FabSwingers.com forum: arrogance?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey there fabbers!

im struggling to process the reasoning behind peoples picky outrageous choices. Im not claiming to be gods gift to earth im also and expienced swinger for my age, but the way women seem to choose there meets, fun times, etc I cannot understand and would like some enlightenment! Im fairly new to fab swingers but have experience from meets dogging, clubs, cinemas but on here it seems no matter what I seem to do ( bear in mind im not one of those desperate freaks showing a cock everywhere to everyone... I have selfrespect for myself also others and there veiws/opinions) it seems no one is interested apart from men. And im straight! There seems to be few women but the ones on here and local clamining to be swingers dont batter an eyelid or even reply some times which I find quite rude to be honest.

just wondering if there's something I missed when I signed up please some one shed a little light thanks.

dontay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry about those whose criteria you dont meet. It will drive you to distraction. Concentrate on the things you can affect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it would help if you had something intelligent and maybe witty on your profile.

Men go wrong thinking all women want is a big dick and a buff body. Women need to contect on some level even if its small.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

But you've only been here 2 weeks!! I was half expecting to see you had been on here 6 months or more, then I could sympathise with your post and maybe offer some advice..

Stick it out (so to speak).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But you've only been here 2 weeks!! I was half expecting to see you had been on here 6 months or more, then I could sympathise with your post and maybe offer some advice..

Stick it out (so to speak).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, never even checked the profile.......no wonder nobody's interested. There's nothing about you..........or anything else for that matter. Suggest you start there OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it would help if you had something intelligent and maybe witty on your profile.

Men go wrong thinking all women want is a big dick and a buff body. Women need to contect on some level even if its small. "

You hit the nail on the head! It's the connection thing

If I see something on the profile that catches my attention, whether it's a witty one liner or a good pic (I love funny faces and sporty/muddy pics lol) the I'll chat and arrange a social meet first. THEN if we get in we can play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 119 unread messages and i sure as shit am not replying to all of them, so that's why you don't get a reply probably. It's usually nothing personal, just women get loads of messages and don't wanna spend all their time replying to them all. I don't anyway. despite the fact that more than half of them are decent messages and from attractive guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest problem is peoples expectation when they join and find it's nothing like they thought it would be.

Give it time look, learn, read forums

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are one of many many men on here, i every woman has twenty men messaging her each day that means you have 1 in 20 chance of being picked if she met someone each day, if she only meets once a month thats a potential of 1 in 80 chance of meeting.

Just like in a bar or nightclub if there are no girls in there who are attracted to you then you will go home alone. Also remember that the women who may fancy you may not be your type so that limits it too!

Wait it out be patient, attend socials etc and remember a winning personality helps a good body much more than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it would help if you had something intelligent and maybe witty on your profile.

Men go wrong thinking all women want is a big dick and a buff body. Women need to contect on some level even if its small. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest problem is peoples expectation when they join and find it's nothing like they thought it would be.

Give it time look, learn, read forums

good luck"

You mean it's not just a simple join and await the hordes of ladies that swarm around looking for nsa??

Damn swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it would help if you had something intelligent and maybe witty on your profile.

Men go wrong thinking all women want is a big dick and a buff body. Women need to contect on some level even if its small.

You hit the nail on the head! It's the connection thing

Read posts like this and take note, give it time and go with the flow.

If you were expecting sex on tap then you're going to be even more disappointed thanyou are now.

If you're after more than just getting your end away then this place is good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys and girls! Definitely taken onboard! Expectations is definitely and issue i was told to go on here as i have a few older friends on here some on here for months some not much longer then when i joined and they seem to be more active than me ive seen the mass messsages. Also! I wasnt aware i didn't have anything about me on my profile as silly as it sounds haha so definitely right now im doing my personal info! Thanks for taking time out your evening to respond all!!!!

