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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For Valentine's.. he has a girlfriend was supposed to be a fling and fun and that's what he says it is so why the mixed signals and it's not normal is it? I must be the only woman that stops speaking to someone because he got me a gift. Thoughts please x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'd die of shock if my FWB bought me flowers. I'd die of shock if he bought me anything.

Perhaps he thought flowers were fun. I might be wrong but it sounds to me like you're hoping it means more.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

People are allowed to be nice without there being another motive. You could just say thank you... it's kinda sweet.

We're all very quick to think the worst. Maybe once in a while we should try to think the best.

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

Maybe Just a nice gesture. As long as you know its fling and fun then just accept them for what they are, I.e flowers, and don't read too much into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are allowed to be nice without there being another motive. You could just say thank you... it's kinda sweet.

We're all very quick to think the worst. Maybe once in a while we should try to think the best.

Flowers doesn't mean he's in love with you so calm down. I bought flowers for a female colleague before simply because it was her birthday.

He was being nice probably. Chill out

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"For Valentine's.. he has a girlfriend was supposed to be a fling and fun and that's what he says it is so why the mixed signals and it's not normal is it? I must be the only woman that stops speaking to someone because he got me a gift. Thoughts please x"

Seems like mixed signals to me. Don't stop speaking to him, you need to clarify this. For me flowers are girlfriend territory but I've never had a fwb so what do I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bought flowers for my Mum's 70th, I hope she didn't read anything into it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm 50/50 I guess half do half don't want it to mean anything I'm.pretty sure it don't tho...I just think I'd rather he didn't..yes I think he was trying to be nice and that was his intentions.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

Confused .com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are allowed to be nice without there being another motive. You could just say thank you... it's kinda sweet.

We're all very quick to think the worst. Maybe once in a while we should try to think the best.

Flowers doesn't mean he's in love with you so calm down. I bought flowers for a female colleague before simply because it was her birthday.

He was being nice probably. Chill out "

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My lodger bought me a gorgeous bunch of flowers for valentines I thought it was a nice gesture

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Mr didn't get me anything, but he does buy me little things he knows I'll like from time to time.

We also give each other Christmas presents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 50/50 I guess half do half don't want it to mean anything I'm.pretty sure it don't tho...I just think I'd rather he didn't..yes I think he was trying to be nice and that was his intentions."

I would have loved flowers for Valentines but I get nothing from the oh. I would just say thank you and accept them as being a thoughtful present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received flowers and other gifts today (he is single though) just enjoy it for what it is, say Thankyou and show your gratitude. Enjoy

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm 50/50 I guess half do half don't want it to mean anything I'm.pretty sure it don't tho...I just think I'd rather he didn't..yes I think he was trying to be nice and that was his intentions."

Well just tell him for future reference. Be a shame to lose fwb over this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be more concerened about his partner rather than trying to second guess his motives in this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also forgot to mention he hates the thought of me with other men..says he be ok if I meet a boyfriend he'd be jealous but ok just don't want me being used..says I deserve someone 100% for me .And he knows Damn well I love sex lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Also forgot to mention he hates the thought of me with other men..says he be ok if I meet a boyfriend he'd be jealous but ok just don't want me being used..says I deserve someone 100% for me .And he knows Damn well I love sex lol "

and this doesn't set even the tiniest warning bell off for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are allowed to be nice without there being another motive. You could just say thank you... it's kinda sweet.

We're all very quick to think the worst. Maybe once in a while we should try to think the best.

Flowers doesn't mean he's in love with you so calm down. I bought flowers for a female colleague before simply because it was her birthday.

He was being nice probably. Chill out "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and this doesn't set even the tiniest warning bell off for you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha! Does not want you being used!!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Hold up he can have a girlfriend and cheat on her but you are not allowed to meet anyone else...id tell him to jog the fuck on....you do not need to make your life complicated

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Yeah, that sounds like he wants more than FWB

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"My lodger bought me a gorgeous bunch of flowers for valentines I thought it was a nice gesture

He wants to marry you!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Yeah, that sounds like he wants more than FWB "

No it's sounds like he is leading her up the fucking path...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"My lodger bought me a gorgeous bunch of flowers for valentines I thought it was a nice gesture

He wants to marry you!

