FabSwingers.com forum: Friends

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No not the TV series

When you except friends on here how often do you chat to them ?

I had about 20 but I have been removing them recently due to them not chatting and its always me who starts the conversation with them only giving short/one word replies,

Do people just treat it like a hotlist with the benefit of seeing their private pictures ?

Oh and I do realise people have other friends and lives to live, But if you are not going to chat I don't see the point of being friends

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've a few people on my friends list on here who I have moved to alternate forms of chatting to... but keep them as friends so we can still see each others pictures etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is because i have private pics i don't want on my page, if people like the look of me and wanna see more (for any reason) then i add them. I'm not that fussed who's on that list any more, i never look at it unless it's to remove someone off it.

People i chat to regularly or meet with are on my hotlist. I don't expect them to chat every time they're online and they don't expect me to, we're chill about when we chat- although i try and keep in touch so they know i haven't forgotten them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree completely, no point at all. Unless you like providing a free shows to cyber pervs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our list is populated with people we have met, would like to meet or are meeting in the not too distant future. We have no need to chat to them daily and wouldn't expect them to want to message us every day. It's a social tool as well as a naughty to do list for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not after a conversation every day or everytime they are on, But no messaging after 3-4 weeks like I said I don't see the point, I have more messages from random Women then friends, But it seems everyone uses there friends list different then,

I will just look at their pretty pictures for the time being then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our list is populated with people we have met, would like to meet or are meeting in the not too distant future. We have no need to chat to them daily and wouldn't expect them to want to message us every day. It's a social tool as well as a naughty to do list for us

this is the same for us. Some we chat to regularly some we don't but send a cheeky wink now and then to show they haven't been forgotten

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have a dinky friends list... most of those are actually my friends, I just happened to meet them here. There are one or two exceptions, people I've chattered to and added but I don't measure my friends in how often we chat.

The good kind are those you can pick up and chat to regardless of how much time has passed in between times. They're the keepers.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

My list is small and mainly people i have met,want to meet or have chatted to for a while.

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