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well my friends presented it this way loool

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good point! Thank you for taking time to post much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is fine to me, unless I'm seeing the new and improved one!

As others have said, you've been on here only for 2 weeks; it can take a while - people tend to be warey of newbies and plus, you are a little young for most on here. I have a son older than you! :O Futhermore, though it may appear not recieving a 'no thanks' from people rude - would receiving 100s of 'no thank' messages soften the blow? In the site rules, it's not considered compulsory to reply to every message one gets.

Oh, when replying to a specific post, use the 'quote' button, so that we know whom you are referring to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"peoples picky outrageous choices"

Simply it's their choice to make,just like you make yours. Move on.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Good point! Thank you for taking time to post much appreciated

Use the reply and quote button so we know who you are replying too lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Your age will put some off. There have been numerous threads about younger guys not getting any attention as a lot of people don't want to play with people younger than their children etc.

Also, I personally find all the bigging up of how you've been round the block and are super experienced at the age of 18 quite off putting. It just shows immaturity in my opinion.

You say you have vast experience of dogging etc, I'd never even heard of dogging or swinging at 18 Lol not saying you aren't telling the truth, just my personal thoughts on it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Your age will put some off. There have been numerous threads about younger guys not getting any attention as a lot of people don't want to play with people younger than their children etc.

Also, I personally find all the bigging up of how you've been round the block and are super experienced at the age of 18 quite off putting. It just shows immaturity in my opinion.

You say you have vast experience of dogging etc, I'd never even heard of dogging or swinging at 18 Lol not saying you aren't telling the truth, just my personal thoughts on it. "

^this, pretty much.

I'm after more than a cock, or even a cock and a nice body. There has to be some sort of mental connection. I can't imagine what I'd have in common with most 18 year olds.

The bragging about your experience, OP, is very off-putting. Your spelling and English make you seem careless or poorly educated, both of which are traits that put me off. I am more likely to 'click' with people who have values similar to mine, and those are both indicators that someone doesn't.

The defensive stuff at the bottom of your profile about not wanting anyone who will get attached is fair enough, but the way it's written also puts me off. It would be better to simply state you're looking for no-strings fun and don't want anything serious. The way you've written it reads, to me, like you think you're some sort of amazing catch that women simply won't be able to help falling for.

Despite saying you don't believe yourself to be God's gift, your post and profile suggest otherwise so it's ironic that you're complaining women on here are arrogant!

As for whining about women not replying, if you could see fab from the point of view of those women, you'd probably understand. It's not rudeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who don't have pussy falling at their feet within a nano second of joining always blame those pesky arrogant women

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Men who don't have pussy falling at their feet within a nano second of joining always blame those pesky arrogant women

Particularly when they're young sex gods with nice bodies. Apparently.

Damn us and our unreasonable expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men who don't have pussy falling at their feet within a nano second of joining always blame those pesky arrogant women

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It's not really much to ask though... cmon!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hey there fabbers!

just wondering if there's something I missed when I signed up please some one shed a little light thanks.

dontay

You'd probably have more luck in a club or if you go to one of the organised socials. It's difficult for men on here, doubly so for the very young ones. While you have tried to make yourself seem to be what women are after it isn't working for you obviously, have a scout round the forums at how other men interact and observe successful men in clubs etc and pick up a few tips that way.

Good luck, it's a.learning experience for all if us whatever age we start look at it that way.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Well it would help if you had something intelligent and maybe witty on your profile.

Men go wrong thinking all women want is a big dick and a buff body. Women need to contect on some level even if its small. "
" even if its small " yep thats me..

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Apparently on another thread pof is great for single men to get sex!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Hey there fabbers!

just wondering if there's something I missed when I signed up please some one shed a little light thanks.

dontay

Hi Dontay,

I have read your post. The advice I am going to give you is earnest.

1. Stop thinking of this site as 'Fabswingers' with a committed, experienced, fair , balanced and giving clientele.

2. Start thinking of this site as 'The Internet' to which any half baked moronic individual with a computer and working modem is able to connect and contribute.

