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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it"

nothing ventured nothing gained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Hate that saying...........nobody is out of anybodys league, you either like them or not.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, always, especially lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time

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By *onnyeasygoingMan
over a year ago

Somewhere on the M62 between 24 and 14


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it"

I sometimes think I'm not even playing the same ball game, let alone in the same league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u don't ask u never know

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

How do you know they are out of your league? You don't know what their taste is do you?

Unless of course the profile text clearly does not match you!

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Yes. I never make first moves tho anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, will always message someone. They may not like us or think we're not in their league but that's for them to decide and the worst that can happen is they say 'no thanks'

We're adult enough to be able to handle the rejection and not naive enough to think everyone we message is gonna say yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate that saying...........nobody is out of anybodys league, you either like them or not........."

Your out my league won't let me message you as I'm not site supporter yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get super hot men messaging me I think they're taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not really. no one is better than anyone else really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

used to - much braver now and you know what - those super lovely too gorgeous for us people are just normal humans - who would have known

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see the words

Athletic

I usually pass

Auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I get super hot men messaging me I think they're taking the piss "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't inten do it and I know that the worst they can say is no but sometimes I just can't see why in their right mind thud choose me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it"

I do

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Not so much out my league but there are some hotties that I just assume wouldn't want to meet me

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"If I get super hot men messaging me I think they're taking the piss

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I don't see people in leagues. If I see someone I like I'll message them. No point sitting back waiting and wishing. At least if they tell me to get lost I can concentrate on my next victim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have confidence un yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much out my league but there are some hotties that I just assume wouldn't want to meet me "

You never know until you ask, we did that but then were very pleasantly surprised when a couple who we thought wouldn't look twice said yes and are still chasing us for a meet. We're just trying to get a mutually agreeable time to do it.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Not so much out my league but there are some hotties that I just assume wouldn't want to meet me "

I feel like this about some of the women on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep that's why I never message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it"

Yep, all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

worst that can happen is they delete your message?

we don't like laugh at your messages or looks if we reject you, we just delete and carry on doing whatever we was doing.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"If I get super hot men messaging me I think they're taking the piss "

I have a beautiful Cardiff blues top that you'd look amazing in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"Always "

We feel exactly the same

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"If I get super hot men messaging me I think they're taking the piss "

If a guy messages me with a toned body and the profile says that they goto the gym, I tend to reject them, as I would only disappoint them if I got naked.

I've yet to have a woman message me, so no idea what I'd do then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope. I don't see people in leagues. If I see someone I like I'll message them. No point sitting back waiting and wishing. At least if they tell me to get lost I can concentrate on my next victim "

I doubt you get many turning you down when you look that fab though!

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Not so much out my league but there are some hotties that I just assume wouldn't want to meet me

You never know until you ask, we did that but then were very pleasantly surprised when a couple who we thought wouldn't look twice said yes and are still chasing us for a meet. We're just trying to get a mutually agreeable time to do it."

I may well be brave then and message someone on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it

Yep, all the time! "

I'd have pictured you on the other side being the one leagues above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've refrained from a couple of meets because I think they'd not actually like me in real life... Even though I've wanted to hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much out my league but there are some hotties that I just assume wouldn't want to meet me

You never know until you ask, we did that but then were very pleasantly surprised when a couple who we thought wouldn't look twice said yes and are still chasing us for a meet. We're just trying to get a mutually agreeable time to do it.

I may well be brave then and message someone on my hotlist "

Good on ya, you've nothing to lose if they say no. Go back to per.............I mean admiring from afar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for the profile text rather than the pictures - no leagues there!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

if i get the thanks but no thanks message i tell myself ... "it because I was out of their league.!"

If you find them attractive... Message away whats ya got to lose...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm surprised that so many of you that are very attractive also feel the same, especially women and couples!

I do realise it's a daft thing to do but I just do it without thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i get the thanks but no thanks message i tell myself ... "it because I was out of their league.!"

If you find them attractive... Message away whats ya got to lose... "

yup - we say their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Im not scared of the words no thank you so no, I don't think about league tables

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Not so much out my league but there are some hotties that I just assume wouldn't want to meet me

You never know until you ask, we did that but then were very pleasantly surprised when a couple who we thought wouldn't look twice said yes and are still chasing us for a meet. We're just trying to get a mutually agreeable time to do it.

I may well be brave then and message someone on my hotlist

Good on ya, you've nothing to lose if they say no. Go back to per.............I mean admiring from afar."

Done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought like that until I went to the forum party, loads of people that I thought were way out of my league chatting and saying hi. Now I just think were all people, why not say hello...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervous that a guy is gonna see me as a pity fuck these days. I have psoriasis and although I warn them about it and they say it's ok, I feel like they are doing it to "be nice".

