FabSwingers.com forum: Women's types

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hand up who gets the not my type line in replys to messages !

I bet there is loads of men on here

dark hair and eyes average looks

6ft average build and cock size yet we are no ones type ! How will we all ever get a meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am pretty sure a woman's type goes beyond that.

If I saw identical twins, but one had nose freckles I'd likely fancy that one more. Barely makes sense but people like what they like...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Joined this site a few years ago and had quite good luck with meets but the last six months all I get is the same line. No one seems to meet average people anymore. All vvwe or black or gym buddy's I'm non of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do some men think when you aren't interested its only because we don't like the look of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Because people don't talk to you first to see what kind of person you are then on the other hand people say looks arnt important in some cases ! Boggles my mind some times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because people don't talk to you first to see what kind of person you are then on the other hand people say looks arnt important in some cases ! Boggles my mind some times "

They can tell by reading your profile though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will do super somthing lol let you know the results

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Have you tried googly eyes on your penis? "

I have a type but I wouldn't know it by just looking at someone. It's a certain something inside rather than appearance. Although I am a big fan of a beardy.

It makes me equally odd I'm sure but I'm cool with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do occasionally but accept that you can't please everyone.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Hand up who gets the not my type line in replys to messages !

I bet there is loads of men on here

dark hair and eyes average looks

6ft average build and cock size yet we are no ones type ! How will we all ever get a meet lol

It's not like we're picking a Ken doll. I don't know if someone is my type physically until I see proper pics of them. Just a generic description of someone is utterly meaningless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them all the time. I am used too it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a "type" as such it's about the eyes, smile, personality for me. It's an initial vibe/feeling I get from speaking or meeting with them.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Because people don't talk to you first to see what kind of person you are then on the other hand people say looks arnt important in some cases ! Boggles my mind some times "

If I were looking for a relationship, looks probably wouldn't matter. However, on a swinging site where we satisfy our lusts and fantasies, attraction is the first checkpoint, and THEN we see if we click on a personal wave-length. If there is no immediate attraction, we are not going to pursue it.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Joined this site a few years ago and had quite good luck with meets but the last six months all I get is the same line. No one seems to meet average people anymore. All vvwe or black or gym buddy's I'm non of the above "

That's not true, not for me, I just know what I like when I see it, doesn't mean they have to be gym fit with a 15 inch cock

I've had great meets with normal/average guys

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

You had a meet a month ago. Stop whining.

It's difficult for everyone at times, not just you.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"Because people don't talk to you first to see what kind of person you are then on the other hand people say looks arnt important in some cases ! Boggles my mind some times

They can tell by reading your profile though."

Oh people read profiles now then?

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"I don't have a "type" as such it's about the eyes, smile, personality for me. It's an initial vibe/feeling I get from speaking or meeting with them. "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

By the way, OP, your profile is all about what you want, not what you're offering or why someone should choose you.

You get meets by standing out.

If you want people to know a bit about who you are and what you're like, put it in your profile.

If the profile doesn't interest me, I'll move on rather than spend time making the effort to get to know someone.

You have to advertise yourself, not expect someone else -particularly someone else with a lot of other options - to make the effort to get to know you.

Effort in = results out

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Why if you have a run of the same line does that make it everybody? Could it be that your picker is off? Maybe you have a type you are messaging and that type doesn't like your type.

The site gives you the tools so use them, expect nothing and enjoy the things you find enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would say you only read profile if there was a attraction

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Because people don't talk to you first to see what kind of person you are then on the other hand people say looks arnt important in some cases ! Boggles my mind some times

They can tell by reading your profile though.

Oh people read profiles now then?

I do. If someone messages me, O read the profile before deciding whether to read the message.

It's men that tend not to bother reading profiles.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I would say you only read profile if there was a attraction "

You don't know if someone appeals unless you read the profile.

I read the profile of every person who messages me. I read the message if the profile is good.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Its a nice way of saying not interested.

I've been told quite a few times I'm not the type they are looking for... do I start a thread about it? Nope.