3. Realise that not everyone is who they say they are.

4. Realise that not everyone wants what you want.

5. Learn to recognise those that do offer what you seek,

don't linger behind smoke and mirrors and make

definite arrangements and seem sane enough.

6. Equally learn to recognise those that are mentally

and emotionally impaired and simply want to grasp and

grovel for attention whilst never having the

herewithall to leave their own greasy armchairs and

see daylight.

7. Decide what you want. Make decisions quickly and move

on with record breaking speed if people don't fit

that bill.

8. Treat everyone with respect. Everyone.

9. There is no nine.

10. Ten things to think about is just too silly..... oh yeah...... lose the concern and the angst. This is just a phone. The magic will come from you and what you do.

Don't settle for less than yourself.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hey there fabbers!

just wondering if there's something I missed when I signed up please some one shed a little light thanks.

dontay

Hi Dontay,

I have read your post. The advice I am going to give you is earnest.

1. Stop thinking of this site as 'Fabswingers' with a committed, experienced, fair , balanced and giving clientele.

2. Start thinking of this site as 'The Internet' to which any half baked moronic individual with a computer and working modem is able to connect and contribute.

3. Realise that not everyone is who they say they are.

4. Realise that not everyone wants what you want.

5. Learn to recognise those that do offer what you seek,

don't linger behind smoke and mirrors and make

definite arrangements and seem sane enough.

6. Equally learn to recognise those that are mentally

and emotionally impaired and simply want to grasp and

grovel for attention whilst never having the

herewithall to leave their own greasy armchairs and

see daylight.

7. Decide what you want. Make decisions quickly and move

on with record breaking speed if people don't fit

that bill.

8. Treat everyone with respect. Everyone.

9. There is no nine.

10. Ten things to think about is just too silly..... oh yeah...... lose the concern and the angst. This is just a phone. The magic will come from you and what you do.

Don't settle for less than yourself.

And there, in 8 sentences we have it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest problem is peoples expectation when they join and find it's nothing like they thought it would be.

Give it time look, learn, read forums

good luck

You mean it's not just a simple join and await the hordes of ladies that swarm around looking for nsa??

Damn swingers site

Someone didn't read the terms and conditions

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Your age will put some off. There have been numerous threads about younger guys not getting any attention as a lot of people don't want to play with people younger than their children etc.

Also, I personally find all the bigging up of how you've been round the block and are super experienced at the age of 18 quite off putting. It just shows immaturity in my opinion.

You say you have vast experience of dogging etc, I'd never even heard of dogging or swinging at 18 Lol not saying you aren't telling the truth, just my personal thoughts on it.

^this, pretty much.

I'm after more than a cock, or even a cock and a nice body. There has to be some sort of mental connection. I can't imagine what I'd have in common with most 18 year olds.

Despite saying you don't believe yourself to be God's gift, your post and profile suggest otherwise so it's ironic that you're complaining women on here are arrogant!

As for whining about women not replying, if you could see fab from the point of view of those women, you'd probably understand. It's not rudeness. "

All of this. There are people on here who have been fucking longer than you have been alive! Myself included.

Both your OP and profile make you appear unapproachable. You need to lighten up and get a feel for how this site works before launching a disgruntled thread after only five weeks on here.

if you're initial messages are anything like your profile ir OP that might be what is putting people off.

PS use your message filters that will stop those pesky men messaging you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8. Treat everyone with respect. Everyone.

8. Treat yourself with the utmost self-respect. Treat everyone else with common courtesy. Allow them to earn your respect over time, and for you to earn theirs.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

His profile is well written.

I can't vouch that it's original but there is nothing in his profile that is off putting. Except that it's a huge claim for someone of his age.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

8. Treat everyone with respect. Everyone.

8. Treat yourself with the utmost self-respect. Treat everyone else with common courtesy. Allow them to earn your respect over time, and for you to earn theirs.

