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By *orthen soul man OP Man
over a year ago

aberdeen

Can anybody tell me a good book that shows how to tie up boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No - do some research

Go to a meet

Do a course

Do not fuck about reading a book

The potential to do serious damage is huge

ESPECIALLY on soft tissue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No - do some research

Go to a meet

Do a course

Do not fuck about reading a book

The potential to do serious damage is huge

ESPECIALLY on soft tissue "

Good Advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spare the roses, send me the thorns (I think that's what it is called) is a good book that explains a lot about toolsused in bdsm.

There are also YouTube videos etc on the Web that show you through how to tie someone. I'm sure someone will come along and say who does them.

It's good that you are willing to put time and effort into understanding how to master these things rather that just going out there and giving it a bash which can be dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No - do some research

Go to a meet

Do a course

Do not fuck about reading a book

The potential to do serious damage is huge

ESPECIALLY on soft tissue

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No its not. Firstly, he is trying to do simecresearch and he gets shot down for it? Secondly, what's the point of going on a meet when he doesn't know what he is doing?

A course maybe a good suggestion but I'd imagine costly so maybe he wants to see if it's really for him before committing to that.

IMHO of course

Evie!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a good few Japanese books that cover the rope work beautifully...and you can even buy some of them from Amazon...

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Boy Scouts of America's Deck of Knots

The ultimate book of everyday knots

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

As a rope bunny.... I strongly advise going to a rope group there are enough scattered around each County.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No - do some research

Go to a meet

Do a course

Do not fuck about reading a book

The potential to do serious damage is huge

ESPECIALLY on soft tissue

Good Advice

No its not. Firstly, he is trying to do simecresearch and he gets shot down for it? Secondly, what's the point of going on a meet when he doesn't know what he is doing?

A course maybe a good suggestion but I'd imagine costly so maybe he wants to see if it's really for him before committing to that.

IMHO of course

Evie!!"

I did not suggest a meet!

There is absolutely no substitute for hands on.

All the books and videos WILL NOT show you the difference in tension on a cord.

Laying a knot in the right orientation.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"No - do some research

Go to a meet

Do a course

Do not fuck about reading a book

The potential to do serious damage is huge

ESPECIALLY on soft tissue

Good Advice

No its not. Firstly, he is trying to do simecresearch and he gets shot down for it? Secondly, what's the point of going on a meet when he doesn't know what he is doing?

A course maybe a good suggestion but I'd imagine costly so maybe he wants to see if it's really for him before committing to that.

IMHO of course

Evie!!"

Actually some of them cost only a fiver, I go once a month and have been a rope bunny for over 3 yrs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've worked with ropes for over 25yrs but there are things I wouldn't consider.

It's far too easy to inflict serious damage

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

As my profile pic shows, there's alot more to it than research in books or Internet!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"No - do some research

Go to a meet

Do a course

Do not fuck about reading a book

The potential to do serious damage is huge

ESPECIALLY on soft tissue

Good Advice

No its not. Firstly, he is trying to do simecresearch and he gets shot down for it? Secondly, what's the point of going on a meet when he doesn't know what he is doing?

A course maybe a good suggestion but I'd imagine costly so maybe he wants to see if it's really for him before committing to that.

IMHO of course

Evie!!

I did not suggest a meet!

There is absolutely no substitute for hands on.

All the books and videos WILL NOT show you the difference in tension on a cord.

Laying a knot in the right orientation.

So the bit where you said go to a meet wasn't suggesting a meet then?

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

A meet in rope lingo means a meet of Ropey people that know Shibari

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"No - do some research

Go to a meet

Do a course

Do not fuck about reading a book

The potential to do serious damage is huge

ESPECIALLY on soft tissue

Good Advice

No its not. Firstly, he is trying to do simecresearch and he gets shot down for it? Secondly, what's the point of going on a meet when he doesn't know what he is doing?

A course maybe a good suggestion but I'd imagine costly so maybe he wants to see if it's really for him before committing to that.

IMHO of course

Evie!!

I did not suggest a meet!

There is absolutely no substitute for hands on.

All the books and videos WILL NOT show you the difference in tension on a cord.

Laying a knot in the right orientation.

So the bit where you said go to a meet wasn't suggesting a meet then?

I think he meant more like a group, like a Munch or a workshop. There are various demos at events such as BBB and the like sometimes.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"A meet in rope lingo means a meet of Ropey people that know Shibari "

Ah I see. Perhaps that should have been explained considering he was giving advice to someone new to rope.

Thanks

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"No - do some research

Go to a meet

Do a course

Do not fuck about reading a book

The potential to do serious damage is huge

ESPECIALLY on soft tissue

Good Advice

No its not. Firstly, he is trying to do simecresearch and he gets shot down for it? Secondly, what's the point of going on a meet when he doesn't know what he is doing?

A course maybe a good suggestion but I'd imagine costly so maybe he wants to see if it's really for him before committing to that.

IMHO of course

Evie!!

I did not suggest a meet!

There is absolutely no substitute for hands on.

All the books and videos WILL NOT show you the difference in tension on a cord.

Laying a knot in the right orientation.

So the bit where you said go to a meet wasn't suggesting a meet then?

I think he meant more like a group, like a Munch or a workshop. There are various demos at events such as BBB and the like sometimes. "

Yes exactly... We hold them all over and regularly

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"A meet in rope lingo means a meet of Ropey people that know Shibari

Ah I see. Perhaps that should have been explained considering he was giving advice to someone new to rope.

Thanks "

I think I have mentioned in a few post directly under that saying groups, OP had only to read down to see

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Incidentally, I agree that rope play is something that needs to be learnt properly.

There's a lot of scope to do serious, permanent damage if you get it wrong.

It's one of those things that cannot be learnt safely or properly from a book.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"A meet in rope lingo means a meet of Ropey people that know Shibari

Ah I see. Perhaps that should have been explained considering he was giving advice to someone new to rope.

Thanks

I think I have mentioned in a few post directly under that saying groups, OP had only to read down to see "

And I'm sure he did bit it still wasn't clear that when someone said go to a meet they meant go to a group gathering of rope enthusiasts. A bit like when someone experienced in bdsm suggests going to a munch to someone who doesn't know the lingo.

It's all clear now though.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"A meet in rope lingo means a meet of Ropey people that know Shibari

Ah I see. Perhaps that should have been explained considering he was giving advice to someone new to rope.

Thanks

I think I have mentioned in a few post directly under that saying groups, OP had only to read down to see

It's all clear now though. "

I munch every month too... Usually I stay quiet in the discussions but this I feel strongly about so if the op has questions then he can pm me... I'm happy to give him advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anybody tell me a good book that shows how to tie up boobs "

Bra-Making for Dummies.

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