FabSwingers.com forum: Stealth Mode

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I admit to use it so i can have a snoop at profiles without risking interrogation from people saying 'saw you look at me'

BUTTTTT...

If there was a filter that gave people the option to block people from viewing people's profiles if you are in this mode would you change your mind on using it?

example ive slected 'no stealth profiles' and that instantly stops anyone in that mode from viewing me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

selected*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a ninja perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pervert........

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"pervert........

i like your pics..

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Wouldn't people come out of

then go back in

though...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No I wouldn't change it, I don't really look at too many as I know I will be disappointed with the amount of one liners and no pics so better to stay in stealth

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Wouldn't bother me if they had their filters set I'm not coming out of stealth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wouldn't people come out of

then go back in

though...

shushhhh...

ok for the sake of this you can not cheat and do that...

stealth and risk the blocks,, or open perving and face the consequences

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I also perv privately and like it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm looking - I want you to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I'm looking - I want you to know

*checks looked at me list*

no fucking views!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I might experiment and come out of stealth tomorrow and look at 100s of men

See if its true that you get messages saying....I see you've looked at my profile

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Wouldn't people come out of

then go back in

though...

shushhhh...

ok for the sake of this you can not cheat and do that...

stealth and risk the blocks,, or open perving and face the consequences "

I'm old enough where I can openly perv and not be bothered what folk think, so I'd be out of

mode if there was a filter..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'm looking - I want you to know

*checks looked at me list*

no fucking views!

FIbber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stealth mode is hyper creepy.

creeps me out exchanging messages + personal comments are made, then you see she hasnt looked at your profile.

gtf

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I might experiment and come out of stealth tomorrow and look at 100s of men

See if its true that you get messages saying....I see you've looked at my profile

Let me know your findings then!

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I'll perv any way i can, doesn't matter who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"stealth mode is hyper creepy.

creeps me out exchanging messages + personal comments are made, then you see she hasnt looked at your profile.

gtf

Im in stealth

Don't panic,I'm not looking

Or am I?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I might experiment and come out of stealth tomorrow and look at 100s of men

See if its true that you get messages saying....I see you've looked at my profile

Just remember, people you've looked at over the last few days will also be able to tell when you come out of stealth mode...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't bother me if they had their filters set I'm not coming out of stealth

this

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I might experiment and come out of stealth tomorrow and look at 100s of men

See if its true that you get messages saying....I see you've looked at my profile

Let me know your findings then!

What I'll do is stick 50 random men in my hotlist and view them periodically throughout the day

I'll let you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I might experiment and come out of stealth tomorrow and look at 100s of men

See if its true that you get messages saying....I see you've looked at my profile

Let me know your findings then!

What I'll do is stick 50 random men in my hotlist and view them periodically throughout the day

I'll let you know

haha i love that you're gonna do this

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I might experiment and come out of stealth tomorrow and look at 100s of men

See if its true that you get messages saying....I see you've looked at my profile

Let me know your findings then!

What I'll do is stick 50 random men in my hotlist and view them periodically throughout the day

I'll let you know

Cheers beers, much appreciated, will save my lazy arse doing the same, so much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an honest perv, I don't mind people knowing I looked.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I'm an honest perv, I don't mind people knowing I looked."

Somehow I think it is totally different for men, If I was male, I wouldn't be in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some lovely profiles to perv at in the forums like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine that a lot more women use it than men

I myself have always been in

mode

The reason I keep it on is simple, I want to be able to check out guys and not get hassled by lots of 'you looked so you must be interested' messages.....and that's not being up my own arse just realistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine that a lot more women use it than men

I myself have always been in

mode

Maybe I'm different but if you've looked and you like what you see then feel free to say Hi - otherwise I won't blush is you're just being naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I suppose, I don't get hounded my hundreds of women each day! Well, I do in my dreams at night.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I might experiment and come out of stealth tomorrow and look at 100s of men

See if its true that you get messages saying....I see you've looked at my profile

Just turn it off and the last 100 you looked at will be able to see that you looked.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I might experiment and come out of stealth tomorrow and look at 100s of men

See if its true that you get messages saying....I see you've looked at my profile

Just turn it off and the last 100 you looked at will be able to see that you looked.

Ooh I didn't know that

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I might experiment and come out of stealth tomorrow and look at 100s of men

See if its true that you get messages saying....I see you've looked at my profile

Just turn it off and the last 100 you looked at will be able to see that you looked.