No. Treat them with respect.

It's no good thinking that saying please means you can piss in the sink or that saying thank you after poor treatment makes everything okay.

Courtesy is for road users, when you are in the bank or the supermarket.

Respect. Respect. Respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op I find it very hard to accept how experienced and skilful you are at the age of 18. Most clubs won't let you in for another 3 years. This is not to say that you aren't or haven't had experiences but even the most experienced individual at your age will pale against someone 10 years older. Use some humility and modesty, go to socials and have patience. Some swingers have been swinging since before you were born and still consider themselves beginners. There's a whole big world out there don't presume to know anything. 'The wisest man is he who says he knows nothing'

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"His profile is well written.

I can't vouch that it's original but there is nothing in his profile that is off putting. Except that it's a huge claim for someone of his age. "

It just goes to show we're all different. There are several things in his profile that would put me off.

The usual approach of blaming women for a lack of success in the OP is also deeply unimpressive.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"Hey there fabbers!

just wondering if there's something I missed when I signed up please some one shed a little light thanks.

dontay

Dontay...your profile is like the vast majority of the single guys on here..its junk.your one pic is crap,and there's nothing special in your text..why should you be picked over the thousands of other shitty,single guy profiles on here?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I relish my picky and outrageous choices!

My profile is deliberately tricky. That's how I like it. it discourages fuckwits most of the time.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

2 weeks.....

2.... whole..... weeks....

and we get angst and anger in a post....

i'm sorry the welcoming committee of women dropping their knickers for you wasn't arranged for you.... I'll have the minions sacked....

what granny said in 10 points... i am going to say in 5 words....

time, patience, basic common sense....

is 2 weeks really giving it time??? nope!

is 2 weeks really showing patience???

nope!

before you changed your profile... where you using your common sense to portray the best of you???

nope!

The site gives you all the tools to make it work, use all..use some... use none... for example you didn't use one (your profile) before it was pointed out to you...

basic common sense...... apparently not!

in the end... thats on you!!.... so quit blaming everyone else... look in the mirror and say "what can i do to make myself better"

people are here for fun.... does your profile scream "wow i have to meet that person?" "wow this is a person who i could have a giggle around and would be a good laugh regardless"... nope

negative in the status... negative in the first few lines.....

you have to "help yourself" to help yourself..... the angst in the opening post.... the angst in the profile..... is that really "helping yourself"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of this advice will fall on deaf ears.

As many profiles like this, given time will end up as "user no longer on site"..

Thing is with one so young, some havent the maturity to understand what swinging is actually about.

They join this site and think instashag!!!

Just saying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I relish my picky and outrageous choices!

My profile is deliberately tricky. That's how I like it. it discourages fuckwits most of the time.

having no profile txt works too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Most of this advice will fall on deaf ears.

As many profiles like this, given time will end up as "user no longer on site"..

Thing is with one so young, some havent the maturity to understand what swinging is actually about.

They join this site and think instashag!!!

Just saying..."

Yep but being young isn't a crime and not something that anything but time will change. Plenty of older men thing "instashag" and are quite vociferous in their disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 weeks.....

2.... whole..... weeks....

and we get angst and anger in a post....

i'm sorry the welcoming committee of women dropping their knickers for you wasn't arranged for you.... I'll have the minions sacked....

what granny said in 10 points... i am going to say in 5 words....

time, patience, basic common sense....

is 2 weeks really giving it time??? nope!

is 2 weeks really showing patience???

nope!

before you changed your profile... where you using your common sense to portray the best of you???

nope!

