FabSwingers.com forum: Would you go the distance?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have just been messaged by THE most perfect human being I have ever laid eyes on. But he is 90 miles away. Usually I delete without reading if they are any further than 1hour travel, but damn.... I'm considering it! He's just so beautiful! And fit!

How far would you go For the potential of a perfect meet? Or have you already travelled far and wide? Was it worth it? Or did you cringe into your drink until your 'emergency'phone call came?

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I'd get him to come to me

Or at least halfway

(not literally.. your guy coming to me.. ahh you know what I mean)

Cam first tho, for sure..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been seeing my fwb for 13 months and it can take an hour and a half for him to travel to get to mine, buts worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel most distance if I thought someone was worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

175 miles is my furthest thus far...

If he likes ya...he'll do 90

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to kent to meet most beautiful women ive ever met, so big yes its worth it from me. You wont know unless you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd travel most distance if I thought someone was worth it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Previous FWB was 45 mins away....and he was worth it....could try the once at least....he might be a complete numpty as soon as he opens his mouth but at least you tried it x

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By *ollie1Couple
over a year ago

murcia spain

guy flew to spain to meet my wife so 90 miles next door lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wanted to meet someone I really liked and we were chatting and gettin on, then yes I would make the effort, I might not be able to do it very often but I would try and make the meets as memorable as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance is irrelevant when you have Warp Drive

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Definitely, if I really wanted to meet him, You never know how long they're gonna stay interested...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have spent most of my life living long distances away from my friends and family, so meeting a friend off here is not any different when time permits.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My front door

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Compromise

None of my playmates live within 70 miles of me

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

if it was for a long time fb that also could accommodate over a few days then id travel some distance to be with them at this arranged time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, would just travel few miles, 2 to 5 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel any distance if I liked them that much ! Good luck

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

90 is nothing if you really want to meet them. I quite regularly do 190 miles.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

If you like each other any distance has to be worth it ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I liked someone yup id travel

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A naughty hotel meet half way would be loads of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats only hour and a half drive really, so yes i would do it or hotel meet half way ish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'd travel and have travelled much further than 90 miles.

If you want something, then go and get it!

Hope all goes well.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Don't want to rain on your parade OP but THE most perfect human you've ever laid eyes on?

You've not laid eyes on him. You've read his profile, drooled over his pics, swooned at a complimentary message he's sent you.

Relax, take a deep breath, and return to reality......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scotland and Ireland is too far for me. But England and wales? Easy, if they were that amazing and we had built up a solid friendship beforehand

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By *ordic36Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Congradulations for such a fine catch bumblebee! I don't think 90 miles is far away...what is it - an hour and half drive or more less same time on a coach?

You don't have the obligation to drive/ride over there every day you know. I'd say if for nothing else then at least for adventure sake give this one a go for at least once.

So, thumbs up fo you girl - go and make some unforgettable memories

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't want to rain on your parade OP but THE most perfect human you've ever laid eyes on?

You've not laid eyes on him. You've read his profile, drooled over his pics, swooned at a complimentary message he's sent you.

Relax, take a deep breath, and return to reality......"

Haha! Yes cassius I should have been more specific.... pictures and chat have wowed me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Distance is irrelevant when you have Warp Drive

Do I detect a little bit of a Trekkie there Knight...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldn't be travelling 90 miles to meet a guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all for sharing. I really appreciate all your views! Looks like he's coming down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distance is irrelevant when you have Warp Drive

Do I detect a little bit of a Trekkie there Knight..."

There's a relevance to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all for sharing. I really appreciate all your views! Looks like he's coming down

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WAHOO!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i would and have done.

Given a little forward planning, i stay over and take time to enjoy what other attractions an area may have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would and have traveled all over the UK. With cheap airfare and hotels these days, it's worth making the effort I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well good luck!

Distance shouldn't be too much of a problem here, we're not somewhere we need to take flights. If he wants you, he'll travel....looks to me like you're worth it

xxx

Good luck!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't generally travel to meets, though club het together are fine. I'm not sure that I could tell what a perfect partner would be remotely. When dating, as part of the investment, I'm happy for greater investment of effort etc than for no strings fun and I'm cautious of others putting undue efforts into play meets.

