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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you normally do when some one you know messages on fab, block ? Ignore? Friends list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these messages you speak of?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If they know you and messaged you, then I'd say hello.

If they don't, then block, as everyone has a right to privacy.

I've not had it happen yet, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I would block

I have no interest in shagging anyone I know from my normal life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's happened 3 times now, 2 lads I went to school with and someone I worked with

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I would block

I have no interest in shagging anyone I know from my normal life"

Your husband/partner will be distressed to learn this.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I would block

I have no interest in shagging anyone I know from my normal life

Your husband/partner will be distressed to learn this."

I have no idea how to break the news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to block him. He only lives a few doors from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would happily add them. We find the idea of a friend from our vanilla life coming out as a swinger and joining us for fun very exciting but sadly its not happened yet. It came close recently when somebody we knew admitted to having a crush on her so we invited him over but he bottled it.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"It's happened 3 times now, 2 lads I went to school with and someone I worked with"

Another reason to add to the interminable 'why don't I get a reply' threads, "Maybe the didn't reply and block you because they know you".

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I would block

I have no interest in shagging anyone I know from my normal life

Your husband/partner will be distressed to learn this.

I have no idea how to break the news "

"Darling*, you really should read my forum posts"

*Use your own term of endearment if you wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would block

I have no interest in shagging anyone I know from my normal life

Your husband/partner will be distressed to learn this.

I have no idea how to break the news "

Just block him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you normally do when some one you know messages on fab, block ? Ignore? Friends list? "

I'd just give some reason we weren't compatible, I wouldn't say I knew them. Then end the chat.

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth

I tell them who I am!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Blocked him

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I would block

I have no interest in shagging anyone I know from my normal life

Your husband/partner will be distressed to learn this.

I have no idea how to break the news

Just block him. "

You have a wicked mind lady!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It would depend who they were and how they're known. Some would be blocked, others messages. It could also depend on what their message says - does it highlight their recognition etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a guy i used to drink with years ago is on here and has msgd me b4! he has two profiles 1 str8 and one bi and msgd from both? i showed no interest! he stopped msgin! sorted(he still dont know who i am tho.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I have blocked a couple of men i know vaguely in real life,they wouldnt interest me away from here and a bit too close to home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're all safe I don't know anybody haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex boyfriend from 5 yrs ago. Haven't seen each other since we broke up and haven't put on weight etc so I was amused to see him not recognise my body lol. And seen an ex female friends new husband on here. Due to her cheating on him before I thought it was hilarious to see him on here. Oooh what goes around comes around as they say. P.s no I haven't told her and I won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple from my local pub are on here, they have blocked single males unfortunately, but haven't broached the subject in the pub yet !!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"A couple from my local pub are on here, they have blocked single males unfortunately, but haven't broached the subject in the pub yet !!"

I hope you don't either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple from my local pub are on here, they have blocked single males unfortunately, but haven't broached the subject in the pub yet !!

I hope you don't either "

Yes I agree don't say anything to them. Everyone deserves privacy. Unless they've done something horrid to you personally in the past. If that's the case then shout it out in a packed pub lol.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We've yet to come across anyone we know in "real life" but I suppose it would depend on the relationship we have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have checked my profile out, so they obviously know I'm here, I've had a social drink with them, no mention of fabs ever lol

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