The site gives you all the tools to make it work, use all..use some... use none... for example you didn't use one (your profile) before it was pointed out to you...

basic common sense...... apparently not!

in the end... thats on you!!.... so quit blaming everyone else... look in the mirror and say "what can i do to make myself better"

people are here for fun.... does your profile scream "wow i have to meet that person?" "wow this is a person who i could have a giggle around and would be a good laugh regardless"... nope

negative in the status... negative in the first few lines.....

you have to "help yourself" to help yourself..... the angst in the opening post.... the angst in the profile..... is that really "helping yourself"

"
Fabio you would be an excellent motivational speaker.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"2 weeks.....

2.... whole..... weeks....

and we get angst and anger in a post....

i'm sorry the welcoming committee of women dropping their knickers for you wasn't arranged for you.... I'll have the minions sacked....

what granny said in 10 points... i am going to say in 5 words....

time, patience, basic common sense....

is 2 weeks really giving it time??? nope!

is 2 weeks really showing patience???

nope!

before you changed your profile... where you using your common sense to portray the best of you???

nope!

The site gives you all the tools to make it work, use all..use some... use none... for example you didn't use one (your profile) before it was pointed out to you...

basic common sense...... apparently not!

in the end... thats on you!!.... so quit blaming everyone else... look in the mirror and say "what can i do to make myself better"

people are here for fun.... does your profile scream "wow i have to meet that person?" "wow this is a person who i could have a giggle around and would be a good laugh regardless"... nope

negative in the status... negative in the first few lines.....

you have to "help yourself" to help yourself..... the angst in the opening post.... the angst in the profile..... is that really "helping yourself"

Or have a fanny ( 4 words )

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"His profile is well written.

I can't vouch that it's original but there is nothing in his profile that is off putting. Except that it's a huge claim for someone of his age.

It just goes to show we're all different. There are several things in his profile that would put me off.

The usual approach of blaming women for a lack of success in the OP is also deeply unimpressive."

You are right we are all different. Our outlooks and perspectives differ greatly.

I see NOTHING in his OP that 'blames' women.

He asks for enlightenment. He cannot understand the demands made. He cannot understand the lack of activity. He expected people to be as pursuant as he is. His comments mention women as they are his 'target', not men. He doesn't speak of blame.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've read it again. He is so polite and reasonable.

Throughout his post he uses the word 'seems' He makes it clear that he knows his observations are apparent and not absolute.

He asks for advice. He asks if he is missing something.... He comes across as having a little humility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been on here for two weeks,it's not like a booking agency,women have there choice as you do,be patient,it's not a be all and see all is it I'm sure you will get a meet at some point in time,as the old saying goes,there's someone for everyone.......

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"His profile is well written.

I can't vouch that it's original but there is nothing in his profile that is off putting. Except that it's a huge claim for someone of his age.

It just goes to show we're all different. There are several things in his profile that would put me off.

The usual approach of blaming women for a lack of success in the OP is also deeply unimpressive.

You are right we are all different. Our outlooks and perspectives differ greatly.

I see NOTHING in his OP that 'blames' women.

He suggests it's arrogance, he mentions the picky unreasonable demands and he moans that women not replying are rude.

All this after being here for two weeks.

Yes, he's more reasonable than most and does seem to realise that he can make changes to improve his success.

I'm not a fan of anyone suggesting that not being inundated with offers in 2 weeks is arrogance on the part of the target sex, and the 'no reply is rude' suggests entitlement and a lack of consideration of the perspective of the women he's criticising.

That the profile has already been improved is a positive step though.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

I read it as a suggestion, like it's the first thought or the OP thinks it's the most likely answer. You read it differently, which is fair enough.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at 18 i would be out at clubs enjoying myself not on here

sorry x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"at 18 i would be out at clubs enjoying myself not on here

sorry x"

Who says he isn't?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

I read it as a suggestion, like it's the first thought or the OP thinks it's the most likely answer. You read it differently, which is fair enough."

I read it correctly and didn't embellish it by putting my own thoughts and emotions on the O.P.

