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Is love at first sight

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By *rtemisia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Merely lust?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know, I think you could be right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if you're buying a puppy it's not.

I sometimes think it isn't. There just seems to be a fate, a chemical change, when meeting a certain someone sometime in life.

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By *rtemisia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"You know, I think you could be right. "

But am I? If anyone has felt love at first sight, has it lasted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, I think you could be right.

But am I? If anyone has felt love at first sight, has it lasted?"

Wasn't quite at first sight but at the second date I knew I wanted Mrs N for keeps. We've been together for 15 years nearly

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

lust IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, I think you could be right.

But am I? If anyone has felt love at first sight, has it lasted?"

13 years mine lasted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me - maybe for others

Sara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can love everyone, even if you hate them.

but that rush and feelings you get when you're obsessed with someone isn't being in love, it's the start of that process if it turns into something deeper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 years and counting. Its worked for us. We met three day before my birthday. So it will be the start of ten soon. Wouldnt change him for the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, I think you could be right.

But am I? If anyone has felt love at first sight, has it lasted?"

Yes, twice.. I am exceptionally lucky, also good at putting myself in harms way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure as I have always been single lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure as I have always been single lol "

There's time, and new legislation lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Love at first sight could not exist in my world.

Lust? Absolutely!

Chemistry ? Definitely!

Love as something that resonates with the depth of a person, their values, their innermost being... I think it needs time.

Maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure as I have always been single lol

There's time, and new legislation lol "
lol yes I am 32, gues I got few years left in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love at first sight could not exist in my world.

Lust? Absolutely!

Chemistry ? Definitely!

Love as something that resonates with the depth of a person, their values, their innermost being... I think it needs time.

Maybe? "

Good point. I see what you mean that it takes time to develop but i do think it's there at the beginning. When it's real anyways.

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By *ephistoCouple
over a year ago

torrance

Yes it has. My wife and I have been together 33 years. I was chilling at school when this beautiful young woman approached me asking for a dime to make a phone call. I didn't have any money so I got a dime from another student and stared into her blue eyes and melted. I asked her out right there. It's been a great ride!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it has. My wife and I have been together 33 years. I was chilling at school when this beautiful young woman approached me asking for a dime to make a phone call. I didn't have any money so I got a dime from another student and stared into her blue eyes and melted. I asked her out right there. It's been a great ride!"

Fantatsic.

And here i am singing "forty cents more for the next three minutes, please....."

Except her dads name wasn't Avery.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"You know, I think you could be right.

But am I? If anyone has felt love at first sight, has it lasted?"

The first time my ex-husband saw me he fell in love with me. He was talking to a female friend of his as I walked towards them. She turned around to see what had got his attention, smiled at me and walked off.

He stood there looking gormless before saying "hi". I was 18...two years later we married.

It lasted 25 years. The death of our only son tore us apart, but we remained close, until my partner moved in, now we don't talk.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

No its not because we love our babies when we see them for the first time

Even if they're ugly little fuckers lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think it is

i remember literally falling inlove at first sight with this girl and anything sexual was the last thing on my mind at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm think it's real list is just the strong feeling for sex, love is such a strong feeling sex takes a back seat. Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love at first sight could not exist in my world.

Lust? Absolutely!

Chemistry ? Definitely!

Love as something that resonates with the depth of a person, their values, their innermost being... I think it needs time.

Maybe? "

Exactly this for me.

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By *rtemisia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"you can love everyone, even if you hate them.

but that rush and feelings you get when you're obsessed with someone isn't being in love, it's the start of that process if it turns into something deeper.

"

True

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By *rtemisia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"i dont think it is

i remember literally falling inlove at first sight with this girl and anything sexual was the last thing on my mind at the time"

Really?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in my world. Not anymore at least.

I'm would never allow myself to feel like that, because its the gateway to being hurt and damaged by other human beings.

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By *carineMan
over a year ago

Armthorpe, Doncaster

Love is just a trick played by DNA to replicate itself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not in my world. Not anymore at least.

I'm would never allow myself to feel like that, because its the gateway to being hurt and damaged by other human beings.

"

I'm with you on that

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Not in my world. Not anymore at least.

I'm would never allow myself to feel like that, because its the gateway to being hurt and damaged by other human beings.

I'm with you on that "

Move over, I am joining you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spread the love around. don't concentrate your love in little patches here and there. you'll always be loved back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely lust and not love.

However there's also a big difference between stomach churning, all consuming lust, rather than just thinking about someone a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, I think you could be right.

But am I? If anyone has felt love at first sight, has it lasted?"

Anyhow, lust at first sight has a much sexier ring to it, but in my case, that could be a significant percentage of the female population

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think lust is possible, however love takes time you have to get to know someone first

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By *ig BrendanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Merely lust?"

Not always some people look angelic and not sexual.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

No, I believe in lust at first sight and I believe you can be taken aback by someone at first sight (aka, become breathless or melt upon first contact without any sexual thought what so ever) but to me, love develops from getting to know them.

- Amy. x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"You know, I think you could be right.

But am I? If anyone has felt love at first sight, has it lasted?

Wasn't quite at first sight but at the second date I knew I wanted Mrs N for keeps. We've been together for 15 years nearly"

Yep! Totally identify with this and my Mrs N is still here 19 years and counting.

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