I want to kill him so at least I don't have to buy flowers for his grave...recycling is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hold up he can have a girlfriend and cheat on her but you are not allowed to meet anyone else...id tell him to jog the fuck on....you do not need to make your life complicated "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yeah, that sounds like he wants more than FWB

No it's sounds like he is leading her up the fucking path..."

It sounds like he wants to have a very large cake, eat it and then come back for seconds and has the bare faced cheek that she deserves someone 100% for her. Sheesh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, that sounds like he wants more than FWB

No it's sounds like he is leading her up the fucking path..."

AND HE is using her!!! WTF

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My lodger bought me a gorgeous bunch of flowers for valentines I thought it was a nice gesture

He wants to marry you!

I want to kill him so at least I don't have to buy flowers for his grave...recycling is key

People can only treat us how we allow them too and the lady seems happy.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"My lodger bought me a gorgeous bunch of flowers for valentines I thought it was a nice gesture

He wants to marry you!

I want to kill him so at least I don't have to buy flowers for his grave...recycling is key

People can only treat us how we allow them too and the lady seems happy.

Wise words treacle

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My lodger bought me a gorgeous bunch of flowers for valentines I thought it was a nice gesture

He wants to marry you!

I want to kill him so at least I don't have to buy flowers for his grave...recycling is key

People can only treat us how we allow them too and the lady seems happy.

Wise words treacle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds a real catch. Does he know you are on here?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Be very careful - that's the language of a manipulative controller and flowers can be one of those ever so sweet non-verbal signals of how good you have it with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once bought flowers for a meet, I thought it was a nice thing to do.

Sometimes things are just intended to be nice with nothing attached. I'm not necessarily saying that's the case here but if I turned up to a meet with a little gift and she reacted badly I'd probably make a very quick exit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hes using her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes he knows I'm on here you've all said exactly what I thought yet he says he's being nice..I don't think he's scary I've known him 8 years (I used to rent my house from him) I told him he can't have his cake and eat it and he said not if your letting everyone else eat it

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes he knows I'm on here you've all said exactly what I thought yet he says he's being nice..I don't think he's scary I've known him 8 years (I used to rent my house from him) I told him he can't have his cake and eat it and he said not if your letting everyone else eat it

Yet you're happy with the arrangement. We're not in your shoes so be happy with your choices just make sure they are your choices.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't read too much into any of it, I don't think he wants anything permanent with you. He doesn't want you to meet other men because he wants you available for him when he wants to see you, the flowers are just a gesture to keep you sweet so you continue with the arrangement.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I remember turning up to a meet and he'd decked the place out with candles all over... I think it's probably one of the sweetest things anyone has ever done for me on a swingy meet. There was nothing to it other than a nice, sweet thing to do... he already knew I was a sure thing!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

My fb didn't get me anything and I got him nothing. Strange thing to do I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely meeting the wrong men off here, never been bought a thing, not that I'd expect to be either to be fair, but flowers, candles, this is all very sweet behavior. I'm lucky if my fb remembers to have milk in for a decent cuppa before I leave, time to upgrade me thinks lol.

As for OP, if you're happy, great, but as others have said, just make sure you are actually happy and you're not just doing what he wants you too to make him happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm definitely meeting the wrong men off here, never been bought a thing, not that I'd expect to be either to be fair, but flowers, candles, this is all very sweet behavior. I'm lucky if my fb remembers to have milk in for a decent cuppa before I leave, time to upgrade me thinks lol.

As for OP, if you're happy, great, but as others have said, just make sure you are actually happy and you're not just doing what he wants you too to make him happy.