I don't think it's too outrageous to consider that some people here are arrogant. They can't all be fucking snow white.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

I read it as a suggestion, like it's the first thought or the OP thinks it's the most likely answer. You read it differently, which is fair enough.

I read it correctly and didn't embellish it by putting my own thoughts and emotions on the O.P.

I don't think it's too outrageous to consider that some people here are arrogant. They can't all be fucking snow white."

Who's fucking snow white, I though only the dwarves were allowed to do that?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"at 18 i would be out at clubs enjoying myself not on here

sorry x

Who says he isn't?"

He's less likely to find older women in clubs and there's nothing wrong with having more than one approach for finding fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"at 18 i would be out at clubs enjoying myself not on here

sorry x

Who says he isn't?"

true

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

I read it as a suggestion, like it's the first thought or the OP thinks it's the most likely answer. You read it differently, which is fair enough.

I read it correctly and didn't embellish it by putting my own thoughts and emotions on the O.P.

I don't think it's too outrageous to consider that some people here are arrogant. They can't all be fucking snow white.

Who's fucking snow white, I though only the dwarves were allowed to do that?

They can't all fucking well be Snow White. ( picky picky picky ! )

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

All those years and I never knew what the rosy cheeked little tramp was up to !

I should have known.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

I read it as a suggestion, like it's the first thought or the OP thinks it's the most likely answer. You read it differently, which is fair enough.

I read it correctly and didn't embellish it by putting my own thoughts and emotions on the O.P.

I don't think it's too outrageous to consider that some people here are arrogant. They can't all be fucking snow white."

I still read it the way I originally read it. Only the OP knows what he was thinking when he wrote it.

Maybe my opinion is coloured by the original lack of effort by the OP and the bragging about how fabulous he is. Maybe it isn't. Without facial expression, tone and body language it's easy to interpret words in different ways.

Some people are without a doubt arrogant, I don't disagree.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

I read it as a suggestion, like it's the first thought or the OP thinks it's the most likely answer. You read it differently, which is fair enough.

I read it correctly and didn't embellish it by putting my own thoughts and emotions on the O.P.

I don't think it's too outrageous to consider that some people here are arrogant. They can't all be fucking snow white.

I still read it the way I originally read it. Only the OP knows what he was thinking when he wrote it.

Some people are without a doubt arrogant, I don't disagree."

Indeed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

I read it as a suggestion, like it's the first thought or the OP thinks it's the most likely answer. You read it differently, which is fair enough.

I read it correctly and didn't embellish it by putting my own thoughts and emotions on the O.P.

I don't think it's too outrageous to consider that some people here are arrogant. They can't all be fucking snow white.

Who's fucking snow white, I though only the dwarves were allowed to do that?

They can't all fucking well be Snow White. ( picky picky picky ! ) "

Jokey, jokey, jokey

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

I read it as a suggestion, like it's the first thought or the OP thinks it's the most likely answer. You read it differently, which is fair enough.

I read it correctly and didn't embellish it by putting my own thoughts and emotions on the O.P.

I don't think it's too outrageous to consider that some people here are arrogant. They can't all be fucking snow white.

I still read it the way I originally read it. Only the OP knows what he was thinking when he wrote it.

Some people are without a doubt arrogant, I don't disagree."

I've had a re read of both his post and profile. Can't see any bragging for the life of me.

Maybe you could underline the bragging for me ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

I read it as a suggestion, like it's the first thought or the OP thinks it's the most likely answer. You read it differently, which is fair enough.

I read it correctly and didn't embellish it by putting my own thoughts and emotions on the O.P.

I don't think it's too outrageous to consider that some people here are arrogant. They can't all be fucking snow white.

Who's fucking snow white, I though only the dwarves were allowed to do that?

They can't all fucking well be Snow White. ( picky picky picky ! )

Jokey, jokey, jokey

Titter ye not! How long was grumpy's cock ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women ask for too much shit..... All you women that have 5000 requests on your profile heres my question... What have you got to give to the guy that meets your ransom requests?........

