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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Did you ever once dislike someone you now consider a friend? What changed your impression of them?

One of my closest friends on here, I never really had time for initially.....now I love her to bits...funny old world....the feeling was mutual btw.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I'm a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes someone on here. But now I understand her

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I wouldn't say dislike - but quite a lot of people are nicer in private conversations - softer, less guarded. The forums can make people defensive!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have watched people change and my opinion of them changed with it...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces. "

Whoa!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a cunt. "
bad girl!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I start off liking everyone and then slowly go off them all as I get to know them.

Apart from you Femme, and possibly View and of course anyone reading this that is offended. But that's it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I start off liking everyone and then slowly go off them all as I get to know them.

Apart from you Femme, and possibly View and of course anyone reading this that is offended. But that's it."

I start off disliking everyone and keep it like that and like you I make an exception for anyone who reads this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to get on with the most unlikeliest of people.

I tend to get on with certain "types".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not often I dislike someone. I try not to make judgments on what people write on here. I can forgive people who wrong me very easily in real life,no one on here I haven't met is that important to me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's not often I dislike someone. I try not to make judgments on what people write on here. I can forgive people who wrong me very easily in real life,no one on here I haven't met is that important to me "

I'm sad now

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

There is someone that I could of quite happily of slapped but now we are friends and she is pretty cool...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly when i have a bad vibe about someone it seems to be proved right.

this includes on here and in real life

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I'm a cunt. "

Did you decide that after reading your previous post again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like anyone.....ever....

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces. "

Just out of curiousity does she know that you used to say/think that about her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a cunt.

Did you decide that after reading your previous post again? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she still smell of cat pee lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I'm a cunt.

Did you decide that after reading your previous post again? "

I think she's mentioned it once or twice on other posts.

To answer the OP yes there are people I have not liked a long time ago and now I do. Mostly the 'in' girls from school who were so up their own arses and used to be quite nasty to everyone. I've seen a lot of them recently and they are lovely now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get in with everyone. A few people I can't stand who I just avoid

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Apart from my step mum who I initially disliked because I was young and saw her as a marriage breaker (we've been great friends now for many years) I think if I don't like someone on first impression, that's how it stays...of course, everyone on here are complete and utter arsewipes (no offence)

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

[Removed by poster at 10/02/15 17:20:29]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces.

Why does keep your friends closer but your enemies closer spring in my head when I read your post..."

Ha ha was thinking exact thing

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces.

Why does keep your friends closer but your enemies closer spring in my head when I read your post...

Ha ha was thinking exact thing "

I deleted it as I had make a mistake I meant keep your friends close

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

If I (f) take against someone, there is usually a reason. The one time I was proved wrong was a lady who I just took an instant dislike to and vice versa.

Now we are the best of mates and I have had the privilege of being the godmother to her lovely daughter, who is the daughter I never had.

What changed, funnily enough,neither of us can pinpoint it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't ever remember having taken a dislike to someone then subsequently having a change of heart. I am more likely to be ambivalent about people than actively disliking them. However I have had a couple of friends when I was younger that I ended up disliking for good reason. As for me, most people end up realising I'm a twat eventually, if they don't cotton on immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people you have to warm to. I'm in that bracket...

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I've definitely warmed to people too. But more often than not my gut instinct is usually right

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I try and like everyone .... Til they piss me off

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

A guy I used to go to school with, we never saw eye to eye and even came to blows on more than one occasion. I even broke his nose

Then we grew a pair of bollocks and I ended up being his best man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very rare if I don't like a person ..... There must be a good reason for it too. And that's it really I would not change my mind about them .. I can only think of 3 I don't really like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've definitely warmed to people too. But more often than not my gut instinct is usually right

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts


"I'm a cunt.

Did you decide that after reading your previous post again? "

Yes

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts


"Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces.

Just out of curiousity does she know that you used to say/think that about her? "

Yes and we joke about it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just goes to show eh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you ever once dislike someone you now consider a friend? What changed your impression of them?

One of my closest friends on here, I never really had time for initially.....now I love her to bits...funny old world....the feeling was mutual btw. "

My best mate is a friend of 30 years. We couldnt stand each other at first as he was a right gobby, cocky fucker. It turns out we were too similar.

I am Godfather to his kid (who has the same name as me) and I would do anything for either of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, both on here, and off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. I've never been wrong!

Never!

Friends change through life phases. All part of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't ever remember having taken a dislike to someone then subsequently having a change of heart. I am more likely to be ambivalent about people than actively disliking them. However I have had a couple of friends when I was younger that I ended up disliking for good reason. As for me, most people end up realising I'm a twat eventually, if they don't cotton on immediately "

I knew you where a twat from.the off

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

The lovely friend who told me that people are in our lives

'For a reason, a season or a lifetime' is no longer in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't ever remember having taken a dislike to someone then subsequently having a change of heart. I am more likely to be ambivalent about people than actively disliking them. However I have had a couple of friends when I was younger that I ended up disliking for good reason. As for me, most people end up realising I'm a twat eventually, if they don't cotton on immediately

I knew you where a twat from.the off "

Touché

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, but then generally it takes a lot for me to strongly dislike someone. I may find someone irritating, but then I irritate a lot of people so just take that as part of life and don't judge the person on that.

Obviously anyone who disses leopard print is beyond the pale, though.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes, really didn't like someone now I class her as one of my best friends, what changed my mind...I met her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.. Some people i thought werent so great and turned out to be very close friends!

Then i have made the mistake of liking people and then seeing their true colours and realising they were a knob all along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, most people, even those who possibly think I hate them at worst tend to create a feeling of indifference. And the liklihood is if I meet them in the flesh I am easily swayed.

In real life I'm much the same. Life's too short.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I can't think of anyone I have actively disliked and changed my mind about.

I did meet someone that I found to be the most annoying person to be around. The feeling was mutual. Somehow we fell in love even though neither of us ever expected that would be possible.

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I don't like anyone.....ever...."

Same. I was introduced to a new start in work " This is Jules. She doesn't like anyone until she gets to know you ... then she'll hate you". I couldn't really argue as that's probably quite accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone that I could of quite happily of slapped but now we are friends and she is pretty cool... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah. My best mate, and my rock. I used to hate her at school. She would waddle. She was a big girl so she just sort of swayed as she walked and always bumped into me. And she smelled like cat pee. Like all the time. I hated her so much that I said she had 'flab canals', her fat rolls would create creases where sweat would collect and I said she lost her cat in between the rolls and the cat pissed itself so the wee just flowed through the flab canals. I really didn't like her. And now she's my best friend and I love her to pieces.

Whoa! "

Wow. Lucky girl

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