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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

had that problem in the past where a guy would turn you down for something like looks or something and start kissing your ass when he sees you a few years later looking more amazing? I bet theres a few woman that have had this.

Back in the day, without this coming across bigheaded, I can't say I was merely as pretty or confident as the person ive transitioned and built my self up to be today. But, it really grinds my gears when the guys who denied me back in the day or tried to keep me some secret, now are kissing my ass begging to meet them again or finally wanting a chance. It's a shame cos two of them are nice guys just giving them a chance now would make me the soft looser lol

If this has happended to anyone, what was your reaction back? Did you give them the chance or give them the finger...by that, i mean the middle one in the air lol xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Life is too short for angst. Meet them on your terms, fuck them and go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life is too short for angst. Meet them on your terms, fuck them and go. "

So, be the heartbreaker not the heartbroken.. I like it, I Like it haha

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I'm usually too d*unk to realise when I've turned someone down

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

To be fair to any guys who turned me down 25-30 years ago, I was pretty ugly back then. Not that I'm Julia Roberts now. Just seem to have grown into my looks.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would be interested in them, I like my old faithfuls that have been around since the beginng

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It is about your self belief, if you love the new you... No body can take it away, no body.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair to any guys who turned me down 25-30 years ago, I was pretty ugly back then. Not that I'm Julia Roberts now. Just seem to have grown into my looks."

oh shush!! noones ever ugly. you know what, i guess its there loss. They took more notice on the outside to miss that the inside can be sweet. Maybe, ill take my own advice on this one and ill give these lads the finger and tell em' where to go lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is about your self belief, if you love the new you... No body can take it away, no body."

last year i was a insecure mess, but now, seeing that ive grew into the skin im in i learnt to lighten up and love myself a little more instead of hating myself or getting to caught up over denial etc. So, i guess your right. noone can take that away. self love is the best thing anyone can have x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I will be honest and really trying not to be condescending here and it is not often I compliment at all but your are one hell of a good looking woman! Do you really have to entertain those that rejected you earlier? Can you not start again knowing you are more confident and better looking? And ignore the ones that caused you angst? Good luck in what you decide x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont give em another second of your time please!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will be honest and really trying not to be condescending here and it is not often I compliment at all but your are one hell of a good looking woman! Do you really have to entertain those that rejected you earlier? Can you not start again knowing you are more confident and better looking? And ignore the ones that caused you angst? Good luck in what you decide x"

First time someones actually said something nice about me on here ^.^ Thank you 3 And, you know, I guess that's just it. Block, delete, whatever and move on. I guess as the saying goes, when one page closes, another chapter begins. The one lad im still head over heels for though, hes hot.. but, ey, denied me i may aswell do it back lol xx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I will be honest and really trying not to be condescending here and it is not often I compliment at all but your are one hell of a good looking woman! Do you really have to entertain those that rejected you earlier? Can you not start again knowing you are more confident and better looking? And ignore the ones that caused you angst? Good luck in what you decide x

First time someones actually said something nice about me on here ^.^ Thank you 3 And, you know, I guess that's just it. Block, delete, whatever and move on. I guess as the saying goes, when one page closes, another chapter begins. The one lad im still head over heels for though, hes hot.. but, ey, denied me i may aswell do it back lol xx"

All I am saying is do what is best for you, but I feel as if you have moved on and they have kept tabs on you and realise what they are missing. Do you really want to pity any of them or start your own new chapter full of new excitement? Do you need them to hold you back? I don't think you do, I think you now have enough confidence to do what you know is right for you, so I wish you well and hope you have new happiness in you and continue to grow x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will be honest and really trying not to be condescending here and it is not often I compliment at all but your are one hell of a good looking woman! Do you really have to entertain those that rejected you earlier? Can you not start again knowing you are more confident and better looking? And ignore the ones that caused you angst? Good luck in what you decide x

First time someones actually said something nice about me on here ^.^ Thank you 3 And, you know, I guess that's just it. Block, delete, whatever and move on. I guess as the saying goes, when one page closes, another chapter begins. The one lad im still head over heels for though, hes hot.. but, ey, denied me i may aswell do it back lol xx

All I am saying is do what is best for you, but I feel as if you have moved on and they have kept tabs on you and realise what they are missing. Do you really want to pity any of them or start your own new chapter full of new excitement? Do you need them to hold you back? I don't think you do, I think you now have enough confidence to do what you know is right for you, so I wish you well and hope you have new happiness in you and continue to grow x"

Amen to that. xx

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