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"We all know the trouble we single guys have on here and not being verified makes it harder. Many of the ladies on here are very picky and rightly so. I am also quite picky, rightly or wrongly but we all know what we like. I for one will not lower my standards and sleep with the first woman that allows me to just for the sake of getting verified. I would rather remain unverified and keep my self respect than have a list of ladies that I ordinarily wouldn't entertain. Personally the less veri's a girl has the more appealing they are. I'm a bit intimidated by those with loads if I'm honest. I'd actually prefer a girl to have none, than loads. Your thoughts.......... "My personal thoughts are that you are not getting any sex and are hoping to drum up some interest in yourself on a thread 
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"We all know the trouble we single guys have on here and not being verified makes it harder. Many of the ladies on here are very picky and rightly so. I am also quite picky, rightly or wrongly but we all know what we like. I for one will not lower my standards and sleep with the first woman that allows me to just for the sake of getting verified. I would rather remain unverified and keep my self respect than have a list of ladies that I ordinarily wouldn't entertain. Personally the less veri's a girl has the more appealing they are. I'm a bit intimidated by those with loads if I'm honest. I'd actually prefer a girl to have none, than loads. Your thoughts..........
My personal thoughts are that you are not getting any sex and are hoping to drum up some interest in yourself on a thread
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"We all know the trouble we single guys have on here and not being verified makes it harder. Many of the ladies on here are very picky and rightly so. I am also quite picky, rightly or wrongly but we all know what we like. I for one will not lower my standards and sleep with the first woman that allows me to just for the sake of getting verified. I would rather remain unverified and keep my self respect than have a list of ladies that I ordinarily wouldn't entertain. Personally the less veri's a girl has the more appealing they are. I'm a bit intimidated by those with loads if I'm honest. I'd actually prefer a girl to have none, than loads. Your thoughts..........
My personal thoughts are that you are not getting any sex and are hoping to drum up some interest in yourself on a thread
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"Youd be surprised just how many meets the woman with very few veris actually do have. To assume otherwise is naive. Heres are a few examples; Theres people that dont return veris theyve been given. There are women that dont ask for them or care if they recieve them. There are women looking for a regular FWB but that in itself is a process of trial and error. Their length of time on the site is also a factor. After being on the site for a year all profiles are classed as joining over a year ago, so overall she could have lots of veris but that can be averaged out over her whole time on the site which in some cases can be several years and therefore only equate to a few meets evey other month. There are also women that receive multiple verifications from a particular party, club night or social event, doesnt mean she opened her legs to all of them. " | |||
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"If you find an unverified single woman on Fab, 'she's' a man." Yeah good point, unless they happen to be newbies of course | |||
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"Our thoughts are as previously mentioned , you are on the wrong site . The thing about fab is it is a place to meet fellow swingers for nsa fun . Of course friendships develop too and plenty enjoy the social side just as much , but ultimately it's a swinging site . So if people judge others by the fact that they enjoy nsa encounters on a swinging site ....... " Who's judged anyone, where did that come from. I thought the whole point was NSA encounters with like minded people. My point was that you can still maintain your standards whilst doing that rather than taking your first offer just to get veri'd | |||
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"personally the 'veri trail' is more off putting than the numbers." Yeah that's what I'm getting at really, when you look into the people that have left the veri's it can be a bit off putting. Only in some cases and I'm not judging anyone here, it's all a matter of personal taste | |||
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"Our thoughts are as previously mentioned , you are on the wrong site . The thing about fab is it is a place to meet fellow swingers for nsa fun . Of course friendships develop too and plenty enjoy the social side just as much , but ultimately it's a swinging site . So if people judge others by the fact that they enjoy nsa encounters on a swinging site ....... Who's judged anyone, where did that come from. I thought the whole point was NSA encounters with like minded people. My point was that you can still maintain your standards whilst doing that rather than taking your first offer just to get veri'd "Actually OP youe post does read as having quite a underlying tone of being judgemental and assuming towards both men and women. You just dont realise as you probably didnt intend for it to come across that way. Youve basically said all men are looking to get their dicks wet for the sake of a verification and the dont care who they stick it in and all woman that have lot of veris are slags so both sexes hav no standards | |||
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"personally the 'veri trail' is more off putting than the numbers. Yeah that's what I'm getting at really, when you look into the people that have left the veri's it can be a bit off putting. Only in some cases and I'm not judging anyone here, it's all a matter of personal taste "In that case, best stop having sex with the guys who have left 'veris' for the woman | |||
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"Our thoughts are as previously mentioned , you are on the wrong site . The thing about fab is it is a place to meet fellow swingers for nsa fun . Of course friendships develop too and plenty enjoy the social side just as much , but ultimately it's a swinging site . So if people judge others by the fact that they enjoy nsa encounters on a swinging site ....... Who's judged anyone, where did that come from. I thought the whole point was NSA encounters with like minded people. My point was that you can still maintain your standards whilst doing that rather than taking your first offer just to get veri'd
Actually OP youe post does read as having quite a underlying tone of being judgemental and assuming towards both men and women. You just dont realise as you probably didnt intend for it to come across that way.
