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By *aughty_kitty OP   Woman
over a year ago

finger licking good

As some of you will know, its nearly a year since Alfie died, as sooooo many of you helped me with his headstone i thought it was about time you had a update, i went today and paid for it. it will be put up in about 14 weeks paperwork and some stuff?? i dont know how i can show u a pic of it???

anyway here is what it is like

its a black granit arch like headstone, with a smaller arch cut out at one side with a little teddy sitting in the small arch..

the wording is going to be..

Alfie- Joe **********

8.5.2009 - 15.09.2009

A son so breathtaking words are not enough.

Love Mummy and Friends xx

i know it does not say much, but to be honest i dont know what to put there as nothing does seem enough!

anyway there is your update and thanks so much to everyone who helped in everyway they did. when its up at the grave i will find a way to show u a pic of it!!!,

Thanks again everyone xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

It sounds beautiful and im sure it will look perfect in Alfies garden xxxx

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I think the words you picked sound perfect.......

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Well done, you looked after him well when he was with you, you doing him proud now he is with the angels xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".........

i know it does not say much, but to be honest i dont know what to put there as nothing does seem enough!

.........."

It doesn't have to say much; it just has to say the right thing. It does that perfectly.

Belated condolences on your loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_aughty_kitty,

Simple wording thats means everything, it's a perfect tribute.

I've never chatted with you, but now am feeling your pain.

Your a strong person to share this with us.

I'd like to share something:

"An Angel in the book of life wrote down my baby's birth and

whispered as she closed the book "too beautiful for earth"

Paddy xxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think the words you have picked are perfect and sums your little boy up for you.

xxxx

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

Yr loss is unimaginable for so many, including us, but sounds like you are coming to terms with yr grief and taking steps to move on

You won't forget him, and nor should you, but you have to rebuild yr life as so many new adventures out there for you that you should enjoy (and dont mean swinging adventures)

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

Kitty i remember it so well hun . i still have some pics you sent me and i treasure those.. The words you have picked are great, you have done that little angel proud.

jan xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds beautiful kitty and im glad you got the fitting tribute for him and how so many people helped you gives you faith in the human nature xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im so pleased that the headstone will soon be in place, it sounds lovely and of cause you can put a picture on facebook for us to see. Thinking of you as alwaysxxxkarenxx

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By *aughty_kitty OP   Woman
over a year ago

finger licking good

for the people on facebook, ilike all 3 of u lol its up on my profile pic at the moment lol but its in white, the one i am getting is not white its black, thansk for ur kind words everyone xxx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

it's beautiful kitty and my thoughts are always wih you and alfie xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hun that's gone so fast

Greta words you have chosen and i hope you take comfort in them

Nice to see you posting hun we miss you

Take care xx

Craig

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

kitty the words are perfect.god bless.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

sounds perfect to me Kitty, sounds like you have got some great friends that have helped you through an awful time in your life xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's beautiful Kitty, a fitting tribute for little Alfie Joe.

We all remember the wee cutie.

Lord love him and you. xxxxxx

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Hey Kitty Babe

Just had a look at the pic, that will look lovely in black. As for the words, both of us sat here with large lumps in out throats!

Having been through the whole term "with" you and through your ordeal at the hospital after Alfie was born, we felt we had lost our little angel to when he was taken from you.

Stay strong hunny

Pete & Les

xxxx xxxx

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

hello you .... its perfect and i know how important this is for you.

with love xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kitty so glad the headstone will soon be in place, cant believe its been a year, our thoughts will be with you on the anniversary xx

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Well done kitty, you've done him, and yourself, very proud.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

We've never forgotten our little mascot.

To Alfie

We will always miss you.

Maddie xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words are never enough ,

but our thoughts are with you kitty.

And how could we ever forget our little alfie.

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot even begin to imagine what you've been through and as an earlier post said it was very brave of you to share it in the forum.

I wish you my heart felt condolences and I hope your beautiful tribute to your son will bring you great comfort.

My thoughts are with you

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am so glad you managed to get the headstone that you wanted. you were in my thoughts.

jan xx

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