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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That the majority of swinging relationships are female lead ? Interested to hear about the dynamics from other peoples perspective. This is inspired by a comment on another thread. Discuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That the majority of swinging relationships are female lead ? Interested to hear about the dynamics from other peoples perspective. This is inspired by a comment on another thread. Discuss."

From the contact I've had - no.(certain ladies aside )

Whilst its generally the lady who chats - the guy runs the profile.

Sometimes there are subtle differences in how a message is written, punctuation, etc where you know it has changed over.

Some are honest who is typing too though.

Most aren't

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Female led?

Nope we both have equal say in who we meet, when we meet and how often.

But that is just us. Others probably live their lives and the lifestyle differently, but I would say most have an equal partnership in this.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it depends on the dynamic of the particular relationship. For us it's on equal terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs P is most definitely in charge of who we meet. I do have to agree though. But I'd meet most people, she can be a bit more select.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Mrs P is most definitely in charge of who we meet. I do have to agree though. But I'd meet most people, she can be a bit more select. "

Lol. Yes I'd agree with that

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

As the female I very much lead this profile and do all the chatting and arranging,my OH trusts my judgment completely and has pops in now and then to read whats been going on

Yet so many men,especially if they have been rejected assume that its purely the male half of a couple who makes the decisions about who he allows to fuck his wife,they also sometimes believe that they're so hot my OH will be worried I may run off with them

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We're equal partners on here, we both decide who we play with.

I'd say I'm more selective than he is though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I add that very rarely is it any of the forum regulars - hence my "certain ladies aside" comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting variety of responses so far. I the fem am mostly the one who posts and messages on the site. Although we make all decisions together I would say it is me who usually initiates first contact. Luckily we tend to fancy the same people.

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

I (her) do all the messaging. He hardly comes on fab. But we both have to agree on who we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female led in our swinging relationship. I see guys on my own but he chooses not to see girls but we do see couples together. Again, it's usually me who chats and arranges. X

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By *ot monkey71Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

We both have to agree on who we meet. It's usually me who does the chatting and arranging tho

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We both chat to potential meets and at that point we both have the power of veto. When it comes to play mrs spicy always has the last word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take lead at doing the talking but we BOTH have to agree on any meets. I show him the messages and pics etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody talks to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i do most messaging and going on about here, there and everywhere.

Except the forums.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, Definately Female led here,She who must be obeyed seems to be able to sort the wankers out within five messages(Males of the couple usually) so i tend to hang back until she says what do you think.

Plus ive had my nose broken too many times to argue with a Woman

Gimp

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"That the majority of swinging relationships are female lead ? Interested to hear about the dynamics from other peoples perspective. This is inspired by a comment on another thread. Discuss."

Ours is very much on an equal footing...everything discussed...everything shared and agreed boundaries set in place...

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We both chat with people by message and agree who we want to meet, he doesn't come near the forum though, that's all me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends really with us i go through phases where i really cant be bothered with these forums and never go in the chat rooms that's nicks thing more than mine as for messaging i do tend to chat more by mail but people can tell the difference between me and nick especially if we all chat often nick is more blunt than me and i am way more polite the only way i have the final say really is on who we choose to meet every other aspect of this place its a matter of who ever is on the laptop at the time does the chatting / posting and there is a fine example of how people can easily tell the difference between us i tend to waffle on and confuse even myself

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