Youve basically said all men are looking to get their dicks wet for the sake of a verification and the dont care who they stick it in and all woman that have lot of veris are slags so both sexes hav no standards " | |||
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"I myself have over 200 veries dont mean I sleep around . just means I like to get out and travel meet new people of the same mind .... if I do have a meet when there I might not veri him or him me .... all depends on what we agreed .... but does it matter how many she / he / they have been with ..... after all its,why we all joined up to explore without judgement after all "I'm not here to judge, the reason I say I prefer less veri's is because I'd feel a bit out of my depth meeting a lady with a lot of experience with the swinging scene, not because I think that lady has been with too many men. It's more to do with my own insecurity and the fear of not measuring up. I'd rather be broken in gently by a girl with similar experience with swinging if that makes sense | |||
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"We all know the trouble we single guys have on here and not being verified makes it harder. Many of the ladies on here are very picky and rightly so. I am also quite picky, rightly or wrongly but we all know what we like. I for one will not lower my standards and sleep with the first woman that allows me to just for the sake of getting verified. I would rather remain unverified and keep my self respect than have a list of ladies that I ordinarily wouldn't entertain. Personally the less veri's a girl has the more appealing they are. I'm a bit intimidated by those with loads if I'm honest. I'd actually prefer a girl to have none, than loads. Your thoughts.......... "There may be some deep underlying reason for this, my advice would be to seek some kind of therapy.  | |||
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"I myself have over 200 veries dont mean I sleep around . just means I like to get out and travel meet new people of the same mind .... if I do have a meet when there I might not veri him or him me .... all depends on what we agreed .... but does it matter how many she / he / they have been with ..... after all its,why we all joined up to explore without judgement after all
I'm not here to judge, the reason I say I prefer less veri's is because I'd feel a bit out of my depth meeting a lady with a lot of experience with the swinging scene, not because I think that lady has been with too many men. It's more to do with my own insecurity and the fear of not measuring up. I'd rather be broken in gently by a girl with similar experience with swinging if that makes sense "It does but I think your just trying to dig your way out of a hole so to speak. | |||
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"Youd be surprised just how many meets the woman with very few veris actually do have. To assume otherwise is naive. Heres are a few examples; Theres people that dont return veris theyve been given. There are women that dont ask for them or care if they recieve them. There are women looking for a regular FWB but that in itself is a process of trial and error. Their length of time on the site is also a factor. After being on the site for a year all profiles are classed as joining over a year ago, so overall she could have lots of veris but that can be averaged out over her whole time on the site which in some cases can be several years and therefore only equate to a few meets evey other month. There are also women that receive multiple verifications from a particular party, club night or social event, doesnt mean she opened her legs to all of them. " | |||
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"I myself have over 200 veries dont mean I sleep around . just means I like to get out and travel meet new people of the same mind .... if I do have a meet when there I might not veri him or him me .... all depends on what we agreed .... but does it matter how many she / he / they have been with ..... after all its,why we all joined up to explore without judgement after all
I'm not here to judge, the reason I say I prefer less veri's is because I'd feel a bit out of my depth meeting a lady with a lot of experience with the swinging scene, not because I think that lady has been with too many men. It's more to do with my own insecurity and the fear of not measuring up. I'd rather be broken in gently by a girl with similar experience with swinging if that makes sense "ive always tried to make every one I meet like they were my first meet .. you dont think that the fem is just as nervous as you ?? she dont know you nor her you ... so yeah us girls feel just as out our depth and nervous as much as the nxt ... | |||
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"personally the 'veri trail' is more off putting than the numbers. Yeah that's what I'm getting at really, when you look into the people that have left the veri's it can be a bit off putting. Only in some cases and I'm not judging anyone here, it's all a matter of personal taste "You're not judging but you'd prefer a woman with few or no veris?! 
