FabSwingers.com forum: Moments of clarity

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We love this lifestyle and all that goes with it (well most things) but I still have moments - usually mid night shift - when I think 'what on earth are we doing?' stop it immediately and return to being a usual monogamous couple. Anyone else ? X

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Are these moments telling you a truth about how you feel about swinging? You have named this 'moments of clarity' so what feels unclear at other times?

I assess where I am at regularly and adjust my activities to match that. Sometimes that means I'm here for the forum and won't be meeting and other times I am arranging meets.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes thought about it but then think why some of the nicest people we know are on here.

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"We love this lifestyle and all that goes with it (well most things) but I still have moments - usually mid night shift - when I think 'what on earth are we doing?' stop it immediately and return to being a usual monogamous couple. Anyone else ? X"

Not in the way you describe but we have taken a break when we deemed it necessary and tbh if we ever questioned in detail this aspect as an albeit quiet part of our life we would probably look ate stepping back and assessing any specific area's..

wish you well with what you do..

By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I stopped seeing Mr and stepped away from Fab to have a relationship with someone, which didn't work out. A few months later I started seeing Mr again, but I wasn't ready to jump back into Fab, it took me a little while to get there.

I think that if I was in a relationship with someone who wasn't into this, it wouldn't bother me, I could stop easily. But right now I'm having way too much fun