I am happy as it is...maybe.I'm just not used to someone being nicer maybe that's his 'thing' but I won't stop doing what or who I want. I would definitely upgrade fb although saying that I had some of the best sex ever with someone similar

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As for OP, if you're happy, great, but as others have said, just make sure you are actually happy and you're not just doing what he wants you too to make him happy.

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

I met someone a month ago after massaging for months before, it was the most fantastic night of my life, the energy we threw into our " fun time" could have lit the streets all night.

It was the best fun I had in the last 20 years. Afterwards both naked lying on the bed she asked to see me again, but since that night she hasn't answered my texts or her messages on here.

Yesterday I sent a bouquet of mixed flowers and a thanks on a balloon for taking a chance and meeting me.

It wasn't a Valentine's bouquet of roses you might send to a lover, more of a gift to a friend.

But she has been so offhand and has ignored me for 3weeks now I am wondering if she was genuine in asking to see me again.

Does anyone have any advice?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Um... take the hint?

If someone isn't replying and you're still messaging etc then either she has real life stuff going on or she's just not interested. Throw the ball into her court and leave it there. It becomes irritating/uncomfortable when a bloke doesn't get the message. Silence is a sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for OP, if you're happy, great, but as others have said, just make sure you are actually happy and you're not just doing what he wants you too to make him happy.

Well then that's all that matters chick, take the nice gift and enjoy it for what it probably was, which was a nice gesture.

I know right, it's pretty mind blowing sex though so I think I can live without flowers and a decent brew lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone a month ago after massaging for months before, it was the most fantastic night of my life, the energy we threw into our " fun time" could have lit the streets all night.

It was the best fun I had in the last 20 years. Afterwards both naked lying on the bed she asked to see me again, but since that night she hasn't answered my texts or her messages on here.

Yesterday I sent a bouquet of mixed flowers and a thanks on a balloon for taking a chance and meeting me.

It wasn't a Valentine's bouquet of roses you might send to a lover, more of a gift to a friend.

But she has been so offhand and has ignored me for 3weeks now I am wondering if she was genuine in asking to see me again.

Does anyone have any advice?"

Yeah, move on! You would have heard from her if she were interested by now. Perhaps she was telling the truth about meeting again initially (but something said or done by you or something that happened in her own life stopped her wanting to), perhaps she wasn't. Either way, forget her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone a month ago after massaging for months before, it was the most fantastic night of my life, the energy we threw into our " fun time" could have lit the streets all night.

It was the best fun I had in the last 20 years. Afterwards both naked lying on the bed she asked to see me again, but since that night she hasn't answered my texts or her messages on here.

Yesterday I sent a bouquet of mixed flowers and a thanks on a balloon for taking a chance and meeting me.

It wasn't a Valentine's bouquet of roses you might send to a lover, more of a gift to a friend.

But she has been so offhand and has ignored me for 3weeks now I am wondering if she was genuine in asking to see me again.

Does anyone have any advice?"

Well, it was a lovely thing to do. Reading your profile you have met tv/ts, but your profile says you are straight, unless she knew, it may have put her off, unless she thought the flowers meant more, she may not want more

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

He has massive issues

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I met someone a month ago after massaging for months before, it was the most fantastic night of my life, the energy we threw into our " fun time" could have lit the streets all night.

It was the best fun I had in the last 20 years. Afterwards both naked lying on the bed she asked to see me again, but since that night she hasn't answered my texts or her messages on here.

Yesterday I sent a bouquet of mixed flowers and a thanks on a balloon for taking a chance and meeting me.

It wasn't a Valentine's bouquet of roses you might send to a lover, more of a gift to a friend.

But she has been so offhand and has ignored me for 3weeks now I am wondering if she was genuine in asking to see me again.

Does anyone have any advice?

I'd find it slightly creepy that a guy I met once then ignored sent me flowers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone a month ago after massaging for months before, it was the most fantastic night of my life, the energy we threw into our " fun time" could have lit the streets all night.

It was the best fun I had in the last 20 years. Afterwards both naked lying on the bed she asked to see me again, but since that night she hasn't answered my texts or her messages on here.