You make the assumption that veris are all from play meets. I will veri anyone I meet for a social as long as they are pleasant and havent misrepresented themselves in their profile. And the majority of people I meet for a coffee I decline because I don't feel enough lust.
Add in the veris I get and give to those who I've met in clubs and organised socials and I've got a huge list of veris and am part of a spiderweb of meets that will include people who would put anyone off from meeting me. But swinging is a lifestyle, this is a community - why would I deny knowing pleasant people just because I wouldn't shag them?
I only show a handful of veris because of people like the OP, people who make judgements about me because of numbers completely forgetting context. | |||
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"Our thoughts are as previously mentioned , you are on the wrong site . The thing about fab is it is a place to meet fellow swingers for nsa fun . Of course friendships develop too and plenty enjoy the social side just as much , but ultimately it's a swinging site . So if people judge others by the fact that they enjoy nsa encounters on a swinging site ....... Who's judged anyone, where did that come from. I thought the whole point was NSA encounters with like minded people. My point was that you can still maintain your standards whilst doing that rather than taking your first offer just to get veri'd
Actually OP youe post does read as having quite a underlying tone of being judgemental and assuming towards both men and women. You just dont realise as you probably didnt intend for it to come across that way.
Youve basically said all men are looking to get their dicks wet for the sake of a verification and the dont care who they stick it in and all woman that have lot of veris are slags so both sexes hav no standards "I must have missed the bit where I said that, those arn't my words | |||
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"I myself have over 200 veries dont mean I sleep around . just means I like to get out and travel meet new people of the same mind .... if I do have a meet when there I might not veri him or him me .... all depends on what we agreed .... but does it matter how many she / he / they have been with ..... after all its,why we all joined up to explore without judgement after all
I'm not here to judge, the reason I say I prefer less veri's is because I'd feel a bit out of my depth meeting a lady with a lot of experience with the swinging scene, not because I think that lady has been with too many men. It's more to do with my own insecurity and the fear of not measuring up. I'd rather be broken in gently by a girl with similar experience with swinging if that makes sense
It does but I think your just trying to dig your way out of a hole so to speak."I havn't dug a hole, it's been dug for me by people who are twisting my words and making wild assumptions. My post was about me, nobody else but people just like to find a reason to jump on someone. | |||
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"Our thoughts are as previously mentioned , you are on the wrong site . The thing about fab is it is a place to meet fellow swingers for nsa fun . Of course friendships develop too and plenty enjoy the social side just as much , but ultimately it's a swinging site . So if people judge others by the fact that they enjoy nsa encounters on a swinging site ....... Who's judged anyone, where did that come from. I thought the whole point was NSA encounters with like minded people. My point was that you can still maintain your standards whilst doing that rather than taking your first offer just to get veri'd
Actually OP youe post does read as having quite a underlying tone of being judgemental and assuming towards both men and women. You just dont realise as you probably didnt intend for it to come across that way.
