FabSwingers.com forum: Which is more important. A good lover or a good looking lover?

By *illwill69u OP Man
over a year ago

moston

This is a swinging sex site, not a dating site...

So why do so many profiles demand good looking sex partners? Is sex better with a good looking partner for some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I need attraction.

Its a swinging site, not just a random hook up sex site - if I'm not attracted on some level, I am not going to get naked.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"This is a swinging sex site, not a dating site...

So why do so many profiles demand good looking sex partners? Is sex better with a good looking partner for some?"

Because that's their preference..

end of..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I only shag people I would date so a lot of things play a factor for me including looks...and if people want to use this site as a dating site that their choice

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"I need attraction.

Its a swinging site, not just a random hook up sex site - if I'm not attracted on some level, I am not going to get naked."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Big Cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An attractive, stimulating lover here please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me to have sex I need atttaction.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I need attraction.

Its a swinging site, not just a random hook up sex site - if I'm not attracted on some level, I am not going to get naked."

i think sometimes people forget that for some it is as much about the "mental" as it is about the physical... so if a good looking person for some improves the mental mindset.... good for them!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"For me to have sex I need atttaction.

Must be a girl thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo looks am not going to jump into bed with someone I'm not attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily i can choose good lovers who are good looking that is the beauty of this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posts like these always make me laugh. Why would anyone have sex with someone they didn't find attractive?

Just because we are swingers doesn't mean we lose our knickers for anyone who might look our way

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"This is a swinging sex site, not a dating site...

So why do so many profiles demand good looking sex partners? Is sex better with a good looking partner for some?"

I want to have sex with someone I find attractive, I wouldn't enjoy it otherwise. My idea of attractive might not be someone else's though and I don't demand good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need attraction.

Its a swinging site, not just a random hook up sex site - if I'm not attracted on some level, I am not going to get naked."

this said NoirPleasure

" So why do so many profiles demand good looking sex partners? Is sex better with a good looking partner for some?

Because that's their preference..

end of.."

this said NoirPleasure

"I only shag people I would date so a lot of things play a factor for me including looks...and if people want to use this site as a dating site that their choice

And a big double

this said NoirPleasure - even louder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Posts like these always make me laugh. Why would anyone have sex with someone they didn't find attractive?

Just because we are swingers doesn't mean we lose our knickers for anyone who might look our way"

A guy I turned down replied that he could wear a paper bag over his head so I didn't need to look at him

lol

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

An obedient lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt have sex with some one i wasnt attracted too why should a sex site be any different from REAL LIFE it annoys me somtimes that people and in the main guys think because on a sex site you will fuck anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG I shouldn't laugh

Did you give him a sympathy shag? Did the bag rustle?

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

What a load of bollocks so when both men and women go to clubs and sleep with anyone randomly they go by looks do they???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to find them attractive or it's a no go for me..they have to turn me on and only ladies I'm attracted too will do that...

Its a bit of a 'no brainer' this thread...!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

if its just sexual it wouldnt matter as you would be in bed so nobody but you would see them!! lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have to have that connection, that spiritual connection, the meeting of our minds and the connection of every part of our bodies.....

it has to be that way for me....

or I just shag them and tell them to fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would fuck anyone who I dont fancy

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By *illwill69u OP Man
over a year ago

moston

I asked because according to behavioral psychology a persons looks only influence others for about 30 seconds, after that personality and perceived intelligence takes over...

This got me thinking...

The above is obviously true when you look at friendships, but does the sexual and mating imperative overrule our normal psychology?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(female par speaking)

I experienced to be blindfolded and licked by a man I hadn't seen. he was chosen by my partner. I didn't even know if it was a man or a woman.

he was so damn good with his tongue that it really wasn't important for me at the moment how he looked.

I found out afterwards that he is really attractive. even better.

but it wasn't important while I was enjoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need attraction.

Its a swinging site, not just a random hook up sex site - if I'm not attracted on some level, I am not going to get naked."

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo needs to arose my intrest in the looks dep but also the personality dep too . oh n have a big cock

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"This is a swinging sex site, not a dating site...

So why do so many profiles demand good looking sex partners? Is sex better with a good looking partner for some?"

So would you fuck anything just because it has a pulse??

Sex/Swinging site or not, there still has to be some sort of attraction there - I want to feel turned on, not just going through a motion. Not sure I could perform anyway if I wasn't attracted to someone, little guy can be quite stubborn

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"What a load of bollocks so when both men and women go to clubs and sleep with anyone randomly they go by looks do they???

Yes even at clubs if I don't find them attractive they ain't fucking me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is important but it's not always just physical I need to be attracted to the whole person (I'm a girl what can I say).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i doubt they are demanding male models they probably just want someone they find attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't we be both?

Good looking, a great in bed men do exist.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Attraction is a must , visually and mentally , or without it you may as well buy a bag of spuds from Asda and shag that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not always better sex but the men I find attractive are usualy nicer.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

"Attraction is a must , visually and mentally , or without it you may as well buy a bag of spuds from Asda and shag that !"

Other supermarkets are available

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i'm a stunning munter me......

i like to think my personality improves my stunning good-looking-ness.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OMG I shouldn't laugh

Did you give him a sympathy shag? Did the bag rustle?

Haha no he was swiftly told to jog on lol

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"What a load of bollocks so when both men and women go to clubs and sleep with anyone randomly they go by looks do they???

Yes even at clubs if I don't find them attractive they ain't fucking me! "

That's not what i see in general the bigger the dick the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pub/club/bar or fab if I'm not attracted it's not going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why can't we be both?

Good looking, a great in bed men do exist. "

they certainly do and I have one

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"This is a swinging sex site, not a dating site...

So why do so many profiles demand good looking sex partners? Is sex better with a good looking partner for some?"

I can't get aroused over someone I don't consider good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be attracted to who I have sex with.

If I didn't need that then I would be a prostitute, making money out of any man that paid me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need attraction.

Its a swinging site, not just a random hook up sex site - if I'm not attracted on some level, I am not going to get naked."

That doesn't necessarily mean classic good looks, but it means something about them has to spark an attraction for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Posts like these always make me laugh. Why would anyone have sex with someone they didn't find attractive?

Just because we are swingers doesn't mean we lose our knickers for anyone who might look our way

A guy I turned down replied that he could wear a paper bag over his head so I didn't need to look at him

lol"

Haha.

One guy offered to just give me oral if i didn't fancy him.

OP i did try out fucking a guy i didn't fancy, a topic on here gave me the idea to try it out, psychologically it was awful and i regret it.

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