Yesterday I sent a bouquet of mixed flowers and a thanks on a balloon for taking a chance and meeting me.

It wasn't a Valentine's bouquet of roses you might send to a lover, more of a gift to a friend.

But she has been so offhand and has ignored me for 3weeks now I am wondering if she was genuine in asking to see me again.

Does anyone have any advice?

I'd find it slightly creepy that a guy I met once then ignored sent me flowers...."

Yes me too.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Hold up he can have a girlfriend and cheat on her but you are not allowed to meet anyone else...id tell him to jog the fuck on....you do not need to make your life complicated "

in that case I think the flowers were intended to reinforce this - to encourage you to meet only him. I'd tell him to do one, total double standard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make wise decisions OP... If you get the feeling it's going to stop being fun soon... Stop well before... Trust those instincts of yours and protect yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't read too much into any of it, I don't think he wants anything permanent with you. He doesn't want you to meet other men because he wants you available for him when he wants to see you, the flowers are just a gesture to keep you sweet so you continue with the arrangement. "
yes I think your right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone a month ago after massaging for months before, it was the most fantastic night of my life, the energy we threw into our " fun time" could have lit the streets all night.

It was the best fun I had in the last 20 years. Afterwards both naked lying on the bed she asked to see me again, but since that night she hasn't answered my texts or her messages on here.

Yesterday I sent a bouquet of mixed flowers and a thanks on a balloon for taking a chance and meeting me.

It wasn't a Valentine's bouquet of roses you might send to a lover, more of a gift to a friend.

But she has been so offhand and has ignored me for 3weeks now I am wondering if she was genuine in asking to see me again.

Does anyone have any advice?

I'd find it slightly creepy that a guy I met once then ignored sent me flowers...."

'Slightly' seems something of an understatement

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I ended it now I'm a whore.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Well I ended it now I'm a whore. "

He called you a whore for ending it with him?

That would fit the profile for control and manipulative behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky escape. He sounds a nasty piece of work

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Well I ended it now I'm a whore.

He called you a whore for ending it with him?

That would fit the profile for control and manipulative behaviour.

I couldnt agree more

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Well I ended it now I'm a whore. "

Ahhh, but it was ok when you were his meek and mild kept lady... Shows his true feelings.

Hope you are ok

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Well I ended it now I'm a whore.

He called you a whore for ending it with him?

That would fit the profile for control and manipulative behaviour.

Yup! Good riddance

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, I hope you will feel better about all of this soon.

Resist the urge to go back to him when he asks if you can and get on with your life, unencumbered by a man holding you back.

Good fortune to you and keep strong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are fwb ...but otherwise single...and we give each other mixed signals all the time...because we like spending time together doing vanilla stuff, not just swinging... It is a fine line I guess...we both have work commitments and distance that would maybe stop a full on relationship...IMO just go with the flow and enjoy each meeting for what it is ....fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"OP, I hope you will feel better about all of this soon.

Resist the urge to go back to him when he asks if you can and get on with your life, unencumbered by a man holding you back.

Good fortune to you and keep strong.

Seconded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh honey, you are well out of there. Total control freak. Hope you're OK though, it's still not nice, even if you know it's for the best. Start and find someone who deserves your sass and will treat you the freedom and respect you deserve x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Yh was a tough one but I did the right thing. I'm only called a whore cos of my veris but I only knew about this site cos of him lol glad I found it tho

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Thanks Yh was a tough one but I did the right thing. I'm only called a whore cos of my veris but I only knew about this site cos of him lol glad I found it tho

Two verifications, one of which says it is social and the other says you give good conversation. If that's a whore then keep it up.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'll stand by what I said tell him to jog the Fuck on...take control its the best feeling in the world

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pretty sure I know a better feeling

lol it's ok I don't need that in my life. It's the only sex I don't like...head fucks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not good enough for him to leave his girlfriend for so I wouldn't read too much into the flowers.

