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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is that one feature in a person that really attracts you the most?

Forget personalities. I'm talking when you see someone out and about, even in a club for example. The way they carry themselves? Their confidence or other examples in their looks.

List some things.

For me first it starts at the legs and footwear. Then it moves to their body language and how they carry themselves. I love a confident woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile and eyes...love a sparkle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The X factor. Don't know what it is. Like electric.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye's & cheeky smile

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

An aura....I can't explain it

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Eyes, smile, hands - I love people who use their hands when they talk, there is something mesmerising about it.

Oh and a nice bum never goes amiss either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is that one feature in a person that really attracts you the most?

Forget personalities. I'm talking when you see someone out and about, even in a club for example. The way they carry themselves? Their confidence or other examples in their looks.

List some things.

For me first it starts at the legs and footwear. Then it moves to their body language and how they carry themselves. I love a confident woman. "

eyes and smile for me

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Eyes, smile, hands - I love people who use their hands when they talk, there is something mesmerising about it.

Oh and a nice bum never goes amiss either!"

p.s. yes I know I can't count!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

the eyes..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Shoes

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Shoes "

does this vary between men and women? lol

Have to say I've been put off a guy by very scruffy shoes in the past... yup sign me up to the shallow club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No knicker line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice smile and bright red lipstick.all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes,smile ,hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clothes and personality aside soft facial expressions attract me. I recently realised that all of my long term partners have that look. Kind and pretty eyes on a manly face that maybe reflects their personalities

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Shoes

does this vary between men and women? lol

Have to say I've been put off a guy by very scruffy shoes in the past... yup sign me up to the shallow club"

He has to have decent shoes on...I can do with scruffy shoes unless it's work shoes. I'm also a sucker for a smile, and grey hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big biceps with fill sleeve tattoos

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Individuality.

How they carry that, the air they give off and whether they have something that intrigues me.

If they have that creative look, it is likely to be yes.

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By *omolfc8Man
over a year ago

merseyside

Love a woman to dress smart an sexy nice teeth an legs on a woman for me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes. And I have a real thing for strong arms and tattooes

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Individuality.

How they carry that, the air they give off and whether they have something that intrigues me.

If they have that creative look, it is likely to be yes."

and that aside, if they look like they are packing 9 inches +

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choochiness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An aura....I can't explain it"

I know what you mean. It isn't their smile or confidence it's just that vibe they give off. It's unexplainable but when you catch it, is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes, always been my thing. And a nice sexy smile that reaches their eyes, yum.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I wonder

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

And loads of tattoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An aura....I can't explain it

I know what you mean. It isn't their smile or confidence it's just that vibe they give off. It's unexplainable but when you catch it, is amazing "

Exactly Choochiness a glow a projection of sexiness and charisma.

Sparkle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could put it into really simple terms. There's just a certain something- the word aura was used and that's the closest word I can put it to.

And it's very individual.

I might have to come back to this if a definitive answer comes to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cheeky, knowing glint in a guys eyes..

I'll melt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find it really difficult to pick one thing.

But eyes and smile all play a part for me. Slightly more bizarrely, I find men's forearms really sexy sometimes. And a good set of broad shoulders can turn my head. I'm weird.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Butt

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Butt"

Butt what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The X factor. Don't know what it is. Like electric. "

+1. Just that something you cant explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Butt

Butt what? "

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"An aura....I can't explain it

I know what you mean. It isn't their smile or confidence it's just that vibe they give off. It's unexplainable but when you catch it, is amazing "

This...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes, a beautiful pair of eyes will make me melt everytime

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By *awkesWoman
over a year ago

Corwen

Self confidence without arrogance...saw a guy walk across a room in THI once..just walk across the room..took my breath away.

Oh..and hair. Lol

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By *ulubelle80Woman
over a year ago

North West


"Find it really difficult to pick one thing.

But eyes and smile all play a part for me. Slightly more bizarrely, I find men's forearms really sexy sometimes. And a good set of broad shoulders can turn my head. I'm weird. "

Not weird, I'm with you on the forearms thing.

