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Are you an over thinker?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mr.

I am, lady jools is always complaining that I never just do something I have to analyse every thing before I make a decision.

Buying a car takes month's of research.

Changing phone's is a similar story.

If someone says no.it can't just mean no to me it has a deeper and usually more insidious meaning.

It's so frustrating but it is just the way I am.

Even this post took about three re writes before I thought it ok.

So are you the devil may care

Compulsive type.

Or like me everything has to be thought and mulled over for ages before anything is decided?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm an over-thinker and have set up Over-Thinker's Anonymous. I should resurrect it but I'll have to consider whether that would interrupt the flow of your thread and just remind those in recovery that they are really over-thinkers.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't describe myself as devil may care but I don't overthink, I tend to find small decisions far more difficult to make than large ones though.

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By *ot monkey71Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Not sure, will have to have a think about it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I forgot to say that I am decisive though. I have to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm an over-thinker and have set up Over-Thinker's Anonymous. I should resurrect it but I'll have to consider whether that would interrupt the flow of your thread and just remind those in recovery that they are really over-thinkers.

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Do it, no don't.

But if you do will people ignore this thread? But if you don't will they wonder why...........

You see nothing is easy

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm an over-thinker and have set up Over-Thinker's Anonymous. I should resurrect it but I'll have to consider whether that would interrupt the flow of your thread and just remind those in recovery that they are really over-thinkers.

Do it, no don't.

But if you do will people ignore this thread? But if you don't will they wonder why...........

You see nothing is easy "

Problem solved as I think the thread has been lost in the mists of time. A search produces no results.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Let me think on that for a bit

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to be and also worry worry about everything. Now I wouldn't say I'm a devil not care but I'm kind of normalish

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i use to very much be an overthinker.... now... nah, i think i have learnt much more to live life in the now the older i have gotten.....

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

No.

I mean yes.

I mean possibly.

Sometimes.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do over think things, probably more so before. Have relaxed a bit. But I have my moments of reading into things, mulling things over and not making decisions, putting them off for months sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more of a worrier than an over thinker x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Yes and no!

NO : I make seemingly big decisions really quickly and for example, I know what I want when I buy even bigger things like a car or even a house. Some would say I am (always have been) a risk taker in that way.

Yes : Then again, I like "thinking for the sake of it" in other areas like morality, values, dilemmas, relationships, languages and their different ways of expressing the culture of the linguistic community etc. I can ponder for ages over what made a person act in a particular way on a particular occasion and I really enjoy that reflective stuff.

So, partly overthinker and partly spontaneous to the extreme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and no!

NO : I make seemingly big decisions really quickly and for example, I know what I want when I buy even bigger things like a car or even a house. Some would say I am (always have been) a risk taker in that way.

Yes : Then again, I like "thinking for the sake of it" in other areas like morality, values, dilemmas, relationships, languages and their different ways of expressing the culture of the linguistic community etc. I can ponder for ages over what made a person act in a particular way on a particular occasion and I really enjoy that reflective stuff.

So, partly overthinker and partly spontaneous to the extreme "

This is exactly me. Spooky

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

I am , and I'm not. Or am I ? Hmm give me a minute and Il get back to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I think too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll get back to you in this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes and no!

NO : I make seemingly big decisions really quickly and for example, I know what I want when I buy even bigger things like a car or even a house. Some would say I am (always have been) a risk taker in that way.

Yes : Then again, I like "thinking for the sake of it" in other areas like morality, values, dilemmas, relationships, languages and their different ways of expressing the culture of the linguistic community etc. I can ponder for ages over what made a person act in a particular way on a particular occasion and I really enjoy that reflective stuff.

So, partly overthinker and partly spontaneous to the extreme

This is exactly me. Spooky "

Not me I am afraid.

As a carpenter job's take far longer than they should, as I have to consider every possible way of doing a job before I do it.

Last year we purchased a new tent it took me weeks to find the right one,even after I was still thinking if I had made right decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I think I overthink insignificance sometimes and underthink really significant stuff

I guess it's easier to worry about nothing than to really have something to worry about

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

Yeah I am. Drive myself mad

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Yes and no!

NO : I make seemingly big decisions really quickly and for example, I know what I want when I buy even bigger things like a car or even a house. Some would say I am (always have been) a risk taker in that way.

Yes : Then again, I like "thinking for the sake of it" in other areas like morality, values, dilemmas, relationships, languages and their different ways of expressing the culture of the linguistic community etc. I can ponder for ages over what made a person act in a particular way on a particular occasion and I really enjoy that reflective stuff.

So, partly overthinker and partly spontaneous to the extreme

This is exactly me. Spooky

Not me I am afraid.

As a carpenter job's take far longer than they should, as I have to consider every possible way of doing a job before I do it.

Last year we purchased a new tent it took me weeks to find the right one,even after I was still thinking if I had made right decision. "

Isn t that interesting.. how we are different in our approaches?

My OH also spends a very very long time over decisions what mobile/ car/ holiday whereas I can just decide on that in less than 5 minutes. In fact just changed my mobile Sunday afternoon in this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Puts hand in air) I have one of them, Jason has to research every project. Everything has to have a proper answer even if there isn't one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea,,,i think of shoes a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impulsive with some stuff and carefully research others.

It's a dangerous, unpredictable combination. Dictated by the situation but mostly my mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm ... Maybe... Ummm on the other hand !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Impulsive with some stuff and carefully research others.

It's a dangerous, unpredictable combination. Dictated by the situation but mostly my mood. "

Like it

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