Ooh I didn't know that

Unless 100 more looked after you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I operate in stealth so I can view profiles without looking like a stalker.

I hardly look at my look at me as I reckon if anyone is vaguely interested they will start with a wink.

If I had to lose stealth to view profiles, so be it. Just sometimes you end up going back to profiles time and again as its a good read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Just sometimes you end up going back to profiles time and again as its a good read

Can I have the Janet & John books back please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Just sometimes you end up going back to profiles time and again as its a good read

Can I have the Janet & John books back please

I haven't finished colouring them in yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Just sometimes you end up going back to profiles time and again as its a good read

Can I have the Janet & John books back please

I haven't finished colouring them in yet

OI! How come you got crayons

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I would stay in stealth and risk the blocks, there are two us of using this profile, at separate times sometimes, so we could end up looking like stalkers

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"I operate in stealth so I can view profiles without looking like a stalker.

I hardly look at my look at me as I reckon if anyone is vaguely interested they will start with a wink.

If I had to lose stealth to view profiles, so be it. Just sometimes you end up going back to profiles time and again as its a good read

I didn't read this before I posted, yes exactly and times that by two for us, definite stalkers ha

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We're not in stealth mode, never needed to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't read this before I posted, yes exactly and times that by two for us, definite stalkers ha"

things that go bump in the night.... [ninja]

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

I do believe that you ladies should have a choice weather to have stealth mode on or not.

as you get enough of the idiots pestering you as it is,

I have seen it before so do understand the need of using one.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I might experiment and come out of stealth tomorrow and look at 100s of men

See if its true that you get messages saying....I see you've looked at my profile

Just turn it off and the last 100 you looked at will be able to see that you looked.

Ooh I didn't know that

Unless 100 more looked after you.

That makes sense

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I didn't read this before I posted, yes exactly and times that by two for us, definite stalkers ha

things that go bump in the night.... [ninja]"

I'm a proper ninja

I would rival Mark the ninja

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Just sometimes you end up going back to profiles time and again as its a good read

Can I have the Janet & John books back please

I haven't finished colouring them in yet

OI! How come you got crayons

I make them out of recycled candles. Unfortunately all the pics are covered in a colour I call "suspicious looking residue"

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I didn't read this before I posted, yes exactly and times that by two for us, definite stalkers ha

things that go bump in the night.... [ninja]

I'm a proper ninja

I would rival Mark the ninja "

No one rivals Mark, who is a ninja.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I didn't read this before I posted, yes exactly and times that by two for us, definite stalkers ha

things that go bump in the night.... [ninja]

I'm a proper ninja

I would rival Mark the ninja

No one rivals Mark, who is a ninja.

So true, I'm embarrassed I even wrote it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought Mark's mate was the ninja

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I thought Mark's mate was the ninja

Funky is Mark's mate. He's a chrononaut not a ninja.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"I thought Mark's mate was the ninja

Funky is Mark's mate. He's a chrononaut not a ninja.

Am I not using the forums enough or has funky turned ninja?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought Mark's mate was the ninja

Funky is Mark's mate. He's a chrononaut not a ninja.

Ah, that all makes sense. So It is Funky who says my mate, who's a ninja. I must pay more attention...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I thought Mark's mate was the ninja

Funky is Mark's mate. He's a chrononaut not a ninja.

Am I not using the forums enough or has funky turned ninja?"

No, Funky couldn't pull off ninja with that arse.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"I thought Mark's mate was the ninja

Funky is Mark's mate. He's a chrononaut not a ninja.

Am I not using the forums enough or has funky turned ninja?

No, Funky couldn't pull off ninja with that arse."

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have never perved anyone's profile in stealth mode honest

Ok then, maybe a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'm looking - I want you to know

^^ Exactly this

There's one in particular that I have to show some self control with though......

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you see me do that?.....

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Did someone mention ninjas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- we perv in stealth as im sure we look at some profiles an unhealthy quantity of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I unmask myself when I want someone to know I've perused.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I unmask myself when I want someone to know I've perused. "

Then everyone else you have perused knows too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always in stealth mode, playing hard to get, nonchalantly disinterested whilst secretly lusting after you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if one were to block anypne viewing in stealth mode they are simply cutting their nose off to spite their face - reducing your audience so to speak.