Hands too, manly and expressive, does it for me every time. Coupled with a knowing glint in the eye and a slow smile and I'm done for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pianist fingers,long and slender are attractive on a man

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Pianist fingers,long and slender are attractive on a man "

I saw a comedian with really long thin pianist's fingers before. His fingers were his best attribute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it really difficult to pick one thing.

But eyes and smile all play a part for me. Slightly more bizarrely, I find men's forearms really sexy sometimes. And a good set of broad shoulders can turn my head. I'm weird.

Not weird, I'm with you on the forearms thing.

Hands too, manly and expressive, does it for me every time. Coupled with a knowing glint in the eye and a slow smile and I'm done for "

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Butt

Butt what? "

The gluteus maximus, clever arse.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Eyes, when you look into them and it's just electric

I also look at hands and I have a thing for strong forearms and a squared off wrist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and smile for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone is saying smile and it's annoying me because I don't smile a lot. I do of course, if someone makes me laugh but my normal look isn't one that involves a smile. I'm often told I look moody or unhappy hahah

I should smile more. Maybe I'm just not getting enough sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes.

Beautiful green eyes usually have me putty. But gorgeous eyes in general. You just know when you look at someones eyes. You just can't concentrate no more.

There's a few off fab who hopefully know what their eyes do to me. Those eyes are just mesmerising.

(Sighs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me when I meet in person its all about how they move and how confident they seem in their own skin, a confident - not cocky! - guy is really hot.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It's all about the face. Not whether or not it's a conventionally attractive face looks, just that undefinable eye twinkle and animation that makes me think 'oh, hello'. A good expressive eyebrow is a wonderful thing to behold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is saying smile and it's annoying me because I don't smile a lot. I do of course, if someone makes me laugh but my normal look isn't one that involves a smile. I'm often told I look moody or unhappy hahah

I should smile more. Maybe I'm just not getting enough sex. "

Tell me about it. I can't do fake smiles - they all call me a miserable git because of it.

My fb sends me pics of her smiling all the time. Don't know how she does it. But, when i send some pictures back. Apparently, i'm Moody Margaret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fuck me eyes and red lipstick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is saying smile and it's annoying me because I don't smile a lot. I do of course, if someone makes me laugh but my normal look isn't one that involves a smile. I'm often told I look moody or unhappy hahah

I should smile more. Maybe I'm just not getting enough sex. "

You do smile when you meet someone new in the flesh though I bet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone is saying smile and it's annoying me because I don't smile a lot. I do of course, if someone makes me laugh but my normal look isn't one that involves a smile. I'm often told I look moody or unhappy hahah

I should smile more. Maybe I'm just not getting enough sex.

You do smile when you meet someone new in the flesh though I bet "

Of course I do lol. But like pops said. A smile can't be fake or forced so when I smile it's more genuine I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eyes,,you can tell a lot from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quietly confident posture and way of walking. Also, arms the size of a small country never goes amiss (shallow wench that I am!). ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A quietly confident posture and way of walking. Also, arms the size of a small country never goes amiss (shallow wench that I am!). ??"

No you're attracted to what you're attracted to. That doesn't make anyone shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is saying smile and it's annoying me because I don't smile a lot. I do of course, if someone makes me laugh but my normal look isn't one that involves a smile. I'm often told I look moody or unhappy hahah

I should smile more. Maybe I'm just not getting enough sex.

You do smile when you meet someone new in the flesh though I bet

Of course I do lol. But like pops said. A smile can't be fake or forced so when I smile it's more genuine I guess.

"

There you go then

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Currently have a thing for full lips and exceptionally pert bottoms xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how clean they look, what are their clothes like, not scruffy old ones, how slim they are not old looking or overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is saying smile and it's annoying me because I don't smile a lot. I do of course, if someone makes me laugh but my normal look isn't one that involves a smile. I'm often told I look moody or unhappy hahah

I should smile more. Maybe I'm just not getting enough sex. "

You always smile at me! lol you just think you don't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sparkle in their eyes, confidence, a passion for something, a secret smile when we look at each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have to name one, Id say hazel eyes....

if I can name more... chocolatey hair, hazel eyes, big nose,pretty smile, dimples, nice lips, voluptuous but not mandatory...