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

I read it as a suggestion, like it's the first thought or the OP thinks it's the most likely answer. You read it differently, which is fair enough.

I read it correctly and didn't embellish it by putting my own thoughts and emotions on the O.P.

I don't think it's too outrageous to consider that some people here are arrogant. They can't all be fucking snow white.

Who's fucking snow white, I though only the dwarves were allowed to do that?

They can't all fucking well be Snow White. ( picky picky picky ! )

Jokey, jokey, jokey

Titter ye not! How long was grumpy's cock ? "

I don't know, how long was Grumpy's cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the useless advice 'you should be out clubbing' who said he said he isnt out clubbing?..........

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

I read it as a suggestion, like it's the first thought or the OP thinks it's the most likely answer. You read it differently, which is fair enough.

I read it correctly and didn't embellish it by putting my own thoughts and emotions on the O.P.

I don't think it's too outrageous to consider that some people here are arrogant. They can't all be fucking snow white.

I still read it the way I originally read it. Only the OP knows what he was thinking when he wrote it.

Some people are without a doubt arrogant, I don't disagree.

I've had a re read of both his post and profile. Can't see any bragging for the life of me.

Maybe you could underline the bragging for me ? "

That would be the bit you described as "Except that it's a huge claim for someone of his age".

"very expirenced and very good at sexual acts"

"ive been around the block and have been told so by many of women ranging from 18-late 40's"

"luckily ive been blessed with my gifted with skills also masterd alot of them"

It may be true, though I doubt it at his age, and it is bragging.

It's one thing for a partner to call someone sexually gifted but to claim it oneself is quite another. It's also pretty subjective. What one person considers good, another might find absolutely pants.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Women ask for too much shit..... All you women that have 5000 requests on your profile heres my question... What have you got to give to the guy that meets your ransom requests?........"

So would you, if you could get away with it!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Women ask for too much shit..... All you women that have 5000 requests on your profile heres my question... What have you got to give to the guy that meets your ransom requests?........"

I can state categorically and without prejudice that I have never , never , I say NEVER asked for shit or ransom.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Women ask for too much shit..... All you women that have 5000 requests on your profile heres my question... What have you got to give to the guy that meets your ransom requests?........

I can state categorically and without prejudice that I have never , never , I say NEVER asked for shit or ransom."

You're missing a trick. Think of your roses!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The title of his post is 'arrogance?' it's a question not an accusation.

I read it as a suggestion, like it's the first thought or the OP thinks it's the most likely answer. You read it differently, which is fair enough.

I read it correctly and didn't embellish it by putting my own thoughts and emotions on the O.P.

I don't think it's too outrageous to consider that some people here are arrogant. They can't all be fucking snow white.

I still read it the way I originally read it. Only the OP knows what he was thinking when he wrote it.

Some people are without a doubt arrogant, I don't disagree.

I've had a re read of both his post and profile. Can't see any bragging for the life of me.

Maybe you could underline the bragging for me ?

That would be the bit you described as "Except that it's a huge claim for someone of his age".

"very expirenced and very good at sexual acts"

"ive been around the block and have been told so by many of women ranging from 18-late 40's"

"luckily ive been blessed with my gifted with skills also masterd alot of them"

It may be true, though I doubt it at his age, and it is bragging.

Oooops. I'm bowing out of this conversation as I don't think that his profile should have been writtin in the forum. Not that I care , just that Im sure it's a floggable offence but maybe not as criminal as saying you enjoy sex and are good at it. Maybe he should just say he's a shit shag.

Roger Wilco over and out !

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Oooops. I'm bowing out of this conversation as I don't think that his profile should have been writtin in the forum. Not that I care , just that Im sure it's a floggable offence but maybe not as criminal as saying you enjoy sex and are good at it. Maybe he should just say he's a shit shag.

Roger Wilco over and out !"

