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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Don't panic captain mannering I'm not feeling lonely I have you lot..... however I'm watching a programme and a GP said that being lonely can be as bad on your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.... Interesting thought...

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like I'm gonna die soon

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


" Looks like I'm gonna die soon "

Nooooooo you have us

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I can understand why it can be so detrimental to health,some elderly people don't see anyone for days on end,where is the motivation to do anything or to take care of yourself if you're lonely and isolated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like a smoker I do find dealing with loneliness can occasionally leave me struggling to catch my breath....

... but it only usually lasts a few minutes.

On the plus side, I do have a much firmer handshake these days....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never been lonely but have seen people that are, its a dreadful thing.

I'm often alone but never lonely.

In fact I think its much easier living in a small town

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I can understand why it can be so detrimental to health,some elderly people don't see anyone for days on end,where is the motivation to do anything or to take care of yourself if you're lonely and isolated? "

Totally agree one thing I never want to feel and that is to be lonely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't panic captain mannering I'm not feeling lonely I have you lot..... however I'm watching a programme and a GP said that being lonely can be as bad on your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.... Interesting thought..."
fuck it if that's the case I'll just go back to smoking again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loneliness can wreck people if they don't learn to appreciate the freedom they have on their own. True story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't panic captain mannering I'm not feeling lonely I have you lot..... however I'm watching a programme and a GP said that being lonely can be as bad on your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.... Interesting thought...fuck it if that's the case I'll just go back to smoking again"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why god invented cats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can, be surrounded, by people, but still be lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can, be surrounded, by people, but still be lonely. "

Aww I will send the Pooch to make you smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can, be surrounded, by people, but still be lonely.

Aww I will send the Pooch to make you smile "

Lol I didn't mean me, but thankyou, I have two smelly pooches of my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't panic captain mannering I'm not feeling lonely I have you lot..... however I'm watching a programme and a GP said that being lonely can be as bad on your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.... Interesting thought..."

I don't agree... I love my alone time

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Don't panic captain mannering I'm not feeling lonely I have you lot..... however I'm watching a programme and a GP said that being lonely can be as bad on your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.... Interesting thought...

I don't agree... I love my alone time "

It's completely different to have alone time...to being lonely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't panic captain mannering I'm not feeling lonely I have you lot..... however I'm watching a programme and a GP said that being lonely can be as bad on your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.... Interesting thought...

I don't agree... I love my alone time

It's completely different to have alone time...to being lonely "
Yes some have a choice to be alone, some unfortunately do not.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Don't panic captain mannering I'm not feeling lonely I have you lot..... however I'm watching a programme and a GP said that being lonely can be as bad on your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.... Interesting thought...

I don't agree... I love my alone time "

You can be lonely in a crowded room..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can, be surrounded, by people, but still be lonely. "

You absolutely can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like my own space sometimes. As a only child I got used to it. But sometimes do crave attention that I dont receive at home, that can make me feel lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been lonely, but my mother was for a real long time after my dad died, it broke my heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been lonely, but my mother was for a real long time after my dad died, it broke my heart "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can, be surrounded, by people, but still be lonely.

You absolutely can!"

Yes you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why god invented cats."

Yes, but they're crap at Scrabble - they only know two words and they can't spell those properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why god invented cats.

Yes, but they're crap at Scrabble - they only know two words and they can't spell those properly."

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I tell a le, the only time I am lonely is when I'm in a bad depression but then it wouldn't matter how many people where around me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can, be surrounded, by people, but still be lonely. "

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Loneliest time in my life was the last few years of my marriage

I love my own company (I'm fucking awesome, what's not to love?)...I seriously do not see myself as ever having another relationship and have no fear at the thought of being on my own the rest of my life, although I do hope to pop my clogs in a public place rather than at home alone and the cats eat me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 horses 5 dogs 2 cats 5 sheep . And I never feel alone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my alone time, I prefer being alone more than I prefer to be with people.

I think being lonely and feeling it will change from person to person and their personality types.

