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By *ionysus_st3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

Just browsing through some women who are local to me & noticed this one woman who said she was looking for local males, females & couples (mf & ff), aged 18 to 25, & she's 20.

Great, I thought, so I clicked to send her a message... when it came up that she's blocked single men!!! how stupid is that??? she's looking for guys, but decides to block them!

I'm guessing she's probably made a mistake, but I've got my suspicions...

Can anyone shed light on this bizarre profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not weird at all.

Many of us who want single males block them and will go looking for them when WE want them, instead of getting loads of emails every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just browsing through some women who are local to me & noticed this one woman who said she was looking for local males, females & couples (mf & ff), aged 18 to 25, & she's 20.

Great, I thought, so I clicked to send her a message... when it came up that she's blocked single men!!! how stupid is that??? she's looking for guys, but decides to block them!

I'm guessing she's probably made a mistake, but I've got my suspicions...

Can anyone shed light on this bizarre profile?"

not at all bizarre, perhaps she choses her own mate rather than have them chose her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she's just not looking for any new contacts at the moment and the most effective way to stop unwanted emails is to use the block option.

Could be any of a hundred reasons really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually best not to think you know best, either. It's her profile, her reasons.

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By *ionysus_st3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

Hmmm, I see. Those are all good reasons. But why don't they go ahead & block everyone from sending messages to them instead of just single men?

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By *ionysus_st3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent


"Usually best not to think you know best, either. It's her profile, her reasons. "

Never assumed to know best. Just curious.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i dont block single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm, I see. Those are all good reasons. But why don't they go ahead & block everyone from sending messages to them instead of just single men?"

because when you are female you get, for example: 25 emails off single men each day and 2 off a couple each week and 1 off a single woman each year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she does have couples and single females blocked too, you wouldn't know if she has or not, unless you have false profiles on her

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By *ionysus_st3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent


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because when you are female you get, for example: 25 emails off single men each day and 2 off a couple each week and 1 off a single woman each year.

"

Which comes to 28 mails... whereas she wouldn't have to any if she blocked them all.

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By *ionysus_st3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent


"Maybe she does have couples and single females blocked too, you wouldn't know if she has or not, unless you have false profiles on her "

Which means if you're a couple you don't know if someone's blocked single men?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


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because when you are female you get, for example: 25 emails off single men each day and 2 off a couple each week and 1 off a single woman each year.

Which comes to 28 mails... whereas she wouldn't have to any if she blocked them all."

psst....not gonna win this one - its a fairly standard 'cos she can' kind of thread

just shrug your shoulders and move on to the ones who dont block you

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By *ionysus_st3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent


"i dont block single males "

Nice!

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By *ionysus_st3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent


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psst....not gonna win this one - its a fairly standard 'cos she can' kind of thread

just shrug your shoulders and move on to the ones who dont block you"

Well, wasn't interested in her anyway cause she smoked. Just wanted to present my discovery in the forum & get the opinions of others. Just found it odd how she blocked one type, that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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psst....not gonna win this one - its a fairly standard 'cos she can' kind of thread

just shrug your shoulders and move on to the ones who dont block you

Well, wasn't interested in her anyway cause she smoked. Just wanted to present my discovery in the forum & get the opinions of others. Just found it odd how she blocked one type, that's all."

i think there's another thread just opened for responses like that.....

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By *ionysus_st3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent


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i think there's another thread just opened for responses like that..... "

What??? :D

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

There is'nt an option to block everyone from messaging you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ionysus_st3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent


"There is'nt an option to block everyone from messaging you"

Really? that means that the blocking principle is essentially flawed...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


".... Great, I thought, so I clicked to send her a message... when it came up that she's blocked single men!!! how stupid is that??? "

About as stupid as trying to message someone you are not really interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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psst....not gonna win this one - its a fairly standard 'cos she can' kind of thread

just shrug your shoulders and move on to the ones who dont block you

Well, wasn't interested in her anyway cause she smoked. Just wanted to present my discovery in the forum & get the opinions of others. Just found it odd how she blocked one type, that's all."

But you state in your profile that you WILL meet smokers ????

im all confused now. lmao

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By *nkednkinky_bbwWoman
over a year ago

cannock


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Well, wasn't interested in her anyway cause she smoked. Just wanted to present my discovery in the forum & get the opinions of others. Just found it odd how she blocked one type, that's all."

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago


"There is'nt an option to block everyone from messaging you

Really? that means that the blocking principle is essentially flawed..."

I agree

I know the subject has been bought up with admin before now ill have a look to see if I can find the thread

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By *ionysus_st3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent


"There is'nt an option to block everyone from messaging you

Really? that means that the blocking principle is essentially flawed...

I agree

I know the subject has been bought up with admin before now ill have a look to see if I can find the thread"

Thanks, that'd be great.

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