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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Successful on here? If so what's your measure of success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last four women I met from here (soon to be five) all contacted me first. I'd call that pretty successful.

Oh yeah, plus I'm Fab's hottest man 2015

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm just having fun and that's all I judge it by. 1 meet or 1000, as long as I'm enjoying myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been meeting but still consider myself successful. I just enjoy having a laugh and taking the piss if I'm honest....Meets I can take or leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just having fun and that's all I judge it by. 1 meet or 1000, as long as I'm enjoying myself. "

Yep

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By *ce kingMan
over a year ago

montreal

i think it depends where you are living as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do ok. More offers than we can take up sadly.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I'm just having fun and that's all I judge it by. 1 meet or 1000, as long as I'm enjoying myself. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just having fun and that's all I judge it by. 1 meet or 1000, as long as I'm enjoying myself. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just having fun and that's all I judge it by. 1 meet or 1000, as long as I'm enjoying myself. "

This

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I do Ok x

Success is when people say I'm nice

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"The last four women I met from here (soon to be five) all contacted me first. I'd call that pretty successful.

Oh yeah, plus I'm Fab's hottest man 2015 "

Show off

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"We do ok. More offers than we can take up sadly. "

Same here. We get lots of offers but don't have the time or the babysitters to take them up.

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I'm just having fun and that's all I judge it by. 1 meet or 1000, as long as I'm enjoying myself. "

With you 100%.... Everyone's measure will be different, depends on expectations as well.. got me thinking the number of people that seem to consider themselves unsuccessful because they've not had a meet... Getting a reply to a message could be a success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we've managed to tick quite a few boxes since we been and now having to make up completely new ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't been blocked for a while by anyone that I chat to. Can't be more successful than that

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Haven't been blocked for a while by anyone that I chat to. Can't be more successful than that"

Bless you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just having fun and that's all I judge it by. 1 meet or 1000, as long as I'm enjoying myself. "

Yep, that's my measure too, and by that I consider it a success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made loads of friends and enjoy the forum

So yes I suppose I have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made quite a few friends ,lost one but yes I think I'm doing ok on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last four women I met from here (soon to be five) all contacted me first. I'd call that pretty successful.

Oh yeah, plus I'm Fab's hottest man 2015 "

Six if you're a bad boy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm doing very well thankyou, had enough meets/repeats even have a g.f off here now...more meets coming hopefully blah blah....but first and foremost, I'm just enjoying being on here....that's measure enough for mae

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope an abject failure on any criteria I care to choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just enjoying the banter and laughs...

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm not really enjoying it on here much any more if I'm honest, but still occasionally chat with friends or in forums

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I can't say I'm that successful but then I'm not putting much effort in at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last four women I met from here (soon to be five) all contacted me first. I'd call that pretty successful.

Oh yeah, plus I'm Fab's hottest man 2015

Six if you're a bad boy x"

Naughty Mrs Fox

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

It'd be great if we could meet more couples, but overall we're having fun, so yes a success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have chatted with a few on here, i enjoy the banter too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, we havnt had any meets directly through the site, BUT we have made many good friends whom we have met and played with via the club scene.

So I guess it all depends on how or what you class as successful...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really but I have enjoyed my time on here, love the forums the banter/flirting and making new friends,

I don't sell myself often enough or ask for meets/socials but getting myself back into the Gym as soon as my holiday is over,

New pics new me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've enjoyed my time no doubt. Not sure what I'm doing right or wrong for that matter but I'm having fun and that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I had a really shit day today. Bitched about it on here and pretty much everyone was nice to me and got some lovely PMs and one that made me giggle.

Can't get more successful than that.

The sex is almost incidental!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last four women I met from here (soon to be five) all contacted me first. I'd call that pretty successful.

Oh yeah, plus I'm Fab's hottest man 2015

Six if you're a bad boy x

Naughty Mrs Fox "

Bad bad Mrs Fox xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an interesting question, but we never think of this site in terms of success or failure. However, we get exactly what we want from it, so maybe we could be called 'successful'.

It's all about expectations, and whether the reward justifies the time spent.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Not really... I'm kinda just dabbling... I like to see if something makes me curious... I'm a very inquisitive child, a sucker for mystery and love to discover uncharted waters....