Where I would be more than happy to be totally isolated from people, most people I know couldn't even bare the thought of it.

I am completely the polar opposite to my brother, he needs to be surrounded by people all the time, he hates being alone.

We're all different!

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By *agicman2010Man
over a year ago

nottingham

In that case id be on 100 a day if i smoked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thx God for Internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loneliness is truly horrible - I was made redundant last year - instead of moaning about my lot - I decided to go and visit old people and just sit and natter over a brew with them - they really enjoy it - as do I - and sometimes that's all it takes - a little time for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can, be surrounded, by people, but still be lonely. "

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

I think lonelyness is a very underestimated health risk.

Just a simple chat or kind word whether trivial or brief can make all the difference.

No matter how tough or self motivated we think we are, we all feel lonely from time to time.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Loneliest time in my life was the last few years of my marriage

I love my own company (I'm fucking awesome, what's not to love?)...I seriously do not see myself as ever having another relationship and have no fear at the thought of being on my own the rest of my life, although I do hope to pop my clogs in a public place rather than at home alone and the cats eat me "

You know the cats are going to eat you. Just accept it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread made me listen to this song...

Bobby Vinton - Mr Lonely

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Loneliest time in my life was the last few years of my marriage

I love my own company (I'm fucking awesome, what's not to love?)...I seriously do not see myself as ever having another relationship and have no fear at the thought of being on my own the rest of my life, although I do hope to pop my clogs in a public place rather than at home alone and the cats eat me

You know the cats are going to eat you. Just accept it.

"

I may have to get more cats...I'm sure it'd take the two I've got a while to get through me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 horses 5 dogs 2 cats 5 sheep . And I never feel alone . "

Me too, I never get lonely with the sheep & venison rump around here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always lonely and like my own company confused .com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loneliness is truly horrible - I was made redundant last year - instead of moaning about my lot - I decided to go and visit old people and just sit and natter over a brew with them - they really enjoy it - as do I - and sometimes that's all it takes - a little time for others "

I do voluntary work with the elderly and some are very lonely. I love visiting them....and yes time for others helps

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'm kinda ok with not seeing anyone for days on end, but there is one thing that terrifies me...

Dropping dead and no one noticing for days on end.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think our mental health and well being has been undersold for years. Loneliness is an aspect of that and, as social beings, it's healthy for us to have the companionship, support and warmth as readily and plentifully as possible.

We all have preferences for how much time we like to spend with others. Many of us on Fab, myself included, love living alone. We may miss some company from time to time, but I'd hope that not too many of us suffer loneliness to a great degree. My dad died just over a year ago and I did feel some loneliness, whilst I was grieving. It's a pernicious feeling and some people compound this, feeling some shame, guilt etc, because perhaps they're not that sociable, like those idealised people that society often projects.

I aim to take care in my dealings with others. We don't know what they're feeling, what they've been going through, the invisible hell we're ignorant to.

Compassion is something free that we can share with others. A little can go a long way. We may help prevent someone's early death, depriving children of parents, or our partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think our mental health and well being has been undersold for years. Loneliness is an aspect of that and, as social beings, it's healthy for us to have the companionship, support and warmth as readily and plentifully as possible.

We all have preferences for how much time we like to spend with others. Many of us on Fab, myself included, love living alone. We may miss some company from time to time, but I'd hope that not too many of us suffer loneliness to a great degree. My dad died just over a year ago and I did feel some loneliness, whilst I was grieving. It's a pernicious feeling and some people compound this, feeling some shame, guilt etc, because perhaps they're not that sociable, like those idealised people that society often projects.

I aim to take care in my dealings with others. We don't know what they're feeling, what they've been going through, the invisible hell we're ignorant to.

Compassion is something free that we can share with others. A little can go a long way. We may help prevent someone's early death, depriving children of parents, or our partners. "

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best get a snuggle buddy asap then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The relationship I'm in now is the loneliest place I've ever been. And before anyone says 'well get out', I can't afford to.

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