Youve basically said all men are looking to get their dicks wet for the sake of a verification and the dont care who they stick it in and all woman that have lot of veris are slags so both sexes hav no standards
I must have missed the bit where I said that, those arn't my words "I didnt say those were your exact words Read the first paragraph again andcreally think about wht I wrote | |||
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"Our thoughts are as previously mentioned , you are on the wrong site . The thing about fab is it is a place to meet fellow swingers for nsa fun . Of course friendships develop too and plenty enjoy the social side just as much , but ultimately it's a swinging site . So if people judge others by the fact that they enjoy nsa encounters on a swinging site ....... Who's judged anyone, where did that come from. I thought the whole point was NSA encounters with like minded people. My point was that you can still maintain your standards whilst doing that rather than taking your first offer just to get veri'd
Actually OP youe post does read as having quite a underlying tone of being judgemental and assuming towards both men and women. You just dont realise as you probably didnt intend for it to come across that way.
Youve basically said all men are looking to get their dicks wet for the sake of a verification and the dont care who they stick it in and all woman that have lot of veris are slags so both sexes hav no standards
I must have missed the bit where I said that, those arn't my words "No, your words were: "Personally the less veri's a girl has the more appealing they are." "I'd actually prefer a girl to have none, than loads." And that is your choice. I am ofcourse deeply hurt that I am no longer being considered in the orderly queue of women waiting to 'jump' you | |||
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"at the end of the day ... you will meet when your ready but finding a fab virgin good luck as most have been here a good few times .... just like yourself and who knows what or who they have done before fab .. so would you judge someone you met in a bar the same ... ask her what her ex's looked like ?? what sexual things they tried ... how many partners in last 6mths ???? " There you go again, I ask again, who has judged anyone because I certainly havn't. Just because you lot decide to tell me I'm judging others doesn't mean that I am. Dear god | |||
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"Our thoughts are as previously mentioned , you are on the wrong site . The thing about fab is it is a place to meet fellow swingers for nsa fun . Of course friendships develop too and plenty enjoy the social side just as much , but ultimately it's a swinging site . So if people judge others by the fact that they enjoy nsa encounters on a swinging site ....... Who's judged anyone, where did that come from. I thought the whole point was NSA encounters with like minded people. My point was that you can still maintain your standards whilst doing that rather than taking your first offer just to get veri'd
Actually OP youe post does read as having quite a underlying tone of being judgemental and assuming towards both men and women. You just dont realise as you probably didnt intend for it to come across that way.
Youve basically said all men are looking to get their dicks wet for the sake of a verification and the dont care who they stick it in and all woman that have lot of veris are slags so both sexes hav no standards
I must have missed the bit where I said that, those arn't my words
No, your words were:
"Personally the less veri's a girl has the more appealing they are."
"I'd actually prefer a girl to have none, than loads."
And that is your choice. I am ofcourse deeply hurt that I am no longer being considered in the orderly queue of women waiting to 'jump' you "Yes and I have explained why if you bother to read, that is to do with me not the ladies | |||
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"personally the 'veri trail' is more off putting than the numbers. Yeah that's what I'm getting at really, when you look into the people that have left the veri's it can be a bit off putting. Only in some cases and I'm not judging anyone here, it's all a matter of personal taste "read what you typed ... you are judging her by the veries left by certain folk she met .... come on ... if thats not judging what is ??? | |||
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"Our thoughts are as previously mentioned , you are on the wrong site . The thing about fab is it is a place to meet fellow swingers for nsa fun . Of course friendships develop too and plenty enjoy the social side just as much , but ultimately it's a swinging site . So if people judge others by the fact that they enjoy nsa encounters on a swinging site ....... Who's judged anyone, where did that come from. I thought the whole point was NSA encounters with like minded people. My point was that you can still maintain your standards whilst doing that rather than taking your first offer just to get veri'd
Actually OP youe post does read as having quite a underlying tone of being judgemental and assuming towards both men and women. You just dont realise as you probably didnt intend for it to come across that way.
Youve basically said all men are looking to get their dicks wet for the sake of a verification and the dont care who they stick it in and all woman that have lot of veris are slags so both sexes hav no standards
I must have missed the bit where I said that, those arn't my words
No, your words were:
"Personally the less veri's a girl has the more appealing they are."
"I'd actually prefer a girl to have none, than loads."
