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By *omtdh OP   Man
over a year ago

IOM

Hi All.

I have a dilemma. One of the local Fabbers on the IOM has asked me to take part in a video shoot. As a present for her boyfriend’s birthday apparently. He likes leather so she is to wear her leather dress, be kneeling on the floor with her phone recording us from the side. She says the she realise that we it could take four or five rehearsals to find the best, most enjoyable action and possibly a couple of actual shoots to get the right shot. Yes I realise she could be a windup or even a youngster on here (should never happen but I am told by a lady friend that it does.) What should a man do?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If you think its too good to be true...?

Ask for a social meet somewhere first and see what happens.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

A) ask to speak to her on the phone if not already done so

B) meet first in a public place for a coffee and discreet chat regarding what the shoot may entail, whether you'd be identifiable, etc.

If she backs off either of those, or if you meet socially and get any weird vibes around age or motivation then walk away

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

As the ladies say, ask for a social. I shouldn't be surprised if it doesn't happen for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she wants to talk in detail about what you will be doing she's probably a man having a wank over it. I know,I'm becoming cynical in my old age

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"A) ask to speak to her on the phone if not already done so

B) meet first in a public place for a coffee and discreet chat regarding what the shoot may entail, whether you'd be identifiable, etc.

If she backs off either of those, or if you meet socially and get any weird vibes around age or motivation then walk away"

This!

Same as any other 'out of the blue' request to meet.

Forget the scenario - if someone you'd never been in contact with before R equested to meet at a hotel/house/car park/pub - would you just go having only made arrangements via PM on here?

A

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By *omtdh OP   Man
over a year ago

IOM

Thanks for the advice all. It is very much appreciated.

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