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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If you'd met someone in 'vanilla' life and you were looking to see them exclusively....

Would you tell them about your 'history'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you'd met someone in 'vanilla' life and you were looking to see them exclusively....

Would you tell them about your 'history'? "

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you'd met someone in 'vanilla' life and you were looking to see them exclusively....

Would you tell them about your 'history'? "

Yes because it wouldn't be a totally honest relationship , and most likely come back and bite you later if you didn't . Possibly ruining something great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you'd met someone in 'vanilla' life and you were looking to see them exclusively....

Would you tell them about your 'history'? "

Yes. Unless you start honestly, you are doomed. Doomed I tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope..loose lips sink ships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last guy I met in real life and dated last year I told him I'd been on and off here over the years. He didn't like a finger or tongue up his arse or wasn't very ummm experimental and said that he'd be worried he wouldn't be enough for me sexually and things like that. Shouldn't have even worries cos he dropped me like a hot turd anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you'd met someone in 'vanilla' life and you were looking to see them exclusively....

Would you tell them about your 'history'? "

It depends on how long I had or hadn't been on the site before meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you'd met someone in 'vanilla' life and you were looking to see them exclusively....

Would you tell them about your 'history'? "

Yep.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes. I have done this and the man in question couldn't handle it so chose to end it.

I would rather know earlier than later that they would find it a deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he asked I would tell him. What has happened previously is men find out what I have done sexually and want to do it with me. That isn't what I want from a relationship

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Okay if it's yes how soon then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to know a man's past,the past doesn't control my future. The truth be told men don't want a sexually experienced woman as a wife or girlfriend unless they want to carry on with it

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Okay if it's yes how soon then ? "

After about 5 dates, depending on how deep the conversations get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as he asked. If he can't handle the truth it's best he knows before things get too serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, i don't even tell the kinky guys in my life much about my sexual history.

I would tell them some parts of it if it turned them on though, otherwise my past is my past and i don't remain in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay if it's yes how soon then ?

After about 5 dates, depending on how deep the conversations get.

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yup agree

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

I did and it paved the way for a healthy beginning of a relationship which continues to this day, together.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Tricky one. Honesty without detail is what I'd go for. Both of us have "a past" and we know about each other's but neither of us feel the need for detail. I suspect it depends on the person really and if they only want you under certain conditions then I'm not sure I would want them.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

When I met my ex I told him about Mr and that we sometimes met people for sex. He took it in his stride. I stopped seeing Mr while I was with my ex, now that relationship is over I'm back.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Yes, I do tell. But for being on here, people are always surprised by how few people I've actually been with.

I have vanilla friends who have a much higher tally than I do.

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