And that is your choice. I am ofcourse deeply hurt that I am no longer being considered in the orderly queue of women waiting to 'jump' you
Yes and I have explained why if you bother to read, that is to do with me not the ladies"No longer am I just an ugly slag but illiterate too ;-( | |||
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"Our thoughts are as previously mentioned , you are on the wrong site . The thing about fab is it is a place to meet fellow swingers for nsa fun . Of course friendships develop too and plenty enjoy the social side just as much , but ultimately it's a swinging site . So if people judge others by the fact that they enjoy nsa encounters on a swinging site ....... Who's judged anyone, where did that come from. I thought the whole point was NSA encounters with like minded people. My point was that you can still maintain your standards whilst doing that rather than taking your first offer just to get veri'd
Actually OP youe post does read as having quite a underlying tone of being judgemental and assuming towards both men and women. You just dont realise as you probably didnt intend for it to come across that way.
Youve basically said all men are looking to get their dicks wet for the sake of a verification and the dont care who they stick it in and all woman that have lot of veris are slags so both sexes hav no standards
I must have missed the bit where I said that, those arn't my words
No, your words were:
"Personally the less veri's a girl has the more appealing they are."
"I'd actually prefer a girl to have none, than loads."
And that is your choice. I am ofcourse deeply hurt that I am no longer being considered in the orderly queue of women waiting to 'jump' you
Yes and I have explained why if you bother to read, that is to do with me not the ladies
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"At the end of the day myself and Tempting Devil and others have given very reasoned answers as to why some women have lots of verifications, and why you do come across judgemental merely by not looking at the bigger picture of them, these points that you may not have previously considered, yet youve chose not to acknowledge those comments and just jump on people that dont agree with you. Not the bet approach for someone called MrNice " I havn't jumped on anyone, I've defended myself when being accused of being judgemental etc and now I'm being accused of calling people illiterate and ugly so I'm quite entitled to try and set people straight if I feel I have been treated unfairly and misinterpreted which I have. I havn't said a bad word about anyone, good day to you all, I'm off out shopping | |||
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"Our thoughts are as previously mentioned , you are on the wrong site . The thing about fab is it is a place to meet fellow swingers for nsa fun . Of course friendships develop too and plenty enjoy the social side just as much , but ultimately it's a swinging site . So if people judge others by the fact that they enjoy nsa encounters on a swinging site ....... Who's judged anyone, where did that come from. I thought the whole point was NSA encounters with like minded people. My point was that you can still maintain your standards whilst doing that rather than taking your first offer just to get veri'd
Actually OP youe post does read as having quite a underlying tone of being judgemental and assuming towards both men and women. You just dont realise as you probably didnt intend for it to come across that way.
Youve basically said all men are looking to get their dicks wet for the sake of a verification and the dont care who they stick it in and all woman that have lot of veris are slags so both sexes hav no standards
I must have missed the bit where I said that, those arn't my words
No, your words were:
"Personally the less veri's a girl has the more appealing they are."
"I'd actually prefer a girl to have none, than loads."
And that is your choice. I am ofcourse deeply hurt that I am no longer being considered in the orderly queue of women waiting to 'jump' you
Yes and I have explained why if you bother to read, that is to do with me not the ladies"Don't hold your breath on people actually reading what you've written!! They see what they what to and jump right in. | |||
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"Our thoughts are as previously mentioned , you are on the wrong site . The thing about fab is it is a place to meet fellow swingers for nsa fun . Of course friendships develop too and plenty enjoy the social side just as much , but ultimately it's a swinging site . So if people judge others by the fact that they enjoy nsa encounters on a swinging site ....... Who's judged anyone, where did that come from. I thought the whole point was NSA encounters with like minded people. My point was that you can still maintain your standards whilst doing that rather than taking your first offer just to get veri'd
Actually OP youe post does read as having quite a underlying tone of being judgemental and assuming towards both men and women. You just dont realise as you probably didnt intend for it to come across that way.
Youve basically said all men are looking to get their dicks wet for the sake of a verification and the dont care who they stick it in and all woman that have lot of veris are slags so both sexes hav no standards
I must have missed the bit where I said that, those arn't my words
No, your words were:
"Personally the less veri's a girl has the more appealing they are."
