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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One line messages - what is wrong with it?

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"One line messages - what is wrong with it? "

If successful, nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most profiles seem to frown against it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less is more?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I walk upto a girl in a bar I start the conversation with a simple "hi how are you" I don't chuck out my cv so no. Sometimes it's hard if there's nothing on a profile to coment on aswel. But also you do need to stand out.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Depends on the message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Less is more?! "

That was my thinking at least it saves time, such as when a profile doesn't state their preference and their profile might not have something to start a conversation with, you go "I was wondering if you might be interested in..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I walk upto a girl in a bar I start the conversation with a simple "hi how are you" I don't chuck out my cv so no. Sometimes it's hard if there's nothing on a profile to coment on aswel. But also you do need to stand out. "

My point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the message."

Yeah, like when a profile says just looking. Would a one liner not be a good opening?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done one liners to full on description what we looking for which they ask for in their profile and deleted lol. Bit of a mind field but once you find mutual fun. Worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the message.

Yeah, like when a profile says just looking. Would a one liner not be a good opening? "

Depends on the message lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have done one liners to full on description what we looking for which they ask for in their profile and deleted lol. Bit of a mind field but once you find mutual fun. Worth it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rather have a good one liner than getting some of the essays

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Depends on the message."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" My point! "

Do you also have a set of arse pics to show her in said bar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" My point!

Do you also have a set of arse pics to show her in said bar? "

lol very good question

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

The problem with one line messages is ...

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands


"Depends on the message.

Yeah, like when a profile says just looking. Would a one liner not be a good opening?

Depends on the message lol "

Depends on whether the effort has been put into the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One liners and detailed messages all end up read and deleted 90% of the time for me lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Nothing is wrong with it but the vast majority of the time I just delete them.

If you want to cut your chances of a response down to virtually nothing, go right ahead. I'm sure the guys that make an effort will thank you.

It would be like applying for a job by sending just a covering letter reading, "Hi, I'd like this job".

But it's entirely up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a one line message as long as it comes with a facepic... hate a message that just says "hi"

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If the message comes from an outstanding profile then one line is more than adequate

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"If the message comes from an outstanding profile then one line is more than adequate "

This is true, but few do.

I also have to fancy the person sending it, obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the message comes from an outstanding profile then one line is more than adequate

This is true, but few do.

I also have to fancy the person sending it, obviously."

obviously

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I find the essays too presumptuous. They invariably go on about what they will do to me and how I will react as if I have no say in it!

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I think I've had equal success with one-line messages and more lengthy efforts. That said, the successful one-liners are most often in direct response to something the recipient has put in their status.

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