Good at sex and enjoy it is not the same as claiming very good, gifted and a master!

Good I wouldn't have considered bragging.

If I get flogged then I get flogged, but apparently I had to prove my claim.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

All I see is bragging. Like, he's LISTED all the things he's experienced n, including... the cinema. He's set it up to say the women are arrogant, picky, and rude for not replying. He isn't owed anything. All the language he is using about women is negative and pretty unreasonable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soon be Easter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I hope after the roasting you've received you can pick out the gems of advice amongst the criticism. Welcome to the forum, hopefully the learning curve on here is not too painful.

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over a year ago

"Women ask for too much shit..... All you women that have 5000 requests on your profile heres my question... What have you got to give to the guy that meets your ransom requests?........"

The most amazing blowjob he will ever receive and the experience of meeting me because quite frankly im fanfuckingtastic haha

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"Women ask for too much shit..... All you women that have 5000 requests on your profile heres my question... What have you got to give to the guy that meets your ransom requests?........"

They have to offer nothing seeing as men out number the women by a ridiculous amount..they are in a position where they can make demands that wont fall on deaf ears.they have the power..you do not

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Women ask for too much shit..... All you women that have 5000 requests on your profile heres my question... What have you got to give to the guy that meets your ransom requests?........

They have to offer nothing skeeing as men out number the women by a ridiculous amount..they are in a position where they can make demands that wont fall on deaf ears.they have the power..you do not"

That's not to say that we do have nothing to offer or that we actually offer nothing.

A meet for me is about mutual enjoyment and I aim to make it as enjoyable for the person/people involved as possible.

I believe I have plenty of offer prospective meets and I'll discuss that, plus expectations with anyone I'm interested in meeting.

My profile says, (at least it used to, I'm not certain it still does), that anyone thinking they may be my type of man should get in touch to discuss what I have to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are picky on here because they can be, simple as that.

Would I fuck an 18 year old? No chance, would have absolutely nothing in common, where was I for the nye of the millenium? I was in Gatecrasher loving life, he would've been a toddler in bed, where was I when the twin towers was hit, I was in my Nan's watching Sabrina the teenage witch on Nickelodeon and the news flash came on! He would be too young to remember.

As for being super experienced assuming he's been sexually active the last 2 years, what's that compared to say 90% of the people on here. Most women on here want men not boys.

He's cock sure and his sense of entitlement is too off putting.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

''the reasoning behind peoples picky outrageous choices'' so because they're not picking you, women have picky outrageous choices.

And you know this how? You've been here a few days and most women won't be telling you they're not meeting you because they're too picky and have outrageous choice.

I'm tempted to say that you know next to nothing at this point.

I just don't see how you could as a brand new member and knowing how members use the site and features.

Your profile lays claim to you being incredible in bed. And you're discreet, and that's about it. You've one photo.

My prediction is that your expectations are out of synch with the general reality of Fab and people here and that this will inhibit others from picking up interest in you, unless things change. It's not that you sound awful, just that you've only just checked in and it appears unrealistic to know us all so well, plus you appear accusatory stance isn't going to be endearing. People like what they like and they won't change their preferences, just because someone else thinks they're wrong.

Good luck!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Women ask for too much shit..... All you women that have 5000 requests on your profile heres my question... What have you got to give to the guy that meets your ransom requests?........"

Well I don't have 5,000 requests, but I seem to be attractive enough to get regular meets. Perhaps you should be asking the successful men on here what they give that the unsuccessful ones don't. Or won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it would help if you had something intelligent and maybe witty on your profile.

Men go wrong thinking all women want is a big dick and a buff body. Women need to contect on some level even if its small.

You hit the nail on the head! It's the connection thing

Read posts like this and take note, give it time and go with the flow.

If you were expecting sex on tap then you're going to be even more disappointed thanyou are now.

If you're after more than just getting your end away then this place is good."

Aww JJ when you coming down my way then?!

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