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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Speaking to a friend the subject matter soon moved to sex and swinging...the question dicussed...'are swingers desperate for sex?'

Perhaps a difficult question to answer....but does make you think...what is it that make swingers swing....me thinks its the thrill of meeting new folk, coz we social animals...sometimes the sex is a bonus

observations please

x

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"...'are swingers desperate for sex?'

"

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Could be, but more Jazz than folk.

Woody Guthrie was ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thrill of first sex with a new playmate is a driving factor and it's even more of a thrill if one's partner is actively encouraging it. That's how we feel about it. Desperation? No. We could live without other playmates as we still have each other, but we don't have to, do we.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say it was desperation. Take a look at the avatars, and how unbelievably sexy they are, do the lovely ladies really look desperate, i think not.

for me its the thrill of doing something very naughty, socially frowned upon but secretly everyone fantasises about what its like with a new partner. Swingers are just people who have the balls to live out their fantasies, rather than those people who scorn and say its disgusting but secretly envious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ok...

i will admit to bieng desperate.

there, ive said it.

But i cant help wanting to fook the arse off me tarkan and come on here to compensate

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By *r and Mrs FlintstoneCouple
over a year ago

bridgwater

iconic couldnt have put it better

life is short , to short for wishing you had the balls to enjoy yourself years down the line .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No... nowt desperate here.

sex anyone... and I mean anyone.. just get here now, am gagging for it. Will pay busfares

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"No... nowt desperate here.

sex anyone... and I mean anyone.. just get here now, am gagging for it. Will pay busfares "

You expect me to get on a BUS?

With the ORDINARY people?

Pfft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some are

Ive had messages off guys before and they have no pics and honestly can not understand why it matters what they look like

Not everyone has that attitude tho

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"No... nowt desperate here.

sex anyone... and I mean anyone.. just get here now, am gagging for it. Will pay busfares

You expect me to get on a BUS?

With the ORDINARY people?

Pfft."

a Diva and I am a sucker for a Diva

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to say, most of the people I’ve got to know, aren’t that desperate, more understanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we just want no strings sex and the social side too

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Speaking to a friend the subject matter soon moved to sex and swinging...the question dicussed...'are swingers desperate for sex?'

Perhaps a difficult question to answer....but does make you think...what is it that make swingers swing....me thinks its the thrill of meeting new folk, coz we social animals...sometimes the sex is a bonus

observations please

x"

not at all.... I think most swingers are actually far more picky about who they decide to play with..... because they actually know what they want out of this and don't put with "2nd" so to speak....

just because they like sex, doesn't mean they want sex with just "anybody"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What annoys me the most is when guys come onto swinging forums and say things like, I love shagging, anything considered and genuinely believe that the women will be falling over themselves to message him and beg for sexual favours off him. I think swingers are very picky in relation to whom they have sex with. If anyone messaged me with a very filthy first message, something like, hey baby, loving your pics, when can I shove my hard cock up your c**t, I would delete and then block if they messaged me again. He might be the most brilliant talented man in the world in the sack but im not interested because he's course and vulgar. Yeah that may sound odd coming from a woman whose on a swinging site but I really am looking more for someone who is respectful of women and who has a great sense of humour and is up for fun, not just sex but having a laugh and giggle and not taking it all tooo seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don't think that the majority of people on here are desperate. Most people esp couples are on here to add an extra something to an already amazing sex life. We could stop swinging tomorrow and be content just fucking each other, but swinging gives us an extra buzz, fucking different people, lets us live fantasies and most of all we have made some really good friends. So desperate defo not.

Happy Swinging

S&B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd imagine that, as swingers are also human beings, there will be a percentage of them who are desperate .....

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"What annoys me the most is when guys come onto swinging forums and say things like, I love shagging, anything considered and genuinely believe that the women will be falling over themselves to message him and beg for sexual favours off him. I think swingers are very picky in relation to whom they have sex with. If anyone messaged me with a very filthy first message, something like, hey baby, loving your pics, when can I shove my hard cock up your c**t, I would delete and then block if they messaged me again. He might be the most brilliant talented man in the world in the sack but im not interested because he's course and vulgar. Yeah that may sound odd coming from a woman whose on a swinging site but I really am looking more for someone who is respectful of women and who has a great sense of humour and is up for fun, not just sex but having a laugh and giggle and not taking it all tooo seriously. "

Think that about covers it for us as well

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking to a friend the subject matter soon moved to sex and swinging...the question dicussed...'are swingers desperate for sex?'

Perhaps a difficult question to answer....but does make you think...what is it that make swingers swing....me thinks its the thrill of meeting new folk, coz we social animals...sometimes the sex is a bonus

observations please

x"

i think swingers are folk that have a good unnderstanding and respect for themselves and sex.

to me, it is the person addicted to one night stands has no respect for either.