"I'd actually prefer a girl to have none, than loads."
And that is your choice. I am ofcourse deeply hurt that I am no longer being considered in the orderly queue of women waiting to 'jump' you
Yes and I have explained why if you bother to read, that is to do with me not the ladies
Don't hold your breath on people actually reading what you've written!!
They see what they what to and jump right in.
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"I was actually after a bit of grown up conversation, silly me eh "Stick around and you'll soon suss out what topics bring the best out in people....  | |||
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"I was actually after a bit of grown up conversation, silly me eh "I was feeling sorry for the way you got dogpiled, but then you say something like this. You do seem to be asking for these comments now. | |||
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"At the end of the day myself and Tempting Devil and others have given very reasoned answers as to why some women have lots of verifications, and why you do come across judgemental merely by not looking at the bigger picture of them, these points that you may not have previously considered, yet youve chose not to acknowledge those comments and just jump on people that dont agree with you. Not the bet approach for someone called MrNice I havn't jumped on anyone, I've defended myself when being accused of being judgemental etc and now I'm being accused of calling people illiterate and ugly so I'm quite entitled to try and set people straight if I feel I have been treated unfairly and misinterpreted which I have. I havn't said a bad word about anyone, good day to you all, I'm off out shopping "So are you going to acknowledge the valid points made in reference to your OP or not? | |||
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"I was actually after a bit of grown up conversation, silly me eh
I was feeling sorry for the way you got dogpiled, but then you say something like this. You do seem to be asking for these comments now."Nah I'm off out now, I bid you all a good day for now | |||
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"I was actually after a bit of grown up conversation, silly me eh "In that case, best go to the NPL forum. This one here is for folk interested in lots of sex | |||
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"no we havent jumped right in ... he would like to.meet a fem with either very.few or no veries as he has been put off by lots of veries and some of those people she has chosen to meet which is his post .... if you dont want comments on posts and what others take from them think about how you word and post .... simples ..... " Did you read the bit where I explained why I prefer less veri's, as it says, that is to do with my insecurities and no reflection on the lady. MrNice over and out | |||
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"That's nothing. You try a. " would Yer fuck me " thread. Then you will see how bad they get "well maybe ... how many veries do you have ? who have you met lol only kidding lol  | |||
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"That's nothing. You try a. " would Yer fuck me " thread. Then you will see how bad they get
well maybe ... how many veries do you have ? who have you met lol
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"Make me giggle the closet judgmentals that join these sites. To many people expecting her, him, them to be just right for what they seek and if they aint judgment is passed lmfao. If someone's for you approach them if you feel the want. If someone's not for you then leave them to it. Each to their own and there's horses for courses. "I ain't meeting no horse I can tell Yer | |||
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"I dont care either, its just a fuck and its not iike we gonna see eachother again lol "But a verified f**k is, erm, veri bad | |||
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"personally the 'veri trail' is more off putting than the numbers. Yeah that's what I'm getting at really, when you look into the people that have left the veri's it can be a bit off putting. Only in some cases and I'm not judging anyone here, it's all a matter of personal taste
read what you typed ... you are judging her by the veries left by certain folk she met .... come on ... if thats not judging what is ??? "as I replied to you when you wrote it but didnt look at reply so you see ... and I did post reply so to your im shy and scared ... we are also but thats the thrill and excitement for some of us .. | |||
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"no we havent jumped right in ... he would like to.meet a fem with either very.few or no veries as he has been put off by lots of veries and some of those people she has chosen to meet which is his post .... if you dont want comments on posts and what others take from them think about how you word and post .... simples ..... " His preference, you have yours. Difference of opinion is good ~ changing people's actual comments to make them sound worse isn't. He didn't say all woman with lots of veri's are slags, that was someone else's interpretation. Vive la difference people, ffs. | |||
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"That's nothing. You try a. " would Yer fuck me " thread. Then you will see how bad they get
well maybe ... how many veries do you have ? who have you met lol
only kidding lol Shit I'm fucked "only round the back of the bike shed lol | |||
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"I dont care either, its just a fuck and its not iike we gonna see eachother again lol