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Eyes, hair, smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely eyes and a sexy smile goes a long way to getting my interest! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile

Eyes

How they dress shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their boobs and I quite like big one V

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"An aura....I can't explain it

I know what you mean. It isn't their smile or confidence it's just that vibe they give off. It's unexplainable but when you catch it, is amazing "

The eyes and smile I do notice, but yes, it's more the vibe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and smile definitely but sometimes it's just an aura/vibe from someone, very hard to put in words

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Smile

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Smile how they look at you with that cheeky look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sparkle in their eyes, confidence, a passion for something, a secret smile when we look at each other. "

Definitely this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the look in someone's eyes and the way he moves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone is saying smile and it's annoying me because I don't smile a lot. I do of course, if someone makes me laugh but my normal look isn't one that involves a smile. I'm often told I look moody or unhappy hahah

I should smile more. Maybe I'm just not getting enough sex.

You always smile at me! lol you just think you don't x "

But you make me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eyes, smile, hands - I love people who use their hands when they talk, there is something mesmerising about it.

Oh and a nice bum never goes amiss either!"

Opsss I use a lots of my hands when Im talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their boobs and I quite like big one V "

Mine are big and natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know within seconds of setting your eyes on them!

A certain something that's to hard to explain in words!!!

It makes you feel like nobody else is in the room!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I would say however , often it could be any non specific single part Of a lady , one lady her lips maybe magnetic , however another it maybe her way of walking or hair , a certain face shape ?

I'd say often times a single but differing attribute can just draw one in ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is saying smile and it's annoying me because I don't smile a lot. I do of course, if someone makes me laugh but my normal look isn't one that involves a smile. I'm often told I look moody or unhappy hahah

I should smile more. Maybe I'm just not getting enough sex.

You always smile at me! lol you just think you don't x

But you make me smile

"

x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No one thing particularly, could be a look, eyes, body, smile, even a chat that makes me drawn to someone,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their boobs and I quite like big one V

Mine are big and natural "

Ooooo very nice and yes its a nice sight to look at X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look in someone's eyes. Can give you tingles all over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heheheheheheeeee..........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm pretty good at eye contact. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence with a smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ability to not turn their back on me if I make eye contact...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ability to not turn their back on me if I make eye contact..."

That takes great talent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self-assurance / self-confidence coupled with individuality, as an aura.

Very hard to pick one and explain.

Eyes are great too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heheheheheheeeee.........."

What are you giggling at handsome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ability to not turn their back on me if I make eye contact...

That takes great talent "

It normally happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ability to not turn their back on me if I make eye contact...

That takes great talent

It normally happens "

Awwww it's a really, really hard life sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ability to not turn their back on me if I make eye contact...

That takes great talent

It normally happens

Awwww it's a really, really hard life sometimes "

I would't want it any other way

I much prefer a lady who wants to play with me because they like me, rather than just because I have a pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ability to not turn their back on me if I make eye contact...

That takes great talent

It normally happens

Awwww it's a really, really hard life sometimes

I would't want it any other way

I much prefer a lady who wants to play with me because they like me, rather than just because I have a pulse "

A pulse can be a real deal breaker!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"The ability to not turn their back on me if I make eye contact...

That takes great talent

It normally happens

Awwww it's a really, really hard life sometimes

I would't want it any other way

I much prefer a lady who wants to play with me because they like me, rather than just because I have a pulse

A pulse can be a real deal breaker! "

Depends how stiff you want them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ability to not turn their back on me if I make eye contact...

That takes great talent

It normally happens

Awwww it's a really, really hard life sometimes

I would't want it any other way

I much prefer a lady who wants to play with me because they like me, rather than just because I have a pulse

A pulse can be a real deal breaker!

Depends how stiff you want them. "

Now there's a question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self-assurance / self-confidence coupled with individuality, as an aura.

Very hard to pick one and explain.

Eyes are great too."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self-assurance / self-confidence coupled with individuality, as an aura.

Very hard to pick one and explain.

Eyes are great too.

This "

Indeedy

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

A nice smile...cheeky eyes and a slutty curvy body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eye's & cheeky smile "
ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breasts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes , smile and personality

Then the spark of two like minds

Its the chemistry that makes for the best alchemy

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