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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wife found liable off suspender belt I bought last week wants divorce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoulda hid incriminating evidence better

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Show her a pic of me and tell her it could be a lot worse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks didn't realize that silly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wife found liable off suspender belt I bought last week wants divorce"

From your pictures its time to come out it maybe worth giving a support line a call

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Show her a pic of me and tell her it could be a lot worse. "
not helping

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Show her a pic of me and tell her it could be a lot worse. not helping"

How do you expect us to help? We can't change what's done.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Show her a pic of me and tell her it could be a lot worse. not helping"

Well being practical, I don't think there is a lot any of us on here can do after the event. What sort of help were you wishing for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's a case of damage limitation or coming clean with her / yourself?

Looking for meets etc is probably a big part to consider, if she doesn't know that too. Do you have relief, as in, happy you haven't got to hide it?

Anyway, good luck and I hope you're happy with yourself, however things work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering your opening post, there is no help anyone can give you here.

Come clean and hope she comes around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you not be better off talking to her rather than being on here only you know why you dress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably going to be mainly shock at first, she'll need to get her head around it. She may feel that she doesn't really know you and wonder what else you keep secret.

You need to let her rant, then calm down and then talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May have already been over between you as your on here alone and not as a couple looking for ns fun.

Maybe worth thinking about.

Just my opinion tho

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse, she could have found out all the other things you've been up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your profile and photos time to come clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op i used to crossdress myself. Now i dont know if this will make sense to anyone when i came out to my gf 7 years ago it was a massive relief and i have never had the urge to dress up again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op i used to crossdress myself. Now i dont know if this will make sense to anyone when i came out to my gf 7 years ago it was a massive relief and i have never had the urge to dress up again. "

No sense at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op i used to crossdress myself. Now i dont know if this will make sense to anyone when i came out to my gf 7 years ago it was a massive relief and i have never had the urge to dress up again.

No sense at all"

We split up but have not dressed up again

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

It could just be shock. She might not think they are for you and youre a CD, she could suspect another woman and you playing away. Her mind will be taking her all kinds of places eg if youve hid this what else are you hiding? Etc leads to a feeling of broken trust and unfortunately you only have yourself to blame on that front. Honesty is alwats the best policy even if you think it wont go down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wife found liable off suspender belt I bought last week wants divorce"

Not sure if this is any help as I dont know how I would react to my husband doing this but I do think a divorce is a little extreme. As others said, would you not be able to talk to her about it? Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op i used to crossdress myself. Now i dont know if this will make sense to anyone when i came out to my gf 7 years ago it was a massive relief and i have never had the urge to dress up again.

No sense at all

We split up but have not dressed up again "

Oh ok

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It could just be shock. She might not think they are for you and you're a CD, she could suspect another woman and you playing away."

He's playing away as well though, so she wouldn't be wrong!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Ruddy typical, someone posts a thread, then logs off before we can discover what we can do, if anything, to assist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wife found liable off suspender belt I bought last week wants divorce

Not sure if this is any help as I dont know how I would react to my husband doing this but I do think a divorce is a little extreme. As others said, would you not be able to talk to her about it? Good luck "

I agree that divorce is extreme, but maybe it would be a good thing if your playing away anyway? You'do be able to indulge in any lifestyle choices you wanted if you were on your own.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"It could just be shock. She might not think they are for you and you're a CD, she could suspect another woman and you playing away.

He's playing away as well though, so she wouldn't be wrong!"

Oh i see that now i didnt really read the profile just the topic

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It could have been a valentines gift, unless your sizes are poles apart.

Don't pressure her, give her some space. But consider if now is the time to explain how you like to express yourself.

We don't know you both so it's something that you need to do. Relax, calm yourself and be a loving supportive partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for msgs good n bad I know I e only myself to blame will have to face the cnnsiquences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I know I can't spell

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