Some people plot their way through the fog of my mind and there we find each other.

The result is intensity and imagination like no other... I'm a great game player and I love to play against a powerful opponent.

Otherwise I'm as capricious as the wind.

Apart from those times and for the most part I have far more interesting things to do than have sex with strangers...

Every now and then though.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hell no

but i blame everyone other than myself for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm alive and awake........more than a success I call that..

And fabs.....a super couple with a super hot wife....senarios a plenty and safe..

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'm just having fun and that's all I judge it by. 1 meet or 1000, as long as I'm enjoying myself. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself at home

Consider myself one of the family

I've taken to the lounge so strong

It's clear we're going to get along

Consider myself well in

Consider myself part of the furniture

There isn't a lot to spare

Who cares?..What ever we've got, we share!

If it should chance to be

We should see

Some harder days

Empty larder days

Why grouse?

Always-a-chance we'll meet

Somebody

To foot the bill

Then the drinks are on the house!

Consider myself your mate

I don't want to have no fuss,

For after some consideration, I can state

I consider myself

One of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm alive and awake........more than a success I call that..

And fabs.....a super couple with a super hot wife....senarios a plenty and safe..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Wherever I turn up in the country I can find a friendly face among the Fab folk, particularly forum folk.

It works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm having a great time. The measure is the wonderful women I've met and the friends I've made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to people and have a laugh with them, which is cool.

Success is a personal thing, have you gotten what you came looking for?

If you have then you are a success, if not then no!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Wherever I turn up in the country I can find a friendly face among the Fab folk, particularly forum folk.

It works for me.

"

That's pretty much how I see it too...also made a particular friend in the Wyrd one (actually, I can't bloody well get shot of her, but don't tell her I said that)...oh and a fairly humongous amount of sex that I wouldn't be getting off the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I cant complain but ill health been stopping me a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do OK, I don't meet a lot but I get everything from the site I'm after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider myself at home

Consider myself one of the family

I've taken to the lounge so strong

It's clear we're going to get along

Consider myself well in

Consider myself part of the furniture

There isn't a lot to spare

Who cares?..What ever we've got, we share!

If it should chance to be

We should see

Some harder days

Empty larder days

Why grouse?

Always-a-chance we'll meet

Somebody

To foot the bill

Then the drinks are on the house!

Consider myself your mate

I don't want to have no fuss,

For after some consideration, I can state

I consider myself

One of us!"

Yup!! We're one big dysfunctional family! Fab in terms of meets - not much cop - fab in terms of clubs/parties/socials and the great friends i've made on the forums - priceless!!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Lots of offers, we're fortunate right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't been meeting but still consider myself successful. I just enjoy having a laugh and taking the piss if I'm honest....Meets I can take or leave."

^^^ this ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, rejected by 99 out of the 99 people i've contacted.

I'd call that a pretty good success rate myself.

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

I'm consistent. .. I get all the fakes, weirdos and loonies contact me.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Would I like more meets... Yes...

But I don't think it would ever happen, I'm a solitary creature.

And I sometimes I get good ideas from here, to excite my offline playmates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as everyone is getting out of the site what they are looking for .also putting in what they expect to get out of it, its a winner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My measure of success?

Still being able to see a profile after I've sent an e-mail?

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its fun - just wish we had more time - our to do list is getting longer than we have left to live i fear

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

There is fun when I want it

Im happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes don't seem to have any issues with meets etc

Measure of success- respect , manners with abit of tongue in cheek flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't reveal how many women I meet a week, I'd make sole jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea im havin fun so yea im successful but i wont be resting on my loreals as who knows when the winds of change may blow

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Yes i'm used and abused...not sure if its me or the pics I do for them lol.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"its fun - just wish we had more time - our to do list is getting longer than we have left to live i fear "

Dito

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My measure of success?

Still being able to see a profile after I've sent an e-mail?

Haha"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my current measure of success is getting a reply to one of my messages. 50/50 so far. One possibly resulting in a meet.

Other than that I do like seeing reading what people say in forums (and realising I'm not weird!) and i have fun in the chat rooms.

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


"I'm just having fun and that's all I judge it by. 1 meet or 1000, as long as I'm enjoying myself.

This "
plus 1

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