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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Came off this lovely site because I started dating a girl.

Her ex of 5 months - who has a key to her flat (little did i know) - goes into her flat while shes on holiday. Opens up her pc - looks at all the emails we have exchanged - sends me a sh*tty email basically callign her a sl*g. Hacks into her facebook - changes her status to "whoring it on the slopes".

1 week later - she is back with him - what a nice guy and is obvious now what I am doing wrong.

utterly fucked off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know he went in her flat if you wasn't there?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

because I found out he has a key - and she told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky escape then

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If that is the case, have you thought that you might actually be better off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because I found out he has a key - and she told me"
Ah yes, that explains it. Bad luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too complex and you are better to lick any wounds that you may have? And most importantly, for your own preservation fella, move on!!!

All the best.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She obviously has preferences then.

Nice of you to respect them/her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she may really need your help mate he sounds like a sick puppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or she used him for free hol..

but two.sides to every story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came off this lovely site because I started dating a girl.

Her ex of 5 months - who has a key to her flat (little did i know) - goes into her flat while shes on holiday. Opens up her pc - looks at all the emails we have exchanged - sends me a sh*tty email basically callign her a sl*g. Hacks into her facebook - changes her status to "whoring it on the slopes".

1 week later - she is back with him - what a nice guy and is obvious now what I am doing wrong.

utterly fucked off"

When you say "whoring it on the slopes" could you just clarify whether she went skiing, as i suspect, or had a holiday in SE Asia?

Yrs

Mr Clarkson soundalike.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest am just ranting - not sure what I want to hear right now - but thanks for your support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may have had something special and she couldn't be without him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unfortunately some people take abuse as 'caring', i did the same when i was young and stupid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get it - but bloody hell she is old enough to know better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah but not emotionally mature enough to know better.

i imagine her mates will be concerned and hopefully talk some sense into her, especially after the fb thing.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It does seem there is 'entanglement'. I really would get some sleep and see if she is willing to come clean and explain all tomorrow, you'll only torment yourself tonight x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get it - but bloody hell she is old enough to know better

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Odd that you seem to know what is better for her?

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Let them get on with it

I'm guessing you have better things to do with your life than be involved in that mess

Just look on the time you and her had together as a good time and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Probably right shortie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on come to brum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got caught up in a relationship that wasn't over. We live and learn and without going into personal experience we have all been there, so don't take it personal or malicious, because it usually never is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She has baggage, let her carry it and you walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a similar thing where I was being stalked and abused by a previous girlfriend's ex for 2 years. Always my problem if I got upset about it apparently because he was her best friend and couldn't help it. After we split her new fella started getting nasty messages from her ex pretending to be me.

Believe me when I say Walk away as fast as you can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had a similar thing where I was being stalked and abused by a previous girlfriend's ex for 2 years. Always my problem if I got upset about it apparently because he was her best friend and couldn't help it. After we split her new fella started getting nasty messages from her ex pretending to be me.

Believe me when I say Walk away as fast as you can."

Sounds really nasty

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