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By *tu23Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Nah not at all. I think its more to do with the social and plesureable side of life like you say we are social creatures and we're programed to seek out more then one sexual partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the butterflys in the stomach, can't beat the frill of someone new.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"its the butterflys in the stomach, can't beat the frill of someone new."
great answer

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"its the butterflys in the stomach, can't beat the frill of someone new.great answer "

where have you been hiding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its the butterflys in the stomach, can't beat the frill of someone new.great answer

where have you been hiding"

in a hothouse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are

Ive had messages off guys before and they have no pics and honestly can not understand why it matters what they look like

Not everyone has that attitude tho"

Are those people really swingers or just sad fuckers who happen to have found there way on to a swinging site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me the most is when guys come onto swinging forums and say things like, I love shagging, anything considered and genuinely believe that the women will be falling over themselves to message him and beg for sexual favours off him. I think swingers are very picky in relation to whom they have sex with. If anyone messaged me with a very filthy first message, something like, hey baby, loving your pics, when can I shove my hard cock up your c**t, I would delete and then block if they messaged me again. He might be the most brilliant talented man in the world in the sack but im not interested because he's course and vulgar. Yeah that may sound odd coming from a woman whose on a swinging site but I really am looking more for someone who is respectful of women and who has a great sense of humour and is up for fun, not just sex but having a laugh and giggle and not taking it all tooo seriously. "

Well said!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

no matter how long you are married,or in a relationship.you will always see people you fancy.not necassarily more than wife/partner.but variety is the spice of life.i think swingers are more honest in this respect.swinging will not strenghthen a bad relationship.it can strenghthen a good relationship.

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By *tu23Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I agree its a swinging web site not a one night stand web site. This is a way of bein social and sexual not just wam bam thank you mam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree its a swinging web site not a one night stand web site. This is a way of bein social and sexual not just wam bam thank you mam. "

hummm i'm in two minds about this one

i think you can be social and sexual but only meet someone once

I wouldnt class myself as desparate

I dont just shag anyone

When i meet a guy i like to go and have a drink and a chat first to see if theres an attraction

If not i'll happily walk away, i dont just have sex with someone because we have met

But saying that its very rare i meet anyone more than once, dont think ive ever met anyone more than twice, privte meets i mean im not talking people i see on going at clubs etc, i just prefure it that way, theres less chance of any complications if you dont get to close to someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree its a swinging web site not a one night stand web site. This is a way of bein social and sexual not just wam bam thank you mam. "

Totally agree, although a meet might happen just the once, I don't relate it to a one night stand. My idea of a one night stand is picking someone up who is totally strange to you and just fucking, such things as names, likes/dislikes etc rarely come into it.

I've had a guy come up to me and say "i'm not buying you a drink and I can't be arsed to talk to you, either you're going to take me home for sex or not...not what's it going to be". I was tempted, of course, who wouldn't be...but here, I get to know a bit about a person first, there's an open discussion about what we are looking for and the meets are generally expected to be courteous and respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are swingers desperate folk? NO (but some might be)

Are swingers desperate for sex? YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think swingers are anymore desperate than the average Joe Bloggs, but instead of sitting at home waiting for something to happen we go out & find it. I've always said that while I'm young enough to be naughty I'll carry on, as these are the memories that will keep me going in my old folks home while I stare at the rose garden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are, some aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no matter how long you are married,or in a relationship.you will always see people you fancy.not necassarily more than wife/partner.but variety is the spice of life.i think swingers are more honest in this respect.swinging will not strenghthen a bad relationship.it can strenghthen a good relationship."

spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree its a swinging web site not a one night stand web site. This is a way of bein social and sexual not just wam bam thank you mam.

Totally agree, although a meet might happen just the once, I don't relate it to a one night stand. My idea of a one night stand is picking someone up who is totally strange to you and just fucking, such things as names, likes/dislikes etc rarely come into it.

I've had a guy come up to me and say "i'm not buying you a drink and I can't be arsed to talk to you, either you're going to take me home for sex or not...not what's it going to be". I was tempted, of course, who wouldn't be...but here, I get to know a bit about a person first, there's an open discussion about what we are looking for and the meets are generally expected to be courteous and respectful."

nothing better than a guy with a sense o humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think swingers, any more than any other person, are desperate for sex.

I can see how that thought might come about though. Certainly when you see profiles with a list of verifications as long as a bus, it can look "addictive" to someone not involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think swingers, any more than any other person, are desperate for sex.

I can see how that thought might come about though. Certainly when you see profiles with a list of verifications as long as a bus, it can look "addictive" to someone not involved."

u been perving our profile again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think swingers, any more than any other person, are desperate for sex.

I can see how that thought might come about though. Certainly when you see profiles with a list of verifications as long as a bus, it can look "addictive" to someone not involved.

u been perving our profile again? "

Hehe.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

could the same be said for us peeps who use to the meet today i know some peeps on fab would think your desperate being on there nearly every day
"Speaking to a friend the subject matter soon moved to sex and swinging...the question dicussed...'are swingers desperate for sex?'

Perhaps a difficult question to answer....but does make you think...what is it that make swingers swing....me thinks its the thrill of meeting new folk, coz we social animals...sometimes the sex is a bonus

observations please

x"

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