One partner told me he was coming 50 miles or so on his bike. I assumed a motorcycle but was wrong and was dismayed as the weather was atrocious.

I'm fairly flexible but sometimes some rigidity and boundaries are useful, hence why I don't typically meet long distance interesting people until there's some other reason we're closer together.

Sometimes the perfect meet catches you by surprise. Wonderfully complementary needs and the ability for all of us to leave fully satisfied, beyond expectations. It can be a bit like expensive kids presents not satisfying you as a kid as well as something simple that really hits the spot, that may even have cost nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all for sharing. I really appreciate all your views! Looks like he's coming down

WAHOO!!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"A naughty hotel meet half way would be loads of fun

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I used to do a round trip of 150 miles but by God it was well worth it,really sexy blonde lady about 30 years old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance is only an obstacle if you allow it to be. We're meeting someone 400+ miles away soon and it's no big deal. Why? Because we'll make a long weekend out if it and go and see the sights also. Visiting new places is awesome, a bit of sexy fun while you're there is even better.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

The furthest I've travelled has been 60 miles each way...on three occasions...for some very steamy meets with a lusty lady, both of us being watched by her fully-dressed husband.

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

"Went to kent to meet most beautiful women ive ever met, so big yes its worth it from me. You wont know unless you go

Who was she... I'm in kent. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travel for work, so why not for pleasure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just been messaged by THE most perfect human being I have ever laid eyes on. But he is 90 miles away. Usually I delete without reading if they are any further than 1hour travel, but damn.... I'm considering it! He's just so beautiful! And fit!

How far would you go For the potential of a perfect meet? Or have you already travelled far and wide? Was it worth it? Or did you cringe into your drink until your 'emergency'phone call came? "

Feck it I would but each travel half way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance is irrelevant when they're the best thing since sliced bread and you have an amazing chemistry (and that's before anything sexual)

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We have done 2 hours there.....played for hours....2 hours back....we had done this quite a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelled 9 hrs on a train for a weekend away. But it was worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn those down over an hour away however I can be persuaded otherwise as it depends on how I have got to know them. In other words, if I have chatted to someone and got to know them, I will make an exception but I don't meet those who send introductory messages as I know it could be a very long time before we meet. I do get pangs of guilt though and think about some I have turned down and wished I hadn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally speaking, I'd be happy to travel , within reason, a couple of hours or so. You could potentially miss out on meeting someone particularly good and I'd you have great fun and form a "bond" then the rewards outweigh the traveling surely? Maybe some are just spoilt for choice so shop locally and fair enough I guess

I quite enjoy the build up of the drive / expectation, I don't F & G , enjoy more prolonged fun, so maybe that's why I don't mind. Have fun peeps

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

My current lover lives 150 miles away. He is worth every moment on the train or in the car!

Have previously traveled 400+ miles to meet, but it was combined with my other passion - football!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer not to meet local, which means most places are 60-90 miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel a fair distance, if I didn't have commitments that require me to stay within my local town.

Bit gutting to be honest as it's very limiting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live on the continent and still have great friends back in the UK that I catch up when I can, so fair to say I travel a bit for good friends and great people!

Would even do it for a great chat and glass of wine with most of them

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

90 miles? Yes, I'd travel 90 miles to meet someone I really like.

I've travelled from Hampshire to Inverness before.

A couple of hundred miles - a 5 hour round trip - I've done several times too.

There has to be a really good reason though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd travel a fair distance, if I didn't have commitments that require me to stay within my local town.

Bit gutting to be honest as it's very limiting."

I'd definitely travel to haverford west for you.... Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arrange to meet half way, if he's not prepared to do that then he's not worth meeting in my eyes

I take it he can accommodate?

I'd suggest meeting half way and going halves on a hotel first meet then when I had met him if I feel he's worth it and wanted to meet again then I'd travel to him

To me 90 miles is to far for a first meet, what if he don't show or you don't get on?

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