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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it hard for cuddly people to meet everyone needs sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dint find it hard. Or maybe that's cause I'm a single lass x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all people through spells when they find it difficult to get a meet, have you tried going to a club?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why is it hard for cuddly people to meet everyone needs sex "

Is this him or her posting?

The hard truth is that for women size matters less than for men.

It shouldn't do but it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok, I'm new on this site, so apologies if this is off track.

you got verified a week ago by a bi fem, sounds like a great time.

that's not a bad result is it!? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dint find it hard. Or maybe that's cause I'm a single lass x"
no matter what size or how women look . There is still 100s of men here for them on fab.. Its not the same for men as they out number the woman. So women can be picky on fab .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's the male posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dint find it hard. Or maybe that's cause I'm a single lass x no matter what size or how women look . There is still 100s of men here for them on fab.. Its not the same for men as they out number the woman. So women can be picky on fab ."

I am picky , but I wouldn't find it hard if I wanted sonething x

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

cause you're only looking to meet single ladies (hard enough to find as it is) and your profile has no detail and no pictures of merit

As a woman, I would not consider someone purely off of one penetration picture... it shows me literally NOTHING about yourselves apart from the fact that you both have working genitals and even that isn't very clear....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dint find it hard. Or maybe that's cause I'm a single lass x no matter what size or how women look . There is still 100s of men here for them on fab.. Its not the same for men as they out number the woman. So women can be picky on fab .

I am picky , but I wouldn't find it hard if I wanted sonething x"
Most woman are picky here why the men find it hard going at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dint find it hard. Or maybe that's cause I'm a single lass x no matter what size or how women look . There is still 100s of men here for them on fab.. Its not the same for men as they out number the woman. So women can be picky on fab .

I am picky , but I wouldn't find it hard if I wanted sonething xMost woman are picky here why the men find it hard going at times."

Why shouldn't I be picky?? Not going drop my standards and no one else should either. I'm not going go with all and sundry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg.... that topic again...

I just wait for bananaman to explain to all of us why only slim women are attractive.

shhhhht! off topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dint find it hard. Or maybe that's cause I'm a single lass x no matter what size or how women look . There is still 100s of men here for them on fab.. Its not the same for men as they out number the woman. So women can be picky on fab .

I am picky , but I wouldn't find it hard if I wanted sonething xMost woman are picky here why the men find it hard going at times.

Why shouldn't I be picky?? Not going drop my standards and no one else should either. I'm not going go with all and sundry "
you can be picky as you get lots to pick from .. But men don't here I find .. I am very picky too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"omg.... that topic again...

I just wait for bananaman to explain to all of us why only slim women are attractive.

shhhhht! off topic."
lol yes size thing I am middle size and big tits , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size isn't a major thing for me but recent photos of men and women are important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has the choice to meet whoever they want. Problem is not everyone you want to meet, wants to meet you.

Some people love their playmates to be cuddly, slim, etc etc.

I'm picky, but the women I approach are pickier. That's the game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has the choice to meet whoever they want. Problem is not everyone you want to meet, wants to meet you.

Some people love their playmates to be cuddly, slim, etc etc.

I'm picky, but the women I approach are pickier. That's the game!"
sure is the game on here . Why because men outnumbering woman I am sure it a big part of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but to answer to your posting OP:

I don't find it harder at all.

so maybe just rethink your messages and your way to communicate.

could this be the reason you find it hard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the chubbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dint find it hard. Or maybe that's cause I'm a single lass x no matter what size or how women look . There is still 100s of men here for them on fab.. Its not the same for men as they out number the woman. So women can be picky on fab ."

Yes agreed, I'm far from a model but I can pick and choose on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh, and yes, I agree, change the avatar pic.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have no problem meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being cuddly/chubby/rounded is only one facet of you as a person. Instead of worrying about the negatives of your appearance, try to enhance your positives and what you can bring to the table with playmates.

From my perspective as the male half of a couple and not the chiselled, 6 pack toting hottie.........I do my damndest to help playmates forget that side of me by allowing my personality to shine and my other more intimate skills do the talking for me. Oh and I'm a handsome bugger too which helps no end. My size has not been a showstopper to date with people we've met of all shapes and sizes themselves.

Confidence is the key if you feel you don't measure up physically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has the choice to meet whoever they want. Problem is not everyone you want to meet, wants to meet you.

Some people love their playmates to be cuddly, slim, etc etc.

I'm picky, but the women I approach are pickier. That's the game!sure is the game on here . Why because men outnumbering woman I am sure it a big part of it."

But it also means that the meets I do get are much more enjoyable as someone has seen my pics, looked at my profile and decided of all the men available, I'm the one that interests them at that moment!

Hurrah for picky people!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like curves, but your profile pic doesn't show enough of either of you to attract me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dint find it hard. Or maybe that's cause I'm a single lass x"

Now ur not big ur curvy.. What size are you... I did try to ask u privet lay but cant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a chubby....well fat really but I get meets good luck op

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I'm a big girl, and always get offers of meets

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I am very chubby and I don't have trouble finding people who want to have sex with me.....I might just be very lucky

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Have people said it is due to your size or have you just picked that as being the reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cause you're only looking to meet single ladies (hard enough to find as it is) and your profile has no detail and no pictures of merit

As a woman, I would not consider someone purely off of one penetration picture... it shows me literally NOTHING about yourselves apart from the fact that you both have working genitals and even that isn't very clear...."

Yep, I'd say this is your biggest issue, not your size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has the choice to meet whoever they want. Problem is not everyone you want to meet, wants to meet you.

Some people love their playmates to be cuddly, slim, etc etc.

I'm picky, but the women I approach are pickier. That's the game!sure is the game on here . Why because men outnumbering woman I am sure it a big part of it.

But it also means that the meets I do get are much more enjoyable as someone has seen my pics, looked at my profile and decided of all the men available, I'm the one that interests them at that moment!

Hurrah for picky people!"
yes that's a good way to look at things xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Attitude is more important, think fat and you will be fat. Think positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think all people through spells when they find it difficult to get a meet, have you tried going to a club?"

This is true....I once went nearly a fortnight.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attitude is more important, think fat and you will be fat. Think positive

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And you will be positive you are fat? Or do people who think fat just have fat heads lol....

Actually I totally agree with you...but my warped mind read it wrongly! Sorry....xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not though, I know of loads of chubby men on here who get meets.

I wont meet them though because I havnt met any I got on with.

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