I don't want to be a pity fuck for anyone. So it's put me off meeting at the moment. If I knew a guy genuinely didn't care then I'd be ok. But I don't know them well enough to gauge how they really feel about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't consider myself out of anyones league,

age range yes, league no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't consider myself out of anyones league,

age range yes, league no "
good on ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course we have, who hasn't? Such a silly question really....

I/mean, our advances to her Majesty & her corgies have just been unanswered. So humiliated and feel she is above our swinging status Oh well she's just a stuck up granny! PMSL

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I thought like that until I went to the forum party, loads of people that I thought were way out of my league chatting and saying hi. Now I just think were all people, why not say hello..."

See, even I am nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I messaged someone who thought they were too good to reply to me I'd just forget it. As many have said no-one is better than anyone else we just have preferences. I try and reply to all messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I never punch above my weight. I like a guy to think wow when he's with me.. Not Jesus she should hit the gym

More often!

That's not to say I pick ugly blokes I don't!! I just wouldn't chase the Adonis, I live in the gym and sleep under a sunbed type. I like a manly man who can give as good as he gets.

Saying that if i come across a Jamie Dornan look alike I will be on it like a car bonnet! Lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Not so much out my league but there are some hotties that I just assume wouldn't want to meet me "

Struts in to the room pretending to be a hottie

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sometimes i do when the people they have met have been really hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take people as I find them..if I like them I tell them...simple..but its a confidence thing isn't it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been contacted by some guys who I've thought have been way out of our league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get nervous that a guy is gonna see me as a pity fuck these days. I have psoriasis and although I warn them about it and they say it's ok, I feel like they are doing it to "be nice".

I don't want to be a pity fuck for anyone. So it's put me off meeting at the moment. If I knew a guy genuinely didn't care then I'd be ok. But I don't know them well enough to gauge how they really feel about it."

If your psoriasias bothers them, then they arent worth a second thought or anything else. You look good and they would be lucky to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think anyone is out of anyones league, they might not be to your taste but does not make them a better or worse person

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As I've said before what you think of yourself isn't necessarily what other people will think of you, leave it up to them to decide who is in their league or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not out of anyone's league nor them mine ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I get super hot men messaging me I think they're taking the piss

I have a beautiful Cardiff blues top that you'd look amazing in... "

I am still traumatised from my stint in the Scarlets shirt.

Keep your Blues shirt to yourself ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you are Fab's hottest man, no-one is out of your league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate that saying...........nobody is out of anybodys league, you either like them or not........."

Agree absolutely!!

Just go for it - the worst that can happen is they don't reply or turn you down! - The best is that you have an amazing meet and make a new friend! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fwb is waaaaay out of my league! I dunno what he sees in me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are Fab's hottest man, no-one is out of your league "

wanna bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well here's the thing - when we used to meet couples the answer was yes . Yet we met and played with lots that i considered way out if my league .

Since our main play now primarily centres around my wife playing and me watching , the answer is a definate no . Perhaps her reputation precedes her or so many others see her as attractive as I do , but we do seem to attract some real hotties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do yes but that's because of my own insecurities.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I just think they will go "what the heck does she want" so I don't bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, all the time! "

Only thing puts me off is distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at it as they are well out of my league just that am not there type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb is waaaaay out of my league! I dunno what he sees in me! "

blimey your hair is growing back quickly - sorry to go off topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do yes but that's because of my own insecurities. "

Ha. Says the guy in the first page of Fab's hottest guys.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Nah I'll message and if I get rejected I mumble shit happens and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are Fab's hottest man, no-one is out of your league "
and who is fabs most hottest man cos I thought he was on my list lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are Fab's hottest man, no-one is out of your league

wanna bet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah I'll message and if I get rejected I mumble shit happens and move on "

evening lovely lady Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb is waaaaay out of my league! I dunno what he sees in me!

blimey your hair is growing back quickly - sorry to go off topic "

5 months its taken! It needs to hurry up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it"

Yep all the time

I do it a lot when guys mail me too, if I get w message and I look at the pic and think there is no way he will like me I don't bother to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to but now we just go for it. We can handle rejection but have found that some are not so gracious when the shoe is on the other foot.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Nah I'll message and if I get rejected I mumble shit happens and move on

evening lovely lady Sx"

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do yes but that's because of my own insecurities. "

Stead on you'll have all the women you do message thinking you only message them because they're not hot

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it"
The worst they can say to you is not for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it

Yep all the time

I do it a lot when guys mail me too, if I get w message and I look at the pic and think there is no way he will like me I don't bother to reply "

It is shocking to me that someone as attractive as you feels the same way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it

Yep all the time

I do it a lot when guys mail me too, if I get w message and I look at the pic and think there is no way he will like me I don't bother to reply

It is shocking to me that someone as attractive as you feels the same way!"

