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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Of meeting? So I had my daily phone call with my mother and she asked what I was doing at the weekend and so I said I'm meeting a guy for a day out.... So here comes the 20 questions how did you meet him? Online I reply...she says you need to start meeting men the old fashioned way. I do think it was easier back in the day but today everything is on the Internet...

So my question is do you think it's the old fashioned way or the Internet way?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Of meeting? So I had my daily phone call with my mother and she asked what I was doing at the weekend and so I said I'm meeting a guy for a day out.... So here comes the 20 questions how did you meet him? Online I reply...she says you need to start meeting men the old fashioned way. I do think it was easier back in the day but today everything is on the Internet...

So my question is do you think it's the old fashioned way or the Internet way? "

I say the old fashioned way by meeting face to face her chatting see if you like each other ect. Only had two relationships from the internet all my others come meeting in the big bad real world

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

And everything isn't on the internet, I've met guys at parties, friends of friends, in bars, or just chatting in general, alsorts of ways to meet people.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh and its not the old fashioned way its the normal way lol.

Think that's all I have to say now

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

What, some guy spreading his cloak over a puddle so my dainty feet stay dry? Or hitting me over the head and dragging me back to his cave for mammoth en croute?

The reason why its called the old fashioned way is because people rarely do that sort of thing anymore. I am happy with online meets.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Oh and its not the old fashioned way its the normal way lol.

Think that's all I have to say now "

My mum called it the old fashioned way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

T'internet is just another stage I guess....meet on the webs, then do all the datey stuff...

You can meet someone through a friend or some other real world situation, or through the www these days, I don't think there's anything wrong with a mix of both...your closing off avenues to potentially lovely times if you exclude either way as an avenue for meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of meeting? So I had my daily phone call with my mother and she asked what I was doing at the weekend and so I said I'm meeting a guy for a day out.... So here comes the 20 questions how did you meet him? Online I reply...she says you need to start meeting men the old fashioned way. I do think it was easier back in the day but today everything is on the Internet...

So my question is do you think it's the old fashioned way or the Internet way? "

I'd love nothing more than the old fashioned way but it's seems to be the internet way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my ex husband on the internet... It's a shame he decided to use the Internet for his ego whilst I was pregnant..

However, ironically, I now use the Internet for casual sex. Make of that what you will

If you can't beat them. Join them. But be sooooo much better than the rest

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

You cannot beat a face to face meeting,wish we still had those times,but life moves on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone i've met and where things got a bit serious have been through the old fadhioned way.

I'm just old fashioned. As i'm sure you've realised. I'm shit at doing anything online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many forget that the real world exists...

Sooner or later your body is going to have to cash those cheques your mouth has written....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think there may be an age thing, when your younger your out socialising more. My son has met all his gazillion g/fs this way. Then you don't go out quite as much.

I can never imagine wanting to date anyone again but if I did it would be in the real world and just happen as I'd not actively be looking if anything happened to me and jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can access a wider range of people online who take your fancy as you can read their likes / dislikes and see if your compatible - this you can't do at a bar!

People are also more confident online, because you don't have to face public rejection etc.

The beauty of the Internet way is that you can chat online, then phone and then meet.

There are of course the disadvantages, but atleast it's easier to get to know someone first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many forget that the real world exists...

Sooner or later your body is going to have to cash those cheques your mouth has written...."

How very convenient that you like my mouth then

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Depends what your 'old fashioned way' was. I can't stand 'dating' - I always used to start a relationship with someone I knew in whatever social grouping I was in - bunch 'o hippies, college, large Mayfair ad agency etc. If I am going to have to meet strangers, I like to use the internet for the groundwork rather than have to do all that in person, it's a numbers game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many forget that the real world exists...

Sooner or later your body is going to have to cash those cheques your mouth has written....

How very convenient that you like my mouth then "

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