chances are no one will take any notice of your scar - there is so much more to you than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am covered in scars from various procedures, never had an issue meet wise & that's not counting my stretch marks

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Yes.

I just to be different from the crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a 4 inch scar on my tummy would that put you off giving me a BJ ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make up a really cool story about how you got it. Shark attack or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lot of scars on my thighs and ankles as well as some on my arms too. No one has ever said a word about them. I honestly think that they don't care. They don't change the person that you are.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No - who hasn't got a scar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would it put you off meeting someone if they had a scar on their arse due to an operation?

I had to have an emergency operation last Friday due to me having an abscess there and it will leave a scar..

So its sort of knocked my confidence.

I think the scar would be preferable to the abcess "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn't make the slightest bit of difference to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wouldnt put us off we all have scars of some kind xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all shallow fuckers if it does n obv thier prob not yours sweetheart i have stretch marks all ova my thighs and shock horror cellulite im a woman n so are you we are the beautiful species xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chicks dig scars

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By *eus19Man
over a year ago

Merthyr


"would it put you off meeting someone if they had a scar on their arse due to an operation?

I had to have an emergency operation last Friday due to me having an abscess there and it will leave a scar..

So its sort of knocked my confidence. "

Depends what it looked like.

I meant if it was shaped like a penis or looked like the number of the beast it might.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Chicks dig scars "

Unless it came from a broken thermos flask when out bus spotting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a few scars from work, I'm quite proud of them. I wouldn't be put off at all by the odd scar don't worry about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no scars happen in life

and if you are that aware of it and its knocking you try Bio oil as helps with strech marks too (good for when had a baby)

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By *bovethekneeCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire / Herefordshire

Not at all. We could laugh about all of lifes events that have left scars on us.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might intrigue me but it won't put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself don't worry about what someone else might think, scars are part of life, some have them others don't. I for one wouldn't care how many you have or where it's the persons attitude that's counts most not any scars xx

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I have many operation scars if it was to put someone off they aren't worth bothering about.

Believe me I've had loads of fun.

Claire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chicks dig scars

Unless it came from a broken thermos flask when out bus spotting. "

Nothing wrong with a 1962 Trafficmaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put me off in the slightest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chicks dig scars

Unless it came from a broken thermos flask when out bus spotting.

Nothing wrong with a 1962 Trafficmaster "

or falling over a bit d*unk getting a train from harlow back to london

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

Never in a million years! One of us has a scar in the lower regions, can explain privately but yeah, we never judge!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I have quite a few scars and not one person has ever mentioned them.....

You would be hard pressed to find anyone on here without any scar or blemish on them and as long as they don't get in the way of sex then it's all good

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By *ordic36Man
over a year ago

Manchester

In mens world - scars beat tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it wouldn't as it would be just a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awe hope yer ok,,,no I doubt it would put anyone of,x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies it's made me feel a bit better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the replies it's made me feel a bit better "

just be you, fuck what others think

btw did your work shit get sorted?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the replies it's made me feel a bit better

just be you, fuck what others think

btw did your work shit get sorted?"

Still waiting on it, they're taking their fucking time. Think they might make me Redundant at this rate.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"In mens world - scars beat tattoos."

The old 'I was bitten by a shark' line....I would fall for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the replies it's made me feel a bit better

just be you, fuck what others think

btw did your work shit get sorted?

Still waiting on it, they're taking their fucking time. Think they might make me Redundant at this rate."

wtf

i thought flexible working hours they have to try and help, id look at the acas website

hope it gets sorted

failing that start doing family photography, you could do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. I only have one testicle the result of testicular cancer many years ago. Hasn't ever put anyone off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the replies it's made me feel a bit better

just be you, fuck what others think

btw did your work shit get sorted?

Still waiting on it, they're taking their fucking time. Think they might make me Redundant at this rate.

wtf

i thought flexible working hours they have to try and help, id look at the acas website

hope it gets sorted

failing that start doing family photography, you could do it "

Well looks like my company doesn't care about people with children, not anymore.

I'd need the money for an infinity wall and lighting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest!

I can sympathize, I have scars on my face due to an accident when I was a child but I've learnt that it's generally a bigger problem in my head than in others

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"would it put you off meeting someone if they had a scar on their arse due to an operation?

I had to have an emergency operation last Friday due to me having an abscess there and it will leave a scar..

So its sort of knocked my confidence. "

Hell no girl

Hope you are properly recovered.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the replies it's made me feel a bit better

just be you, fuck what others think

btw did your work shit get sorted?

Still waiting on it, they're taking their fucking time. Think they might make me Redundant at this rate.

wtf

i thought flexible working hours they have to try and help, id look at the acas website

hope it gets sorted

failing that start doing family photography, you could do it

Well looks like my company doesn't care about people with children, not anymore.

I'd need the money for an infinity wall and lighting."

pmed u x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had three sections so have quite a thick scar on my upper groin alone with the not so firm skin that comes with sections, I don't have any problems, I've never had a guy run off screaming when I take my knickers off and they see it "
you don't wear any, that's why lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would not put us off at all -I've got a few scars from operations and proud of them!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think there are many adults who haven't got a scar of some sort. I have one on my back and I never even give it a thought when naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, if something like that puts people off it is shallow, and would you want to meet them anyway.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"would it put you off meeting someone if they had a scar on their arse due to an operation?

"

OMG absolutely not!

A scar is not a blemish, it is a visual record of a part of your life-story.

One day I may tell you about mine.

If anyone doesn't offer to kiss it better, smack 'em round the head.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would it put you off meeting someone if they had a scar on their arse due to an operation?

I had to have an emergency operation last Friday due to me having an abscess there and it will leave a scar..

So its sort of knocked my confidence. "

I've got loads of scars from my misspent youth, head, face, hands, chest (nothing gruesome ladies) Told it adds to my character lol, no, it most certainly wouldn't put me off. Very very few people are flawless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had absesses, they're worse than scars (and smelly), got a horseshoe shaped scar on my chin and nobody's bothered about it and that's right on my face where it is noticeable, got a tiny purple dot on my stomach as a scar from another one.

I've also met people with bigger scars than mine, they don't bother me, they're just where their skin came open and then healed itself.

Wish people would accept their body isn't perfect, especially if it's been through things. Don't know where we got this unrealistic expectation of perfection from but it's wrong and nothing to do with the real world where people have real lives and bodies that function as human bodies do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love licking scars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now you have me thinking about my scars, ive never really felt the need to disclose them, usually because i forget about them!

I was in a road traffic accident when i was 9 years old and have skingrafts to my right hand, between my fingers, my palm and my back from waist height ti just above my sacrum but theyve been there so long that they slip my mind

maybe i should disclose them.. youve opened up a lil can of worms in my head now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would not put me off

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro


"would it put you off meeting someone if they had a scar on their arse due to an operation?

I had to have an emergency operation last Friday due to me having an abscess there and it will leave a scar..

So its sort of knocked my confidence. "

Most blokes on here would fuck a hole in the wardrobe door so a mark on a ladies bum isn't going to put them off.

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