I don't want to sound harsh, but if he wants you and you were better than his girlfriend, he'd leave her and try to convince you.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hold up he can have a girlfriend and cheat on her but you are not allowed to meet anyone else...id tell him to jog the fuck on....you do not need to make your life complicated "

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Are you surprised he acted the way he did?

He has a girlfriend that he clearly doesn't respect, so why would you be any different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he was happy to cheat on his girlfriend with you, then if he did end up in a relationship with you, chances are he'd cheat on you too.

To be fair, the chances are you and his girlfriend probably weren't the only girls he was seeing.

Think you are well out of there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he was happy to cheat on his girlfriend with you, then if he did end up in a relationship with you, chances are he'd cheat on you too.

To be fair, the chances are you and his girlfriend probably weren't the only girls he was seeing.

Think you are well out of there."

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"People are allowed to be nice without there being another motive. You could just say thank you... it's kinda sweet.

We're all very quick to think the worst. Maybe once in a while we should try to think the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

And then she was gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only got a card of mine ...I must bring his attention to this post....pfft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask him why he bought them if he's just being nice a buying for a friend, cool. If he says it's more, whooa. Put them in the bin.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The lady dumped him and left the site

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I only got a card of mine ...I must bring his attention to this post....pfft

Really? They have split up and the OP has left the site

Maybe don't bring his attention to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had flowers bought for me this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only got a card of mine ...I must bring his attention to this post....pfft

Really? They have split up and the OP has left the site

Maybe don't bring his attention to it

Was tongue in cheek

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I hope she finds peace and happiness. Hopefully without him.

If you're reading this then take care of yourself, keep safe and enjoy life.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

You're not good enough for him to leave his girlfriend for so I wouldn't read too much into the flowers.

I don't want to sound harsh, but if he wants you and you were better than his girlfriend, he'd leave her and try to convince you."

this is what i never get about people who are happy being someone elses "sidepiece"....

If you think you are an "MVP", why are you have being on someone elses "bench"

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over a year ago

You're not good enough for him to leave his girlfriend for so I wouldn't read too much into the flowers.

I don't want to sound harsh, but if he wants you and you were better than his girlfriend, he'd leave her and try to convince you.

this is what i never get about people who are happy being someone elses "sidepiece"....

If you think you are an "MVP", why are you have being on someone elses "bench""

its the reason why i dont do attached people

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

You're not good enough for him to leave his girlfriend for so I wouldn't read too much into the flowers.

I don't want to sound harsh, but if he wants you and you were better than his girlfriend, he'd leave her and try to convince you.

this is what i never get about people who are happy being someone elses "sidepiece"....

If you think you are an "MVP", why are you have being on someone elses "bench""

Its just flowers likely just being thoughtful. I rarely go anywhere without a small gift for a host, but hosting or not it may have just been a thoughtful gesture. Enjoy the flowers.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oh well, onwards and upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope the flowers lasted longer than her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not good enough for him to leave his girlfriend for so I wouldn't read too much into the flowers.

I don't want to sound harsh, but if he wants you and you were better than his girlfriend, he'd leave her and try to convince you.

this is what i never get about people who are happy being someone elses "sidepiece"....

If you think you are an "MVP", why are you have being on someone elses "bench""

What's a MVP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another Unlos...

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

I think it's a sweet gesture, a lady on a workshop I teach, she's in her eighties and a couple of weeks ago she brought me some daffs. it was a lovely gesture and really cheered me up after a shitty weekend.

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford

You're not good enough for him to leave his girlfriend for so I wouldn't read too much into the flowers.

I don't want to sound harsh, but if he wants you and you were better than his girlfriend, he'd leave her and try to convince you.

this is what i never get about people who are happy being someone elses "sidepiece"....

If you think you are an "MVP", why are you have being on someone elses "bench"

What's a MVP?

It stands for most valuable player. It's an American sports term.

I got lovely flowers from my new fwb. An ironic gesture from him and explained I just said thanks and showed him my thanks

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