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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok your sat in a cafe , pub , bus , train etc etc and someone whose you've seen on here... But never spoken too.. Would you say hello (discreetly and when alone of course )... Maybe members need a secret sign lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

No never

And if anyone Id never met or spoken to approached me and mentioned fab they would get my very best laser eyed death glare

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Someone from here works in the restaurant I went to for lunch today. Someone Ive blocked. I was with my mate and her 2 year old daughter who threw a spoon on the floor. The guy then picked up the spoon and deliberately touched my leg as he got up. I felt physically sick. So to answer your question, no I wouldn't say hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter where I am, if I see someone off here I shout "Ohhhh myyyyy goddddd you're off FABSWINGERS!!!!" and make wanking motions with my hand. It always goes down well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never in person. I wouldn't want to risk embarrassing or upsetting someone but I might message here to say Hi and mention I saw them.

I have seen several couples/singles from here out and about...Always kept it to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't imagine anything worse and it would be very creepy

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's ususlly down the frozen pea section

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No never

And if anyone Id never met or spoken to approached me and mentioned fab they would get my very best laser eyed death glare "

Ooo I could feel the burn ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably only if I recognised them but didn't remember where from.

I say this because I once bumped into the guy who ran the garage that did the builds for Pimp My Ride UK at a local post office. I recognised him, and actually thought I knew him, and started having a chat while we were waiting to be served. It was only when it dawned on me where I'd seen his face before that I apologised. He was cool about it. I saw him out and about a few times after that.

Nice guy.

But....

If I recognised someone from fab, and remembered where I'd seen their face before, then probably not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was alone and I had spoken to them here or were on my friends list, I wouldnt have a problem with it, as long as they were discreet and didnt shout it to the rooftops.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Someone from here works in the restaurant I went to for lunch today. Someone Ive blocked. I was with my mate and her 2 year old daughter who threw a spoon on the floor. The guy then picked up the spoon and deliberately touched my leg as he got up. I felt physically sick. So to answer your question, no I wouldn't say hello. "

That is disgusting. I'd have asked to have a quiet word with the manager and told him/her that the member of staff touched you inappropriately. Even if the guy had mentioned the site in his defence - and I seriously doubt it - it's not an excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact, I've actually practically bumped into someone out in public that I've previously had a meet with, but I just carried on about my business as if they were any other stranger.

It's called discretion.

Have had a message from them since though.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Ok your sat in a cafe , pub , bus , train etc etc and someone whose you've seen on here... But never spoken too.. Would you say hello (discreetly and when alone of course )... Maybe members need a secret sign lol "

No. I expect contact from strangers via the site. This is part of my private life. I don't expect it to be brought into my public life, even discreetly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok your sat in a cafe , pub , bus , train etc etc and someone whose you've seen on here... But never spoken too.. Would you say hello (discreetly and when alone of course )... Maybe members need a secret sign lol "

no

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No I wouldn't.

I have had messages on here before saying stuff like 'I saw you walking through town today' though which is annoying enough. I'm not bloody famous I do have to go out to buy stuff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I was alone and I had spoken to them here or were on my friends list, I wouldnt have a problem with it, as long as they were discreet and didnt shout it to the rooftops. "

I think having them on your friends list and chatted here is different.. It's then like a social meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone from here works in the restaurant I went to for lunch today. Someone Ive blocked. I was with my mate and her 2 year old daughter who threw a spoon on the floor. The guy then picked up the spoon and deliberately touched my leg as he got up. I felt physically sick. So to answer your question, no I wouldn't say hello. "

please tell me u said something its sexual harassment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't imagine anything worse and it would be very creepy "

It is very creepy. Someone approached me A outside our local pub . He had seen me at a local club. Soooo embarrassing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't recognise anyone from here with their clothes on

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts


"Someone from here works in the restaurant I went to for lunch today. Someone Ive blocked. I was with my mate and her 2 year old daughter who threw a spoon on the floor. The guy then picked up the spoon and deliberately touched my leg as he got up. I felt physically sick. So to answer your question, no I wouldn't say hello.

please tell me u said something its sexual harassment"

No I just shot him a dirty look and he walked away. My mates boyfriend also gave him a dirty look. I couldn't be bothered saying anything because I'd look like a fool when he claims it was an accident

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"No never

And if anyone Id never met or spoken to approached me and mentioned fab they would get my very best laser eyed death glare

Ooo I could feel the burn ...."

Thats from all the way over here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's ususlly down the frozen pea section "

There's nowt worse than icicles hanging off of your pubes, or beef curtains if you;ve recently shaven/creamed.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My fb and I have an agreement to ignore each other if we see each other in Brighton. Discretion is important to me.

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By *ike4362ukMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt

In general never make any indication that you know anyone. There are exceptions, having met one lady on here who would be quite happy to chat discretely if I bumped into her. Again if she was with someone else you need to behave discretely again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter where I am, if I see someone off here I shout "Ohhhh myyyyy goddddd you're off FABSWINGERS!!!!" and make wanking motions with my hand. It always goes down well. "

wheni read that and laughed i should have not been half lay down on the sofa with a hot coffee resting on my belly - thats the dressing gown in the wash now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone from here works in the restaurant I went to for lunch today. Someone Ive blocked. I was with my mate and her 2 year old daughter who threw a spoon on the floor. The guy then picked up the spoon and deliberately touched my leg as he got up. I felt physically sick. So to answer your question, no I wouldn't say hello. "

he shouldnt have touched you - right choice to have blocked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If, as the OP stated it was done with complete discretion and when totally alone then it shouldn't cause a problem. I have met two members from here, by chance, when out and about and yes....saying hi was not a problem. I also drink regularly with a few local members of fab as we usecthe same pub....but we don't mention fab when out in public.

Discretion is the key....otherwise no problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter where I am, if I see someone off here I shout "Ohhhh myyyyy goddddd you're off FABSWINGERS!!!!" and make wanking motions with my hand. It always goes down well.

wheni read that and laughed i should have not been half lay down on the sofa with a hot coffee resting on my belly - thats the dressing gown in the wash now "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fb and I have an agreement to ignore each other if we see each other in Brighton. Discretion is important to me. "

My closest friend on here . .... is also my closest friend in civvy street. But we never mention fab when others are around. She would bloody kill me lol......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is like a secret society! An underground movement! Bit like fight club, except we shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first rule of fab is you don't talk about fab, the second rule of fab is you don't talk about fab...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If I'm out, people tend to recognise me and say hello.

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