FabSwingers.com forum: ARE WE WRONG???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are we in the wrong for asking people to have a read of our profile before we have a chat? Alot of guys think so.

We only ask so it saves time as to people asking what were into. Plus after you read it we may not be for you which also saves time.

Now were are getting abuse and to off left right and center so please tell us if you think we are wrong for asking this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we in the wrong for asking people to have a read of our profile before we have a chat? Alot of guys think so.

We only ask so it saves time as to people asking what were into. Plus after you read it we may not be for you which also saves time.

Now were are getting abuse and to off left right and center so please tell us if you think we are wrong for asking this?"

No they are just twats, ignore them

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You're not wrong, but you're never going to get them to do so if they don't want to. Why not just ignore the ones who can't be bothered and only chat to the ones that read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

We expect people to read it but not memorise it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not wrong but not many people do, just block, report and move on! Don't let it get to u! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no not at all I always read them first before contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No that's what profiles are for isn't it..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

why would it be wrong.

it won't make a difference though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how you ask them? It seems odd that a simple request would get abuse....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Superkink.

You profile is not too long or offensive. I would have thought it not unreasonable to expect guys to read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they are in the wrong! Don't let it bother you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be taken for granted, that people read profiles before contacting. I always,do. Unfortunately this isn't always the case, as has been highlighted, on numerous occasions. Don't rise to it just smile and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no your not wrong,i just wished others would read profile,save me a lot of typing ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile you write it how the heck you want to - whatever you write some will read , some wont, some will and still take not notice - we read them and take notice - any ott abuse block and/or report xxxx ignore the plonkers and enjoy the place

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

just delete the message rather than engaging in a ping pong row about it ...saves everyone time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on how you ask them? It seems odd that a simple request would get abuse...."
sometimes we reply to people that clearly havent saying we no you havent read it then we get abuse

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

That's the whole point of a profile.

Although mine isn't set in stone, it's basically what I'm wanting.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

nope.... should be a given....

if they can't have been bothered to read it.... i can't be bothered to reply....

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Ok so you're both bi

One is dom one is sub

That is all your profile tells me about what you're into

Practically nothing really

Plus you actively encourage people to ask questions to find out more

So I don't think its wrong to be asked to elaborate on likes,dislikes and kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we in the wrong for asking people to have a read of our profile before we have a chat? Alot of guys think so.

We only ask so it saves time as to people asking what were into. Plus after you read it we may not be for you which also saves time.

Now were are getting abuse and to off left right and center so please tell us if you think we are wrong for asking this?"

No you are not wrong what so ever, your profile is all about what you are looking for, as is ours, therefore gives others the opportunity to read and if it matches what others are looking for then that leads to hopefully a chat, don't worry we get the same, told our profile is too much and can't be bothered to read it, or as a guy told us the other day most people lie on there profile so he doesn't bother reading them, unfortunately it is how it i

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

Don't matter what you put on you're profile.... no one reads them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks fine but I would put all the BITS IN CAPITALS at the bottom. Let the readers read about you first then tell them what you dont like afterwards. X

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

As long as you are not abusive you are perfectly entitled to ask people to read your profile. Doesnt mean to say they will do it though.

If people send you abusive messages its always better to report them so that Admin can deal with it rather than start a thread about it.

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