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"Not another 50 shades thread. "Because it is so hard to do a search  | |||
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"Id like to kick 10 buckets of shit out of 50 shades "Would that be 50 shades of shite. | |||
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"Not read the books, perhaps may go see the film? Have watched the ellie Goulding music video, which I love but I'm a lil ellie obsessed anyway." Don't get your hopes up, loose women only gave it 2/5  | |||
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"I guess a lot off you ladies have been looking forward to the release today, hope it is as erotic as the books were so I been told by many enjoy .... "We are all a bunch of pisstakers on here so the responses are not personal I think people have overdosed on everything to do with 50 shades at the moment I know lots of women away from the world of fab who are all looking forward to seeing it | |||
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"Just seen it!! Crap!!! " Lol, i just read your status, i'd be up for making a movie.   | |||
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"I guess a lot off you ladies have been looking forward to the release today, hope it is as erotic as the books were so I been told by many enjoy .... "I shant go because I never go to the cinema but I expect lots of women and men will enjoy it. I hope they have a lot of safe, sane, consensual fun. Despite the impression given most people on here are aware that what one person enjoys another will | |||
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"I guess a lot off you ladies have been looking forward to the release today, hope it is as erotic as the books were so I been told by many enjoy ....
We are all a bunch of pisstakers on here so the responses are not personal
I think people have overdosed on everything to do with 50 shades at the moment
I know lots of women away from the world of fab who are all looking forward to seeing it "That's the thing, and perhaps one of the main reasons, I never read the books... To us depraved lot, it may be deemed a little tame. To those in the vanilla world, and a lot of the naive girls, I work alongside, 50 shades, gives them a peek into something they know little about. They are fascinated and find it a little hot. | |||
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" There are many bits of writing that could be considered irresponsible. " I agree - but we are talking about 50 Shades here | |||
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" To those in the vanilla world, and a lot of the naive girls, I work alongside, 50 shades, gives them a peek into something they know little about. They are fascinated and find it a little hot." But its a book about an abusive relationship it shouldn't be peoples glimpse into the world because a healthy D/s dynamic doesn't involve abuse and rape and disrespect | |||
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" There are many bits of writing that could be considered irresponsible. I agree - but we are talking about 50 Shades here" Indeed we are but I wonder why this book has provoked such comment while others haven't. It's good to discuss around a topic I think | |||
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" To those in the vanilla world, and a lot of the naive girls, I work alongside, 50 shades, gives them a peek into something they know little about. They are fascinated and find it a little hot. But its a book about an abusive relationship it shouldn't be peoples glimpse into the world because a healthy D/s dynamic doesn't involve abuse and rape and disrespect" I haven't read the book so I can't comment on that but I feel the same way about most of the porn I have read and watched. Nearly all of it shows women with no pubic hair who are ready to be fucked with little or no foreplay that shouldn't be people's glimpse into the world of sex. | |||
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" To those in the vanilla world, and a lot of the naive girls, I work alongside, 50 shades, gives them a peek into something they know little about. They are fascinated and find it a little hot. But its a book about an abusive relationship it shouldn't be peoples glimpse into the world because a healthy D/s dynamic doesn't involve abuse and rape and disrespect" Rape? | |||
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" To those in the vanilla world, and a lot of the naive girls, I work alongside, 50 shades, gives them a peek into something they know little about. They are fascinated and find it a little hot. But its a book about an abusive relationship it shouldn't be peoples glimpse into the world because a healthy D/s dynamic doesn't involve abuse and rape and disrespect" Like I said, I've not read the books, I can only go by their reactions, and constant excited nattering, when the books first came into cirulation.  | |||
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" To those in the vanilla world, and a lot of the naive girls, I work alongside, 50 shades, gives them a peek into something they know little about. They are fascinated and find it a little hot. But its a book about an abusive relationship it shouldn't be peoples glimpse into the world because a healthy D/s dynamic doesn't involve abuse and rape and disrespect Like I said, I've not read the books, I can only go by their reactions, and constant excited nattering, when the books first came into cirulation. "And I had no idea there was a rape scene in the books/film. | |||
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"Just seen it!! Crap!!! Lol, i just read your status, i'd be up for making a movie. "grrrr | |||
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" And I had no idea there was a rape scene in the books/film." Didn't get a chance to answer this properly as I was a naughty boy with my link But yes Rape - He ignores her consent multiple times The books romanticise rape and abusive relationships - everytime I see a woman on here whose status says looking for my Mr Grey I want to shake them and shout NO NO NO Mr Grey is an abusive controlling disrespectful rapist please don't go looking for a douche bag like that | |||
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"I guess a lot off you ladies have been looking forward to the release today, hope it is as erotic as the books were so I been told by many enjoy .... "Am I in the minority...I was so disappointed with what I read...nothing new in there... | |||
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"In my opinion. Mr Grey isn't exactly an abusive dom. He gives the gires wants a contract that they can opt out of at any time they like. The vanilla world is unknown to him and the relationship he has with Ana opens up feelings he has never felt before. I loved the books, and liked the film. But I think it would be a very interesting read from his side. But the film left out so much detail It's one of those marmite things. Your either going to love it or hate it..." he tells her he wont do anything without a contract or safeword in place then straight away says forget the contract and gets it on with her. And I am not talking about a critical re_iew of the artistic value of the book or film. I am talking about the fact that it is just a shitty representation of D/s relationships and is not something that curious dominants and submissives should use as an introduction to that side of kink. | |||
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"Just seen it!! Crap!!! " why I am not going .. will see it on tv later . | |||
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"In my opinion. Mr Grey isn't exactly an abusive dom. He gives the gires wants a contract that they can opt out of at any time they like. The vanilla world is unknown to him and the relationship he has with Ana opens up feelings he has never felt before. I loved the books, and liked the film. But I think it would be a very interesting read from his side. But the film left out so much detail It's one of those marmite things. Your either going to love it or hate it... he tells her he wont do anything without a contract or safeword in place then straight away says forget the contract and gets it on with her. And I am not talking about a critical re_iew of the artistic value of the book or film. I am talking about the fact that it is just a shitty representation of D/s relationships and is not something that curious dominants and submissives should use as an introduction to that side of kink. " | |||
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"In my opinion. Mr Grey isn't exactly an abusive dom. He gives the gires wants a contract that they can opt out of at any time they like. The vanilla world is unknown to him and the relationship he has with Ana opens up feelings he has never felt before. I loved the books, and liked the film. But I think it would be a very interesting read from his side. But the film left out so much detail It's one of those marmite things. Your either going to love it or hate it..." A Dom should not be abusive. Anyone who thinks that Dom and Abusive go together is soooo wrong it defies belief. D/S is a lifestyle choice. Abuse is a criminal offence! | |||
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"In my opinion. Mr Grey isn't exactly an abusive dom. " I respect your opinion However I cant understand how you think his behavior is not abusive. This have been copied from a blog about what is wrong with 50 shades and this is just a quick list. Reading her email and phone messages without their knowledge or consent Controlling who she can and cannot spend time with outside of the relationship Refusing to allow that partner any trustworthy source of knowledge about those kinks other than yourself Making a romantic relationship dependent on indulging non-mutual kinks Reacting to the sentiment “no, I don’t want to have sex with you right now” by threatening to tie the speaker up, taking their clothes off, and… having sex with them | |||
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