I personally don't see the point of stealth mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Ok I came out of stealth mode for a few hours today and looked at a load of profiles,it felt weird if Im honest and I didn't really like it

Results are that it generated a lot of complimentary messages,a few winks,a few fabs,one random friends invite but only one message that said the fatal words 'I saw you looked at my profile'

I did chat to one lovely guy who had messayed for a while and he did ask if there was something that had put me off messaging him as he had noticed Id looked at him

I told him I was just having a mass browse day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok I came out of stealth mode for a few hours today and looked at a load of profiles,it felt weird if Im honest and I didn't really like it

Results are that it generated a lot of complimentary messages,a few winks,a few fabs,one random friends invite but only one message that said the fatal words 'I saw you looked at my profile'

I did chat to one lovely guy who had messayed for a while and he did ask if there was something that had put me off messaging him as he had noticed Id looked at him

I told him I was just having a mass browse day

so a good day? are you back in stealth mode now then?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Im back in stealth mode again,I feel more secure

I literally could just look at a profile and straight away it was looking back at me!

I prefer my comfort zone of privacy,but Im not backwards at coming forwards and if Im looking for a particular something then ill find it myself and send messages

I also noticed that I looked at profiles I was chatting to a lot because I forgot what they had on there or I forgot who I was looking at

Must have come across as a right stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well no body has looked at mine for days

So it doesn't matter that I still haven't up dated my profile text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel violated

Please do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"selected*"

Who said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well no body has looked at mine for days

So it doesn't matter that I still haven't up dated my profile text

I just looked

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By *r and mrs willingCouple
over a year ago

SOUTH WEST & WALES

" - we perv in stealth as im sure we look at some profiles an unhealthy quantity of times

- "

I certainly wouldn't be here without stealth mode. Without doubt I'd be labelled as a stalker otherwise ... And rightly so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never in stealth mode...if I don't show up in your list I haven't looked.

Stealth Mode is a bit stupid to me...if I look at someone I WANT them to KNOW I've looked.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I'm never in stealth mode...if I don't show up in your list I haven't looked.

Stealth Mode is a bit stupid to me...if I look at someone I WANT them to KNOW I've looked.

I don't because sometimes when I've looked I wished I hadn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm never in stealth mode...if I don't show up in your list I haven't looked.

Stealth Mode is a bit stupid to me...if I look at someone I WANT them to KNOW I've looked.

I don't because sometimes when I've looked I wished I hadn't!

...what are you trying to say huh?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im back in stealth mode again,I feel more secure

I literally could just look at a profile and straight away it was looking back at me!

I prefer my comfort zone of privacy,but Im not backwards at coming forwards and if Im looking for a particular something then ill find it myself and send messages

I also noticed that I looked at profiles I was chatting to a lot because I forgot what they had on there or I forgot who I was looking at

Must have come across as a right stalker

Welcome back to the comfort zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I certainly wouldn't be here without stealth mode. Without doubt I'd be labelled as a stalker otherwise ... And rightly so

Same here, wouldn't want to risk being blocked just for being a pervert.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I'm never in stealth mode...if I don't show up in your list I haven't looked.

Stealth Mode is a bit stupid to me...if I look at someone I WANT them to KNOW I've looked.

I don't because sometimes when I've looked I wished I hadn't!

...what are you trying to say huh?...

That you don't know what you're going to see until you've looked and sometimes its not what you expect at all

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nah... I like stealth mode and given the number of threads that pop up asking 'x looked at my profile, what does that mean? Should I message them?' then I shall stick with ninja perving.

If there was a filter to switch off ninja peeves I wouldn't use it, what's good for the goose etc. but I'm not really that arsed either way. I rarely look to see who's been looking anyway so it doesn't really matter. I suspect indifferent is the apt word.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm an undercover perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm never in stealth mode...if I don't show up in your list I haven't looked.

Stealth Mode is a bit stupid to me...if I look at someone I WANT them to KNOW I've looked.

I don't because sometimes when I've looked I wished I hadn't!

Oh yeah ~ I know that feeling!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a perv

FTFY

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I'm a perv

FTFY

In English please I'm not in the down with the kids gang...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a perv

FTFY

In English please I'm not in the down with the kids gang...

F ixed

T hat

F or

Y ou

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"I admit to use it so i can have a snoop at profiles without risking interrogation from people saying 'saw you look at me'

BUTTTTT...

If there was a filter that gave people the option to block people from viewing people's profiles if you are in this mode would you change your mind on using it?

example ive slected 'no stealth profiles' and that instantly stops anyone in that mode from viewing me. "

No. Just because someone looks at me doesn't mean to say they are remotely interested in me.

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