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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When getting one word replys means their board of u or not Intrested ??? Why don't they just say I don't want to talk to you no more

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a conversation gets to that point then it's time to move on maybe. Unless the question asked only required a one word answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe."

Are you being sarcastic.made me smile.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Maybe.

Are you being sarcastic.made me smile."

Possibly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol @ Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do that mostly when ive been askes a stupid arse question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When getting one word replys means their board of u or not Intrested ??? Why don't they just say I don't want to talk to you no more "

Bored

Yes I stop making any effort when it's one word shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My point is you can't have a convo with one word replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe."

I love your profile Tina i always read again after a bad Day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm asked questions constantly instead of a flowing conversation my mind goes blank. Time to close the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"My point is you can't have a convo with one word replies"

I have many a conversation with my 14 year old and get only one word responses. Sometimes even just noise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could always say "I'm going to do the washing up,speak later".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe I'm just boring old fart who don't know how to convo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"Maybe I'm just boring old fart who don't know how to convo"

Possibly

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Possibly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Least ur honest ....smiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When getting one word replys means their board of u or not Intrested ??? Why don't they just say I don't want to talk to you no more "

Just take the hint.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Maybe.

I love your profile Tina i always read again after a bad Day

Thanks very much. I keep thinking about swapping it out for my Bullseye one

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

If I'm bored I can't even be arsed to reply with one word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When getting one word replys means their board of u or not Intrested ??? Why don't they just say I don't want to talk to you no more "
board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'm bored I can't even be arsed to reply with one word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Statistically

93.137% of all single man messages are titled "Hi".

81.34% say in the message "How r u?" (Are they bothered or do they just want to fuck?)

74.86% bore the recipients to death so as a result most guys get ignored after a while.

Be original, be interesting, be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant do little bits of chat - i like to witter on about allsorts - is how i am in real life - if you want me to hush just kiss me - the chatter will stop but cant promise i will be quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When getting one word replys means their board of u or not Intrested ??? Why don't they just say I don't want to talk to you no more

Just take the hint. "

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Dunnomaybetheyjustarenotinterestedinyourchatyoucouldalwaystrytellingthemajoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure about that.

it seems to me that there are a lot of people here who struggle with having a proper conversation.

if they keep writing you but only in two words they are obviously interested, aren't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dunnomaybetheyjustarenotinterestedinyourchatyoucouldalwaystrytellingthemajoke"
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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Some of the first messages I receive are quite difficult to respond to!

Even if I'm interested in meeting I don't want to get drawn into dirty message ping pong - I'd rather have the flirty talk in the flesh.

So I often reply with brief or one word messages. The alternative is my stock no thanks message.

The most common first message I get is a variation on "how are you". If you asked me that in the flesh the answer is probably going to be brief, why would I write an essay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete them straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dunnomaybetheyjustarenotinterestedinyourchatyoucouldalwaystrytellingthemajoke"

Missed you.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Dunnomaybetheyjustarenotinterestedinyourchatyoucouldalwaystrytellingthemajoke

Missed you.

Wotcha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not sure about that.

it seems to me that there are a lot of people here who struggle with having a proper conversation.

if they keep writing you but only in two words they are obviously interested, aren't they?"

If not interested why even send a reply ?

Ignore/delete the message speaks for its self.

But a reply 2 or 3 one word reply's i would say also speaks for its self.

Try harder in your messages

Craig

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you're sending ping pong messages with terse replies then switch to live messaging which is more like chat.

If you've stopped someone in their tracks, they may be somewhat tied up whilst replying.

Otherwise as the initiator what can you do differently to engage them more?

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