But a verified f**k is, erm, veri bad "lol yes mind you few you meet and fuck dont even do a veri back. | |||
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"no we havent jumped right in ... he would like to.meet a fem with either very.few or no veries as he has been put off by lots of veries and some of those people she has chosen to meet which is his post .... if you dont want comments on posts and what others take from them think about how you word and post .... simples ..... His preference, you have yours. Difference of opinion is good ~ changing people's actual comments to make them sound worse isn't. He didn't say all woman with lots of veri's are slags, that was someone else's interpretation. Vive la difference people, ffs." my referance was to him saying he didnt say it .... where he has said it was by reading some of whl had verifiec her at no where on this thread have I said any thing about slags . and I have not said he cant be choosy either ... just not to judge the fem on those she has met or verified her . she may have met a few but still just as scared and not as sexually experianced as he thinks she might be or someone had said she was ... as that night she knew what she was doing .... | |||
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"That's nothing. You try a. " would Yer fuck me " thread. Then you will see how bad they get
well maybe ... how many veries do you have ? who have you met lol
only kidding lol Shit I'm fucked
only round the back of the bike shed lol "Do they still do that ? | |||
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"no we havent jumped right in ... he would like to.meet a fem with either very.few or no veries as he has been put off by lots of veries and some of those people she has chosen to meet which is his post .... if you dont want comments on posts and what others take from them think about how you word and post .... simples ..... His preference, you have yours. Difference of opinion is good ~ changing people's actual comments to make them sound worse isn't. He didn't say all woman with lots of veri's are slags, that was someone else's interpretation. Vive la difference people, ffs." I didnt personally take it as he was calling all women with lots of verifications slags or saying he thinks all men stick their dick in anything gor sake of a veri, I was merely trying to.point out that it could come across that way and unfortunately for the OP it as. | |||
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"That's nothing. You try a. " would Yer fuck me " thread. Then you will see how bad they get
well maybe ... how many veries do you have ? who have you met lol
only kidding lol Shit I'm fucked
only round the back of the bike shed lol Do they still do that ? "Yep, B&Q still stock 'em | |||
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"That's nothing. You try a. " would Yer fuck me " thread. Then you will see how bad they get
well maybe ... how many veries do you have ? who have you met lol
only kidding lol Shit I'm fucked
only round the back of the bike shed lol Do they still do that ? "no idea lets go check maybe we ca. join in lol | |||
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" I do know, sometimes, get the opposite problem as I have over 200 verifications....but they are very varied. People I have met at clubs and parties which include social as well as play. I just parties too...hence verifications from guys amongst them. Some say no....too many verifications, others actually bother to read the mix of them and see that I am a well rounded guy, enjoying all aspects of fab. If you can put that across to people then none or 200 is all the same. ..." This is what I was trying to say in my first comment, you need to read every veri and look at the big picture. Not just think jeez shes got hundreds of veris Im not meeting her | |||
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"If you find an unverified single woman on Fab, 'she's' a man." | |||
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"I myself have over 200 veries dont mean I sleep around . just means I like to get out and travel meet new people of the same mind .... if I do have a meet when there I might not veri him or him me .... all depends on what we agreed .... but does it matter how many she / he / they have been with ..... after all its,why we all joined up to explore without judgement after all
I'm not here to judge, the reason I say I prefer less veri's is because I'd feel a bit out of my depth meeting a lady with a lot of experience with the swinging scene, not because I think that lady has been with too many men. It's more to do with my own insecurity and the fear of not measuring up. I'd rather be broken in gently by a girl with similar experience with swinging if that makes sense "I know what you mean. And I understood your OP. Good luck. x | |||
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"no we havent jumped right in ... he would like to.meet a fem with either very.few or no veries as he has been put off by lots of veries and some of those people she has chosen to meet which is his post .... if you dont want comments on posts and what others take from them think about how you word and post .... simples ..... His preference, you have yours. Difference of opinion is good ~ changing people's actual comments to make them sound worse isn't. He didn't say all woman with lots of veri's are slags, that was someone else's interpretation. Vive la difference people, ffs."
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