I'm not attractive though, the problem is though my pics are me and how I look on a photo you can hide the bits you don't like, like saggy belly and boobs, sadly in the flesh I come as I am and when my clothes come off how I look is me and I can't hide it in real life and I don't think many men want to look at my saggy bits, so you take pics that show you at your best then worry what they will think when they see you at your worse

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Not so much out my league but there are some hotties that I just assume wouldn't want to meet me

Struts in to the room pretending to be a hottie "

Now Ryan you know I perv you regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody ever messages me is this cos people think I'm out of there league or I'm just plain ugly and no one wants to chat? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time.

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

Do it all the time... especially with couples a bit younger than me. I think I will look very disappointing at a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most people have their insecurity even those we may look at and see no reason why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never make the first move as always think it will be a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had I applied that rationale, I'd have met virtually nobody on here. As it happens, I've met and am due to meet more stunners

And a lot of it is in the mind. Once I stopped telling myself people wouldn't possibly talk to me/notice me, I've been delighted (if not surprised) who has done. That's on and off the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody ever messages me is this cos people think I'm out of there league or I'm just plain ugly and no one wants to chat? X"

Because there are about 300,000 guys on here, fishing in a pond of women and couples

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I think most people have their insecurity even those we may look at and see no reason why "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb is waaaaay out of my league! I dunno what he sees in me!

blimey your hair is growing back quickly - sorry to go off topic

5 months its taken! It needs to hurry up! "

looking good

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

We spot people that could be 'classed' out of our league, but we wouldn't be put off contacting them, We are not afraid of rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I never make first moves tho anyhow."

Of course, you can afford not to... I do all the time and yet no luck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never make the first move as always think it will be a no "

Have you tried me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it

Yep all the time

I do it a lot when guys mail me too, if I get w message and I look at the pic and think there is no way he will like me I don't bother to reply

It is shocking to me that someone as attractive as you feels the same way!

I'm not attractive though, the problem is though my pics are me and how I look on a photo you can hide the bits you don't like, like saggy belly and boobs, sadly in the flesh I come as I am and when my clothes come off how I look is me and I can't hide it in real life and I don't think many men want to look at my saggy bits, so you take pics that show you at your best then worry what they will think when they see you at your worse "

I just had a perv... Where could the saggy bits have gone? You've got an amazing body my dear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it"

All the time, i will occasionally wink them just on the off chance they may be interested. Sometimes it pays off sometimes it doesn't.

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it"

I think this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it

All the time, i will occasionally wink them just on the off chance they may be interested. Sometimes it pays off sometimes it doesn't. "

ditto

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I see people who turn me on, and those that don't, Never feel that I am outclassed or that I outclass others - those thoughts never occur to me.

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

Ive thought couples & single woman are out of my league.. on looks & bodies...

... but not on personality.

Check my veri's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just go for it...they reply or they don't..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it"

I think most people have insecurity issues, and I don't know that I would want to meet anyone that can honestly say they have none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have time to message men out of my league. I'm too busy with the hot,intelligent,fit men who inundate me with begging messages I'm so modest

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By *mids LadMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Yes, see someone or a profile I like but don't message as always think "there's no way they will ever reply". I usually just send a wink instead lol. Feel that most women I like are out of my league, both on here and in real life !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is no harm in trying. We are all the same beauty is on the inside but can understand what your saying. There are some hot hot fellas on here I'd probably never message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever look at a profile and refrain from messaging them as you think they are well out of your league? I find I've been doing this a lot recently and was wondering how others view it

I think most people have insecurity issues, and I don't know that I would want to meet anyone that can honestly say they have none."

I'm afraid I really dont.Its nothing to do with thinking I'm hot or not..I'm just realistic.Pretend to be nothing more than I am. I dont have a buff bod,smart suits,the biggest cock etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I feel most are out of my league!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive message anyone i fancy if they don't reply its their loss "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive message anyone i fancy if they don't reply its their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, always, especially lately. "

I don't know why, nothing better than a voluptuous young lady, lady's are meant to have curves. if any guy said they didn't like curves, I'd question there sexuality really please...

clean, intelligent, good communicator.. most important "warm wet and accommodating!" but if the lady real fine.... "I got plenty spit to wet that pussy up... lmao!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even sure I'm in a league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate that saying...........nobody is out of anybodys league, you either like them or not........."

totally agree with you

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't think anyone is "out of my league" because I know people all have their own tastes and desires, which may not match mine.

However, I'm more hesitant when it comes to contacting someone vastly different to me. I do tend to assume, almost certainly incorrectly at times, that fit, gym-loving or sporty types would be looking for the same and wouldn't be interested in a fat, unfit woman.

It's not that I think they are better than me in any way, just too different.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"If I get super hot men messaging me I think they're taking the piss "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I get super hot men messaging me I think they're taking the piss

Same "

It's a crazy world we live in

but I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of your profiles iv looks at and you should be thinking why you think some people wouldn't meet you as a lot of you are really looking great and your profiles look great to but as a lot have said make contact and find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Ive message anyone i fancy if they don't reply its their loss "

Its no ones loss, they don't know you so don't know what the actual loss is.

Its a stupid and redundant saying

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