Not everyone is looking for VWE gym bunny types - I sure as hell am not.

However, I am not looking for a relationship either, and that line in your profile would have me saying not my type - nothing to do with looks, but not looking for the same from a meet.

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why if you have a run of the same line does that make it everybody? Could it be that your picker is off? Maybe you have a type you are messaging and that type doesn't like your type.

The site gives you the tools so use them, expect nothing and enjoy the things you find enjoyable.

And failing that - I have a Dragon

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm currently chatting about a meet to someone who is not at all the physical 'type' I tend to look for on here because his profile totally captured my attention.

It wasn't a particularly long profile but there was a sense of who he is and that there would be a spark between us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm currently chatting about a meet to someone who is not at all the physical 'type' I tend to look for on here because his profile totally captured my attention.

It wasn't a particularly long profile but there was a sense of who he is and that there would be a spark between us."

Love is in the air

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm currently chatting about a meet to someone who is not at all the physical 'type' I tend to look for on here because his profile totally captured my attention.

It wasn't a particularly long profile but there was a sense of who he is and that there would be a spark between us.

Love is in the air

Love? No but I'm hoping a hot, prolonged shag is on the cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will find that most women want their own mr Christian grey so that's very high standards lol.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"You will find that most women want their own mr Christian grey so that's very high standards lol."

hahahaha, really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You will find that most women want their own mr Christian grey so that's very high standards lol.

hahahaha, really?

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Yes as everyone like the 50 shade thingy lol.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"You will find that most women want their own mr Christian grey so that's very high standards lol."

Grey Christians for swinging? Nah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You will find that most women want their own mr Christian grey so that's very high standards lol.

Grey Christians for swinging? Nah!"
Yes or as a bf/fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christian shmistian - no thanks!!!No-one mean and moody please!!

Good looking with a good body yeah - but good fun, light-hearted, chatty, someone to giggle and chat with in between mind-blowing sex sessions! Not much to ask!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"You will find that most women want their own mr Christian grey so that's very high standards lol."

What a total load of bollocks.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"You will find that most women want their own mr Christian grey so that's very high standards lol.

hahahaha, really?

Yes as everyone like the 50 shade thingy lol."

Have you actually read the slating that pile of pish has had on the forums? Honestly, I'd go without than go for a dim-dom like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You will find that most women want their own mr Christian grey so that's very high standards lol.

Grey Christians for swinging? Nah!Yes or as a bf/fb"

I'd rather have her as a fb! He might come in useful for a lift here and there though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You will find that most women want their own mr Christian grey so that's very high standards lol.

hahahaha, really?

Yes as everyone like the 50 shade thingy lol.

Have you actually read the slating that pile of pish has had on the forums? Honestly, I'd go without than go for a dim-dom like that!"
Yes I did here. I did thought about some liked and some don't. HE was at nortons show and didn't have anything to say either.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"You will find that most women want their own mr Christian grey so that's very high standards lol.

hahahaha, really?

Yes as everyone like the 50 shade thingy lol.

Have you actually read the slating that pile of pish has had on the forums? Honestly, I'd go without than go for a dim-dom like that!Yes I did here. I did thought about some liked and some don't. HE was at nortons show and didn't have anything to say either."

Not seen the film so can't comment on Jamie whats-his-name... but any damaged, misogynistic abusive arse tried that with me in reality would soon find himself very alone again. (In case you don't get the gist, I hated the books, but read all 3 sure it would improve at some point... they didn't)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm currently chatting about a meet to someone who is not at all the physical 'type' I tend to look for on here because his profile totally captured my attention.

It wasn't a particularly long profile but there was a sense of who he is and that there would be a spark between us."

So a woman will chat to some one who isn't their type just because a profile is good ?

Then some other go by looks ! Many say to me after I have sent a pic your not the type I go for ! I regularly change my profile and update content or even take it out because I've been told it is to direct lol I think some ones type is a combination of looks and the type of person they are ! Wouldn't you agree ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont say not my type when ive had a face pic sent I say I am not attracted which is vastly different, the person could fit what I like in a man but if I have no attraction on seeing them then it doesnt matter how tall or well built they are etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Egomaniac

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Egomaniac

Oh stop it, you!

