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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

HI guys, fairly new to the site and the world of swinging! For our first meet, would it be best to go to a club, meet one on one, or we've got the opportunity to go to buddies hotel in blackpool? after reading some posts on the forums we're really confused where best to start !!

roger and vee

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

Start where you most think you will feel comfortable, nerves will always be raging for a first meet anyway no point in putting even more pressure on yourselves regards to venues

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"HI guys, fairly new to the site and the world of swinging! For our first meet, would it be best to go to a club, meet one on one, or we've got the opportunity to go to buddies hotel in blackpool? after reading some posts on the forums we're really confused where best to start !!

roger and vee"

Modesty prevents me from saying start with my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks, any good advice or tips I should know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Don't feel you have to do anything you're not comfortable with

You don't have to meet everyone that wants to meet you

You can say no at any time and at any point

Use your gut instinct and if something does'nt feel right about someone then its usually for a reason

Have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks alot everyone really nervous and excited !

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"thanks alot everyone really nervous and excited !"

always a good sign

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By *andoras DreamCouple
over a year ago

Swindon Area

Hi,

we are fairly new to this too. We still have not met anyone yet but just last night arranged our first meet next month.

We have started by camming with couples, it may not be your thing but we have found it really good. Mainly because we are still meeting couples on cam, having fun, seeing how we feel talking to others sexually and how we feel when others talk to us sexually.

Now we have had some great nights on camera and have made some really great friends, we are ready to move onto the next stage. We are going to go to a club and join in but only if we want to, or we may just people watch but again we want to know how we both feel about others approaching us for sex.

When we meet our first couple we have all agreed that we are going to soft swing to start with (unless we agree to full swap when we get there), we can fun with each other but ultimately have full sex with our partner.

its really up to you how you want to go about it but my advice is to verify any couple you message, chat to them on the phone or wave on cam, doing this makes you feel more relaxed and ready to do what ever you want to.

Good luck.

Jay. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner and I have been swinging for Eight weeks.We have been to one party and are in the process of arranging coupleof meets but started at the La Chambre in Sheffield. We would say start at a club - no pressure to do anything other than soak up the atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no hard and fast rule. Some like the club situation where they can watch and take it all on board. Others feel a little self concious in clubs.

Often a social meet with a couple who know your new can work as you just meet in a pub for a drink or so. To be honest the outcome and the enjoyment factor is largely to do with whom you encounter.

The most important thing to do is not to rush and go at your own pace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you, that is really helpful and sounds like a very good place to start, less pressure!!

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By *andoras DreamCouple
over a year ago

Swindon Area


"thank you, that is really helpful and sounds like a very good place to start, less pressure!!"

You have got a good profile too which helps. You should find some great friends on here!

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