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" Set up a bi/gay profile for him and say he's available daytimes. That might encourage him to get off his arse. " | |||
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" Set up a bi/gay profile for him and say he's available daytimes. That might encourage him to get off his arse. " Future employment Secretary in the making | |||
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"Have you tried talking to him and saying how you feel?" hate bringing it up as he gets annoyed | |||
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"No offence but most on here are either single pretending to be single or cheating on wives husbands boyfriends girlfriends even on their dog lol. Wrong place to ask for relationship advice talk to fella explain you are on swinging site slagging him off sure that will motivate him." disagree,, forums are a wealth of knowledge from a wide spectrum of people. Its a comfort to even just type out a niggle or problem. Guess the OP is just needing a vent and at some stage a lot of us who use the forums regularly have done this. problem shared can be a problem halved | |||
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"I wouldnt work to support someone who made no effort to help with the bills sorry You say he's not worked for over a year but you have only been together for 18 months so basically he's taken you for a meal ticket from the start I wouldnt have lasted 18 months sorry " Take a look from an outsiders point of _iew, you wouldn't get any sympathy or advice from me because if you don't truly know the answer and your own self worth then there's no point | |||
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"Have you tried talking to him and saying how you feel? hate bringing it up as he gets annoyed " I would be none stop nagging at him to get a job Seriously I would lock the food up and everything and tell him he can eat it when he contributes toward it But maybe that's why I'm single cause I'm a hard bitch | |||
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" I know a girl who married a guy who was living in a hostel. Moved in with her with all sorts of crazy plans and great ideas. That was 4 years ago and he hasn't lifted a finger to try and get work. Does nothing about the house and has her children give up their beds when his come to visit as he won't have them on camp beds! You need to think of yourself and your happiness. If you're happy to keep him then carry on but what are you getting back ... is it enough. I've been there myself and it's not an easy decision." thank you I think I know what to do just needed to offload Cx | |||
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"Have you tried talking to him and saying how you feel? hate bringing it up as he gets annoyed I would be none stop nagging at him to get a job Seriously I would lock the food up and everything and tell him he can eat it when he contributes toward it But maybe that's why I'm single cause I'm a hard bitch " | |||
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"Classy, girl slags off her bf to faceless strangers on swinging site. If you're working 50 hrs a week, how do you know what he's doing" i know he isn't paying the bills | |||
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"Hopefully you're not a Gers fan as they don't do walking away " partick thistle | |||
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"Hopefully you're not a Gers fan as they don't do walking away partick thistle " You're excused then | |||
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"the main question is what does he do by 18 months you should know does he try to find a job, are there any jobs within your area are they easy to get jobs there what does he do for you clean house and do the womans work and have everything ready for you to come home to does he pull his weight around the house and garden doing what should be done does he do the repairs when needed or just slob around playing games all day anyone can say do this do that, but we dont know the whole truth only you do its all up to you " True I think I have made my decision thank you guys for your comments Cxx | |||
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"Why is it seen in a different light when the man works but the woman doesn't? Just wondering." It isn't by me, unless kids are involved and someone stays home to look after them I see no reason why both parties don't contribute towards the bills, a relationship is a partnership after all | |||
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"Have you tried talking to him and saying how you feel? hate bringing it up as he gets annoyed " So? Why should you be the only one pissed off with the situation? Tell him straight how you feel, and tell him if he doesn't like it then he knows where the door is. Might seem extreme to kick him out but i've noticed most guys don't get their act together unless you force them to and you need stop supporting the way of life he has right now because right now he doesn't have to change or do anything because you're enabling everything to remain as it is. | |||
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"Have you tried talking to him and saying how you feel? hate bringing it up as he gets annoyed So? Why should you be the only one pissed off with the situation? Tell him straight how you feel, and tell him if he doesn't like it then he knows where the door is. Might seem extreme to kick him out but i've noticed most guys don't get their act together unless you force them to and you need stop supporting the way of life he has right now because right now he doesn't have to change or do anything because you're enabling everything to remain as it is." I agree Tough love works If he loves you really wouldn't he want you to work less | |||
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"Well I decided to end it nothing was going to change and I wasn't prepared to put up with it any longer thanks for the advice C xx" Thank fuck for that. | |||
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"Well I decided to end it nothing was going to change and I wasn't prepared to put up with it any longer thanks for the advice C xx" what did he say about that ? sounds a sensible thing to do | |||
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" Set up a bi/gay profile for him and say he's available daytimes. That might encourage him to get off his arse. " Dump his lazy arse and find someone who thinks you're worth the effort. | |||
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"Well I decided to end it nothing was going to change and I wasn't prepared to put up with it any longer thanks for the advice C xx what did he say about that ? sounds a sensible thing to do " He said everything he has said before about changing ect but enough was enough xx | |||
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"Well I decided to end it nothing was going to change and I wasn't prepared to put up with it any longer thanks for the advice C xx" good luck for the future | |||
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"Well I decided to end it nothing was going to change and I wasn't prepared to put up with it any longer thanks for the advice C xx" Good for you, Hun. You deserve more. x | |||
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