(Carry on).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Egomaniac

Oh stop it, you!

(Carry on)."

EGOMANIAC haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Egomaniac

Oh stop it, you!

(Carry on).

EGOMANIAC haha "

In all seriousness, do you realise how many women would pay a dirty amount of money to watch us 'get it on'? I hope our beards don't stick together like velcro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Egomaniac

Oh stop it, you!

(Carry on).

EGOMANIAC haha

In all seriousness, do you realise how many women would pay a dirty amount of money to watch us 'get it on'? I hope our beards don't stick together like velcro. "

Depends on how much they pay

No it is alright I oil it everyday to avoid that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go by personality, not necessarily by looks.

Although saying that, I wouldn't go near a mans penis if its less than 5 inches, anything small does nothing for me, but I don't want vwe, I prefer average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Egomaniac

Oh stop it, you!

(Carry on).

EGOMANIAC haha

In all seriousness, do you realise how many women would pay a dirty amount of money to watch us 'get it on'? I hope our beards don't stick together like velcro.

Depends on how much they pay

No it is alright I oil it everyday to avoid that

Give ma a ball park figure here boys so I know how much I need to get a loan for

Or how many tickets I need to sell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Egomaniac

Oh stop it, you!

(Carry on).

EGOMANIAC haha

In all seriousness, do you realise how many women would pay a dirty amount of money to watch us 'get it on'? I hope our beards don't stick together like velcro.

Depends on how much they pay

No it is alright I oil it everyday to avoid that

Give ma a ball park figure here boys so I know how much I need to get a loan for

Or how many tickets I need to sell

Our brilliant money-making scheme is coming to fruition. Time to start tickling each other's balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Egomaniac

Oh stop it, you!

(Carry on).

EGOMANIAC haha

In all seriousness, do you realise how many women would pay a dirty amount of money to watch us 'get it on'? I hope our beards don't stick together like velcro.

Depends on how much they pay

No it is alright I oil it everyday to avoid that

Give ma a ball park figure here boys so I know how much I need to get a loan for

Or how many tickets I need to sell

Our brilliant money-making scheme is coming to fruition. Time to start tickling each other's balls."

Photographic evidence or it never happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Egomaniac

Oh stop it, you!

(Carry on).

EGOMANIAC haha

In all seriousness, do you realise how many women would pay a dirty amount of money to watch us 'get it on'? I hope our beards don't stick together like velcro.

Depends on how much they pay

No it is alright I oil it everyday to avoid that

Give ma a ball park figure here boys so I know how much I need to get a loan for

Or how many tickets I need to sell

Our brilliant money-making scheme is coming to fruition. Time to start tickling each other's balls.

Photographic evidence or it never happened

Certainly, if you could just hand over your bank account details...

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Have you tried googly eyes on your penis? "
oh thats very creative....... Damn why did,nt I think of that..

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"You will find that most women want their own mr Christian grey so that's very high standards lol."

I'd have a go with Jamie Dornan given half a chance but you keep the character.

Thank fuck I'm not 'most women'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried googly eyes on your penis? "
it reminds me of Neapolitan ice cream with eyes on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fab type is different to someone I want to spend my life with, mr is shorter than me, not all that gym fit (yet) and yet on here Im very picky about who I want and am willing to chat to. Its fab, women/couples can be as picky as they want.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Because people don't talk to you first to see what kind of person you are then on the other hand people say looks arnt important in some cases ! Boggles my mind some times

- Amy. x"
aaaarrggh??? Now thats interesting" immediate attraction"

Now I did that for a while, only to realise on many occasions wish I had,nt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got 3 types;

Yes. .. Now!

No ... Lets chat

Never ...

Thus is decided by a number if factors including, pics, language, personality, attraction, manners.

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